3 Sexual Fantasies to Try On
In the book How to Write a Dirty Story by Suzie Bright there is an exercise you could call “Could You Would You?” The exercise is designed to free up your imagination. I invite you to read the following 3 questions, and share your answers with us. —Chris Garcia
1) Explain a sexual fantasy about an experience in the real world you would jump on in an instant if you could have it, no questions asked. Something you would have no reservations about actually doing.
2) Explain an experience you would like to have but only under certain conditions, otherwise not. Under those conditions you’d definitely give yourself to it, otherwise no way.
3) Explain a fantasy you’d love to do in your imagination, something that excites you and maybe gets you off but you’d never in a million years do it in the real world, either because its impossible to perform or too squicky to endure. But something that excites you to play around with in your fantasies.
From Fred
1) In real life: I would like to have sex outdoors and get caught by another couple who would watch us finish. I would like to keep fucking and watch them acting like we didn’t know they were there to see their reaction.
2) Under certain conditions: Join in with another couple having sex and have sex with my wife as we watch them and they watch us. Don’t know if my wife would join in, but maybe under the right conditions she would. It would just be fun to have someone watching us fuck as we watched them fuck.
3) Only in fantasy: Have a threesome with another woman joining us. I would love to watch my wife eat another woman’s pussy and watch her as this other woman went down on her pussy. Then I would love to fuck another woman and have my wife tell me how to fuck her and what position to do it in. Then to fuck her for awhile before returning to this other woman and finishing with fucking her and filling her pussy with cum.
From 2ofus (Husband)
Hi all, my gorgeous wife loves showing off, and enjoyed posting her recent story [see 2ofus (Wife) entry below]. Here’s my story of what I think I could get her to do in another situation. I hope she gets wet thinking about how far I’d make her go.
1) In real life: We have bought tickets to go out to a big fancy party. It will be in a large house, with live music, lots of dancing and mostly people we don’t know. We have been told that there will be at least 100 couples there. I decide to choose what she will wear to the party, the invitation says “elegant and sexy”. I put her clothes out for her to put on. There is a long elegant dress with a split up to the hip and a plunging neckline and some elegant and dressy high heels. No bra or panties are allowed as they would spoil the line of the dress. It will be up to her how much fun she has.
2) Under certain conditions: Again, I get to choose her outfit. This time it is a short, sheer dress that barely covers her bare ass and some very very high heels. When I walk her into the party she gets lots of looks and comments. It’s going to be very difficult for her to keep her pussy covered (assuming she would want to).
3) Only in fantasy: Her appearance is once again at my complete discretion. I put out her platform “stripper” shoes, a leather collar and a leash. We then drive to the party and I walk her in the door in front of over 100 people, with her stark naked, being led by a leash, being unsteady on her heels and with my cum dripping from her already fucked pussy. We stay at the party for hours and she gets dozens of loads of cum during the party.
From Clark
1) In Real Life: To head to the beach and find a nice secluded spot. We lay out and before long I start to enjoy my wife’s pussy. First some fingering and then going down on her to taste her sweetness and get her nice and excited, and to finish it off with a nice fuck. She returns the favor another time by letting me fuck her pussy and then she finishes me off by sucking my cock. Even though the beach is secluded, there still is a chance to be seen if someone comes along.
2) Under Certain Conditions: To be on the beach and have other people at the beach, but far enough away to enjoy some sexy fun together. We start out with rubbing each other and eventually get naked. Then we move into enjoying sex not worrying about if the other people can see what we are doing. She gets on top of me and rides my cock letting her tits bounce as she rides my shaft. We finish regardless if some even gets too close.
3) Only in my fantasies: We are having some great sex on the beach and another couple come along and watch as I fuck my wife. While we are fucking and having oral sex, they join in and start taking off their clothes, then join us in having some great sex. We are watching each other which turns us both on and I finally finish with a good ejaculation and my wife moaning as she orgasms. We then watch as this other couple do the same. We thank each other for the show and go back to enjoying laying out on the beach.
From Raven
1) In Real Life: My husband and I occasionally engage in some light BDSM. He likes to tie me to the bed and fuck me, or bend me over his knee for a good spanking. (And yes, I enjoy being tied up and spanked!)
2) Under Certain Conditions: We are friends with another couple who are active in The Lifestyle and we have a standing invitation to be their guests at the private swingers club they belong to, anytime we are ready.To be honest, I am not interested in swinging with them; they’re just not my type. But I am intrigued with the idea of going to the club, just to see what it’s like.
3) Only In MyFantasy: I want to be a sex slave for my favorite band. They’ll keep me fed, cleaned and clothed (well, some of the time) and in exchange, I must allow myself to be fucked, in any and every hole, by any of them, or all of them, anytime they want. And if I refuse, or try to get away, I will be punished…
From Alex
1) In the real world: Having 24 hours of wild sex with the woman who plays Bones on the TV show, “Bones.” Why stop at 24 hours? I’d like to have her for a week…no, a month.
2) Under certain conditions: A threesome with my wife and another woman who is from out of town and we’d never see again. This would be a one-time, no-string-attached threesome. Wait, that already happened! I need to think this question over some more. Maybe a foursome with my wife and three other women.
3) Only in my fantasies: A gang bang with my wife on the receiving end. I would cap the number of guys at 5, including me. Just a fantasy; I would NEVER want to see this happen.
From Eva St. James
1) In the real world: I would like to go to my lover’s hometown and pass him on the street, just to watch his reaction. Our relationship is on the DL, very very DL, and he lives in a very very small town, where he has lived all his life. It would be interesting to see the emotions play on his face, etc.
2) Under certain conditions: Would like to have said lover at the same time as another man who I have an unconsummated relationship with. I wouldn’t have even thought about this, but lover said once he would live up to any sexual fantasies I had, including other men. The condition would be, of course, that no one would ever know. I think this would be a condition of most fantasies, or they would be experiences instead of fantasies.
3) Only in my fantasies: This is going to sound lame and typical and includes all the things we are told we shouldn’t worry about, so disclaimer. But I would like to have sex in a body that is, well, better. Not saying I’m hideous or unattractive, yada yada, but I would like to have sex in a body with a completely flat tummy, firm perky breasts and some type of ass, I have none, so anything would be an improvement. What having this body would do is to allow me to not worry about jiggling and drooping, etc. Its very neurotic and self-absorbed, but, hey you asked for it.
From Bill
1) In Real Life: Have my wife go out to a local club wearing a short skirt with no panties on and a nice low cut blouse without a bra. I would follow and watch her flash some of the guys in the club.
2) Under Certain Conditions: I would act like I was picking her up and would have a nice time dancing with her and letting my hands wander all over her body. Then watch her in the club dancing with other men and letting them feel her nice ass and look down her blouse at her gorgeous tits. I think it would a turn on to watch some other man take her to a secluded spot in the club and watch him rub her tits and then give her a finger job. To finish the night, I would want to watch her give some guy a hand job there in the club.
3) Only in my Fantasy: To have her invite a man home and watch as he strips her clothes off and suck on her tits and pussy. To watch her give him a blow job and to watch them fuck each other. After he leaves, I want to do the same things to her and fill her pussy with cum.
From ETM355
1) In the real world: I would like to be banged in the ass by three women on the same night and get it all on video. My wife has been pegging me for a while. We get together with another couple a few times a year, and the woman has done me twice. In addition to my wife and her, I would like for my wife’s best friend to join us. She’s definitely up for it. We just need to get her out for a visit. A few years ago, she did a nice grind against my ass until she came one night. Judging from how her hips moved, I’d love to experience what she could do with a strap-on.
2) Under Certain Conditions: A lot would have to fall into place for this one. But I’ve thought about my wife and I meeting a beautiful transsexual and having a great time together. She enjoys being with women but wishes they had a nice package. I get totally turned on by getting boned in the ass by a gorgeous woman. I’ve seen some beautiful transsexuals, and often think about what it would feel like to take it up the ass with one of their real dicks.
3) Only in my fantasies: This is going to sound a little weird. I have never had the desire to jerk another guy off or go down on him. My wife and I were once with two other couples at the same time (and the alcohol was flowing), but the thought never crossed my mind. The strange thing is that I have dreamed on more than one occasion that I could suck my own cock (at least the first couple inches). And one of those dreams was incredibly real. I guess you could call that narcissistic, even though I’ve never been accused of that. Still, thought of going down on myself and exploding in my own mouth is something that I have found quite arousing. Too bad I’m not a contortionist. FYI, this was a very thought provoking topic. Pretty cool.
From Lara
1) In Real Life: I am a bridesmaid for a friend of mine in a few weeks. I showed my dress I’m wearing which is shorter than my normal dresses. I modelled it for my husband without any panties on and asked what he thought. He told me it looked hot but I should be careful since I gave him a few nice shots of my pussy and ass. I was glad he noticed since I was showing off for him. I told him I had some nice panties to wear, but now want to surprise him by going commando and flashing him at the wedding when I get a chance.
2) Under Certain Conditions: Before going home, I would like to go out to a bar or dinner and wear this bridemaids dress again. I plan on being less reserved and want the dress to ride up so my husband has a great view and see if other people notice. I’m hoping I can also give some nice flashes of my ass to some other men around and to have my husband finger me under the table.
3) Only in my Fantasy: I would like my husband to get so turned on fingering me, that when I go to the Ladies room, he follows me and fucks me in the hallway or Ladies room. Even when someone else comes along, he just keeps pounding his cock in me and we give them a nice little show. I don’t think he or I could really ever do this, but it would be nice to be so horny that we would do this.
From Debbie
This is an interesting topic and has me thinking nasty thoughts to come up with ideas.
1)In the real world: My husband and I are going on vacation and I want to surprise him with a new bikini. I purchased a very small bikini hoping to get up enough courage to wear it on vacation. I tried it on and it felt so sexy to wear it, but it sure doesn’t cover much. I have a brazillian wax scheduled just before we go to be able to wear the thong bottom without showing any pubic hair. I also found the top to not always hold things in, but I’m going to let my tits slip out when I get the chance.
2)Under Certain Conditions: I want to have sex on the beach or at the hot tub. If we find ourselves alone at the hot tub, I will remove my bikini and let him finger me awhile, then I want to climb on the side and let him kiss and enjoy my sweetness between my legs. I want to trade places and suck his mr. happy. I don’t know if I want to finish him giving oral or let him do me doggy style before we head back to the room. I will just have to see how it goes.
3) Only in My Fantasies: To trade partners with my friend from work. We talk about sex and I’ve found my panties getting wet while we talk and she tells me about some of what she does with her husband. Her stories are great and I wonder what it would be like to have her husband take me and do some of the things she talks about, especially anal sex. I have never tried it, but I am warming up to the idea and suggested it to my husband. He doesn’t show any desire to give it a try. But I think my friend could teach my husband some new things and then try them on me.
From Danielle
1) In the real world: Make out with an attractive woman. I only have sexual experience with men (so far) but have met several women I felt attracted to. Nothing’s ever come of it because of all sorts of reasons – wrong place or time, already in a relationship, etc – but I’d really like to … expand my knowledge.
2) Under certain conditions: Harder to decide. Two main ones I think, so I’ll give you both: Use my hands – and perhaps mouth – on someone in the train and/or have that other person do the same to me in the train. In the Netherlands, train travel is quite public and respectable so no dark corners, just rows of seats that anyone can pass by. The thrill of other people maybe noticing what’s going on, without being sure they do, turns me on immensely. Also, I’d like watch while a couple have sex, people I know well, that I feel comfortable with, just be an open voyeur and maybe afterwards cuddle up with them.
3) Only in my fantasies: For what I fantasize about but would never do, read “The Story of O” (Pauline Réage, “L’Histoire d’O”). Although I like ‘light’ BDSM, I wouldn’t enjoy some of the sexual acts described there and the submission taken to the extreme. Doesn’t appeal to me.
From San Francisco Femme
1) In Real Life: I’m extremely bi-curious so I’d like to have sex with a truly sensual woman, have her be a patient lover who’s willing to teach me anything and everything about woman-to-woman lovemaking, someone who’s willing to educate me all the way from deep kissing to fisting.
2) Under Certain Conditions: Finding a bisexual male mate to develop a healthy and satisfying relationship with, then finding another male-female bisexual couple for a long-term committed true sensualist lifestyle, where every hole and every opportunity is open for play.So while the boys are giving each other blow jobs the wife and I are pegging them then she and I are 69ing while they enter us from behind with their natural pegs. I’d love it if we could rent fantastic homes around the World for vacations and take our lovemaking to new heights and new places. Imagine a vacation in Greece, a balcony overlooking the sea, couple’s massage and then lovemaking for four under the sun until it sets and then under the stars.
3) Only in my Fantasy: See #2 – is it just a fantasy or could my dreams really come true? This is, quite honestly, how I’d like to live the rest of my sexual life but I don’t know where to begin finding those mates.
From Mark
1) In Real Life: I would like to see my wife bound, ankles to wrists, and then I would spend an hour or more giving her oral sex, making sure that she has many orgasms before I fuck her, catching all on video.
2) Under Certain Conditions: Bring a female friend into the bedroom and have sex in the doggie style position with her while my wife licks her clit, then sit back and watch as my wife takes care of the creampie I leave in our friends pussy.
3) Only in my Fantasy: Public sex with a group, my wife being the center of attention and being taken by three at a time.
From Debra
1) In Real Life: I’ve only been married a few years and things sexually are getting a little boring. I know we need to expand things and try something new and different to add some excitement. Last weekend I surprised my husband by wearing a short skirt and a nice blouse which isn’t too uncommon for me. The surprise was the fact I didn’t wear any panties or bra. I unbuttoned a few extra buttons when we were out for drinks and it gave him a nice look at my tits. I also made sure he noticed my no panties by giving him a few nice flashes. What was nice was I noticed a few other men stealing glances and I was excited to flash them also. One the way home, we parked the car and had sex in the car. We hadn’t done this for years and it was more than just the fingering or hand jobs we used to do. He and I were totally naked enjoying a nice fuck.
2) Under Certain Conditions: To have sex outdoors somewhere. I would like to try a picnic at a park or at the beach and if it was secluded enough, to have him fuck me from behind.
3) Only in my Fantasy: I kind of enjoyed flashing the other men in the bar and I started to fantasies about doing some more flashing. I got so horny thinking about meeting one of these men as I came out of the bathroom and he complimented my on my nice pussy. I would give him another look and he starts to finger me making me all wet with one hand and has his other hand on my tits. I return the favor and give him a nice hand job. When I get back to my husband, we leave and I fuck him right in the parking lot because I am still so wet and horny.
From Matt
1) In Real Life: To capture my wife masturbating on video. She has just recently been willing to give me a show as I watch her stroke her pussy with her fingers. She gets nice and wet and it isn’t long before she inserts two fingers and starts to rub her g-spot. It is just so exciting to watch her pleasure herself and I would love to record it and be able to watch it at other times. I would hope this could also expand to video us having intercourse. Getting the camera set-up to record it all would take some practice to record what we would like. It would be nice to find someone to hold the camera and record the session, but right now, we don’t know anyone we could trust to do this.
2) Under Certain Conditions: Trade our video tapes of her masturbating and us having sex with other couples. I would love to know that other couples are getting turn-on watching our tapes. It would also be nice to watch other couples fucking each other as we were fucking also.
3) Only in my Fantasy: My wife has a friend that is a cheerleader at our university she attends. When we go to the football games, I enjoy watching her and have a fantasy of her coming over after the game with us in her cheerleading uniform. She is ready for some fun and we start to undress her from her uniform. Slowly exposing her bra and panties she has on under her skirt and sweater. My wife unfastens her bra and her tits are exposed with nice erect nipples. She lets my wife suck on her tits and then move down to her panties. Her panties come off as my wife kisses her pussy and begins to eat her nice pussy. We then all get naked and start to fuck and suck each other having a great threesome with these two beautiful women.
From Tim
1) In the Real World: Go to a club with my wife and enter separately for a night of acting single again. She has a very sexy body and I would enjoy seeing her show off her stuff in a nice stretch top and short skirt. I would also insist she wear either thong panties or no panties at all. When dancing she would be free to grind and enjoy it all she feels comfortable with. I would even sneak a few dances with her myself and let her skirt slid up exposing her ass. I also think it would be hot to watch some other guys feeling her ass and tits as they dance and her grinding against their hard cocks.
2) Under Certain Conditions: Invite another person into our love sessions. We both have interests in a threesome and would like to give it a try. We just haven’t found the right person or situation to give it a try. She would like to taste another woman’s pussy, and I would love to watch her enjoy that pussy. Having a different pussy to taste and fuck would be nice for me too.
3) Only in my Fantasy: To go clubbing and to have sex on the middle of the dance floor. It gets out of control and another guy starts to fuck my wife and I turn and fuck his girlfriend. Before long there are multiple people sucking each other cocks, eating pussy, and fucking on the dance floor with a big audience watching.
From Oxartes
1) In the real world: Recalling one of my recent stories, get buck naked with Mrs. Oxartes & do it on a desk at the office (mine or hers).
2) Under certain conditions: If I weren’t married, I’d love to make love with a black or Arab Muslim woman (these themes have popped up in 4 of my older stories).
3) Only in my fantasies: Now, I’m going tp get all enigmatic & dogmatic on y’all. There’s a well-known debate in classical Jewish sources about kashrut (the noun; “kosher” is the adjective) in which one sage said that he was proud never to have had a craving, or even a curiosity, to try shellfish, pork, etc.,because such things disgust him. One of his colleagues said that if these things disgusted him so much that he abstained from them, where was God in that equation? Rather, the second Sage said, we should say that we crave/are curious to try/ these things but abstain from them because we believe that it is God’s will. So, I’ll admit that I am curious about certain things and might like to experiment a little but I will never indulge these curiosities because, as an orthodox Jew, I belive God has commanded me not to do so. But neither can I deny that these curiosities exist way, way down in a small, well-concealed, deeply hidden section of my consciousness, where they will never see the light of day and are indulged only in my fantasies or in an occasional story. Such is life & its choices.
From Clare Smith
1) In the real world: have a 121 with a master/teacher to introduce me to the delights of erotic BDSM (e.g. blindfolded and cuffed – NOT the heavy stuff), but only if I could do it to him in return.
2) Under certain conditions: Masturbate the guy I was dancing with in a dark nightclub in the middle of the dance floor, providing he did the same to me during a very loud tune being played by the DJ (to drown the noise I might make!)
3) Only in my fantasies: To be taken, standing on a bus, where I would have no way of escape, but would be shielded by the four men doing the taking and fully surrounding me so that no one on the bus knew it was happening.
From Greg
1) In the real world: To spend a day outdoors enjoying each other and working up to some great sex. Just start out by teasing each other with the clothing we are wearing, eventually removing that clothing and being naked for each other. Then start some light touching of each other, moving to watching each other masturbate, and then just moving in taking turns giving each other oral, bringing her to an orgasm, but her taking me right to the brink of release, then stopping. Later on we would just start fucking each other and finally both have a big orgasm.
2) Under Certain Conditions: My wife and I joining another couple having sex. Not with them, but just in the same location so we can watch them and they could watch us. I imagine this could happen at some resort we are staying at in the hot tub late at night, or on the beach.
3) Only in Fantasy: To do some swinging. I would love to feel another woman’s pussy wrapped around my cock and to figure out what turns her on. To have a new experience receiving a blow job. Then to know my wife is handling some other man’s cock and experiencing it filling her delightful pussy. Her being eaten by another man so he gets to taste her sweet juices and her sucking on his cock watching him enjoy her sucking his cock.
1) In the Real World: I pay a woman, a professional, to fuck me up the ass with a strap-on dildo. When we meet in a hotel room in a distant city, I find she is intelligent and interesting as well as beautiful. She has me strip and display myself naked in various positions while confessing in detail my sexual experiences and desires involving anal play. She only strips down to her lingerie. She slowly opens my anus with her fingers and a series of sex toys, using a lot of lubricant and talking “dirty” the whole time. Then she puts on the strap-on and fucks me for a long time, mainly from behind, pausing only occasionally to spank me and add lubricant.
2) Under Certain Conditions: My wife and I have sex on an isolated beach in full daylight. We have done this and it was great, giving each other oral sex and then having intercourse missionary position on top of a towel. In my fantasy we have a really big towel, which keeps us away from the sand, and we take our time and enjoy a number of positions for oral sex, anal fingering, and intercourse. Afterward we take a refreshing swim.
3) Only in my Fantasy: Visiting a beach once with the girlfriend I had back in my twenties, we ran into a guy she knew from high school. Although I am straight and have never done anything sexual with another man, I was immediately attracted to him. I imagine a threesome in which the main events are as follows: 1) She and I kneel together in front of him, licking and sucking his cock and balls; 2) She gives me analingus while I am on all fours. Then she lubricates my anus and fingers me until I’m loose and open; 3) He fucks me up the ass from behind, his balls slapping against mine. She gets underneath and I fuck her while he takes my anal virginity. We come at the same time, crying out in pleasure. I love the feeling of his hot, thick semen shooting inside my ravaged rectum.