When I want to look and feel sexy, nothing beats a pair of beautiful high heels, wear them with stocking and I’m a sex goddess. There is something about the way heels make me stand, walk, move. .. makes me feel incredibly sensual. Yes, I know heels are bad for my back, harsh on my legs and feet. And yes, I know I’m catering to the male idea of what’s erotic. Sure, heels make a woman look sexy, but at a high cost. So what say you men and women — what is it about high heels, and are they worth the discomfort of sore calves and lower back pain?
From Chris
I have to say that I have had a fetish about high heels since I was about 13 years old. What first attracted me to my wife of 15 years was that she always wore heels even on a casual date. We have a very active sex life and she usually wears heels which totally turns me on. My favorite heels are her high heel mules. As I thrust into her her legs come up behind my back, her mules slapping on her feet. Nothing could be better.
From Toni
I have loved heels since I was a teenage girl. My first pair were Candies slides. I got them when I was high school and remember wearing with my skirts, had guys following me down the hallways. Long time ago but still wear heels all the time. I’ve never had any foot problems at all. My husband loves my heels and buys some occasionally for me. All it takes is to slip one of my high heel mules to the end of my toes for him and were off to the bedroom
From Curtis
I guess I’m in the minority here, but I don’t like high heels. When I see an attractive woman in heels I’m thinking “I hope she gets tired of them and takes them off soon”. I’d much rather see a woman barefoot or in flip flops, that’s much sexier than heels. But I’ll readily admit to having a foot fetish, so I’ll always think barefoot is sexiest.
From Andre
Yes! There something about high heels on a woman. It just seems to lift their bottoms that bit higher. And as they walking along in a short skirt that cheeky bottom bounces up and down merrily as if lost in its own momentum. Just doesn’t have the same effect without the high heels. So short skirts and heels, girls, are a marriage made in heaven! Long may they reign to tempt us men.
From Phillip
High heels…they evoke such powerful imagery. There is no doubt the attraction is both physical and emotional. Physically, there is nothing more sexy than the curves forced into a beautiful female foot by high heels, a sultry arch that rises to a calf tensed in a primal sense, as though ready for the “fight or flight” response. Emotionally, there is the unmistakable parallel to female subjugation offset by the fact that she is wearing them by choice, a very powerful combination. That accounts for the allure.
From Louis
Heels ALWAYS makes a woman more attractive to the guys. First, the heels make her calves more shapely and with the hose, it improves her legs immensely. Second, heels adds shape to her ass and alters the way she walks. I have noticed that when women wear heels, they have more swing in their ass, which really gets a guy’s attention. All this combined with a short, slightly tight skirt and a blouse that shows off her cleavage gets her plenty of admirers. I realize that heels are not very comfortable but they are one of the most powerful tools to make any woman look so much better.
From Lady Elf
I believe that all of your options are correct. Heels do make a woman look and feel incredibly sexy or at least I do. But in spite of how I feel when I wear these heels I do and feel the pain of high heels. As a former model I have been told that I have compacted 3 of my lower vertebra just above my hip bone. Now every time I bend my knee & tilt my hips on the left side I lock my hips in place almost like dislocating them. I have to force them back so I can move. For 20 mins after I hobble around in pain, I’m only 25.
From Meri
Have to be honest here; if they’re more than 3 1/2 inches, I do a much better job of turning someone on with them if they’re up in the air. I love to shake my ass as much as the next person, but falling on it just somehow never seems to qualify as sexy no matter how gracefully one does it! I’m in complete awe of women who can strut in five inch stilettos convincingly. Rock on girls!
From Firemermaid
Yeah, they look great…but ohmygoddess do they hurt! My boyfriend found my struggles to walk in the things hilarious…now I’ll wear high heels for bedroom antics, but that’s it. I love cute shoes & boots, but they’ve gotta be comfortable. Here in the rainy northwest, almost everyone asks that shoes be removed at the door anyway–we wear a lot of clogs. Besides, no one’s been in danger of mistaking me for a boy since puberty–I’m already seriously curvy.
From Arne
We man love heels because they belong exclusively to women’s world; it is one of the few “special” clothes which cannot be replicated as “unisex”, and which might look grotesque in the case it is worn by a man. Women know this, and enjoy it. Love heels.
From Doug
I just don’t understand high heels. I certainly don’t find them sexy. They look too painful to even begin to be sexy to me. I think a woman wearing only her Teva’s [sandals] and smile is at her sexiest.
From Stiletto Kyss
For me there is no bigger turn on than a pair of shapely legs with pedicured toes in a pair of black patent leather 5 inch heeled pumps. Like many guys who have posted on this very subject, I have been a high heel fetishist since my childhood. I was raised in an era when women dressed in straight skirts, seamed hose and garters and wore high heels be they pumps, mules or straps.
Women in high heels were very sexy to me as a boy and as a teen. Many of my mother’s friends when visiting our place loved to tease me when I was young and I loved it. To this day, I worship ladies in heels and will do anything for them. I even recall my very first wet dream which arose from a dream about one of my mother’s lady friends who always wore the highest heels imaginable…she was far from beautiful but she sure was sexy.
I love the arch of the foot in them, the toe cleavage, the accentuated calf, the walk, they way women feel sexy in them…yes, I love high heels and the women who wear them!
From Larry
The physics of high heels is also quite interesting. For the woman who knows or learns how to walk and dance in them, the are the sexiest and most flattering item of clothing there is. Her movements are so dainty and feminine that it punches the chivalrous button in me, hard! I can’t be gracious or attentive enough to a woman in a pair of killer heels. It forces a sexy wiggle and, if she walks very fast (much less runs) in them, all kinds of delightful things jiggle and move in ways that drive me crazy.
The most important aspect of high heels, for me at any rate, is the psychological impact they have on me. First is the vulnerable, perilous, and risky nature of them. There she is, balanced on that tiny point, looking calm and self assured. She walks like the heel is as wide as her foot. The heel comes down first and she navigates across the floor as if on air. If she’s on a hard floor, the sound of high heels is an additional sensory reward. I love the sound. She is very vulnerable and a mishap could clearly be serious. All that risk and peril just for me. It makes me very excited.
Finally, the look of her when I have her ankles in my hands, spreading them wide apart (but not painfully so do those groin stretches, girls!), is extremely erotic. So is looking in the mirror or over my shoulder when I’m on top, seeing those high heels pointing at the ceiling. Put her on her knees and move behind her and, when she is thoroughly aroused, those pointed toes come off the bed. Delightful! Mae West said it best “A woman in red stiletto pumps can make a man bark.” Amen!
From Drew
As a (male) massage therapist I can say that high heels, if worn a lot, do dreadful things to a woman’s body. So … they may make a woman look “lovely” but at a high cost, and I don’t think it is at all loving of men to expect women to do harm to themselves in this way simply to increase their attractiveness. My ex-spouse had a pair which basically were reserved for “bedroom” wear … She’d dress up in them to do a striptease but that was about all … and they always came off very quickly.
From Inish
Despite all of the long term horrible things high heels can do to a woman – nothing can beat the feeling of swaggering across a room confidently in high heels. Heels are a tool of seduction, giving graceful curve to ones calves and foot. The look of a sculpted legs, delicately crossed to the side with a well designed heel dangling by ones toe- works better than a hair flip and a giggle anytime. We woman know it is not the shoe, but the relationship we have with them that is sexy; a playful peek into one’s psyche. The bold and daring red pump to the sensuous strappy sandal – women have never dressed for men – but for the effect we have on men’s girlfriends. A woman who can walk tall in heels has no problem being barefoot in the bedroom. No amount of hours in a gym can give my legs the shape a well designed heel can.
From Gussy
Great subject higheels. When I met my wife, she dressed very well and I was so proud of her appearance, but the shoes got to me! Black patent nickles pumps or sweetwalkers both with bows. One day I told her how much they gave me the “hornies” “You mean they get you aroused?” she asked to which I answered heartily,”YES” so from then on in our intimate times she would start foreplay with her black patent heels.
Sometimes she would use one shoe to have me come into as I did her with the other heel. He would sometimes ask if I was bummed out about something, “wanna fuck my fuck-me shoe?”. Beads somehow got in on the act as well, big white shiny beads or small pearl like beads she would wrap round my cock and then put a heel over it an wha-a-a-a-what a feeling.
From Lucille
Ahh woman’s secret weapon, I love them and my beloved (leg) man loves them too, tells me they make my legs go all the way to my armpits. The darling’s got a foot fetish too, sympathizes with their lack of comfort and gives me the best foot massages ever.
Girls, it takes practice, if mums not the type mine wasn’t, find a woman you know, who can walk in heels to show you, an old lover of mine who just happened to be a stripper taught me. I see her now, saying ‘lean back, have faith.’ as she knelt pushing my bum and boobs chirping. ‘Here’s me fanny, me face is following.’ then got me doing it balancing a book on my head, the old ways are the best.
Down sides for me now, well on the wrong side of fifty, bare feet or absolutely flat soles are fine, or the minimum’s a three inch heel otherwise my calves give me hell, a little lower back pain after a day or two unless I’m corsetted (quite often) and two to three week trips general maintenance trips to the chiropodist.
From Alexander
This is a very interesting topic. I think high heels are an important part of the power of women over men. There are so many types of heels, there are the sling back heels, open toe heels and the standard office-type ones in black. They are incredibly sexy, it is an expression of a woman, her sexiness and femininity. It is also the way she walks in them, the way she struts at a party or walking across the office. It is a form of confidence in a woman that she feels good about herself and how she dresses and presents herself. She can wear them as a CEO or at a party, they both deliver an exciting sexual charge in men.
I also like how ladies coordinate the heels to occasion. They can wear black 4″ ones with a skirt, or say wear teal colored ones to go with a sarong for the beach or resort on the ocean. There are many possibilities a woman can design her image, but nonetheless, I approve of women wearing them. Nothing like the sound of a woman walking on a floor in high heels!
From Prerafaelite
Did you know that when a woman wears high heels it alters her centre of gravity…therefore her hips are rotated forward which thrusts out her buttocks behind her and in turn causes her chest to be pushed forward by the increased curvature of her spine, which highlights her womanliness making her more attractive to the average male. There is a basic technical description, other than that they just look lovely.
From Rudy
All of the comments so far have been great! I second all of them especially regarding heels pointing up when I’m on top or when she’s got her legs over my shoulders…oh yes! One thing I’d like to add the form of the foot in the pump (classic styled pumps by the way) is so incredible, it has become sex in itself. That form, arched and tense creates the cleavage that is, in my opinion, one of the most incredible stimulators. Yes, those toes just a peek of cleavage and you have instant hard on! Oh the slings and strappy sandals, with normal thin soles…oh my my my! And when she’s sitting with her gorgeous legs crossed and dangles her high heels, careful now!