Porn Is Not For Women

Or is it? You tell us...

Here's a couple of spots sure to please  women...

• I Feel Myself is a voyeurs delight, an intensely erotic experience of watching women masturbate to orgasm. This is the real deal, the orgasm sequences are absolutely genuine and unscripted. The results is intimate and incredibly erotic.

• Sex & Submission - This site is for BDSM afficionados who want to see submissive women live out their sexual fantasies of intense sex where partners take full control. Sex & Submission is extraordinarily erotic, you've got to see to believe it—there's a lot of free content so go take a look.

From Anonymous
I tried getting into porn when I was younger, but what I saw was obviously intended for a male audience. Now that I'm older, I've come to realise that many of these women have been sexually abused as children and I can't support an industry that exploits women this way.

Linda Marchiano aka Lovelace said she was abused by her husband and raped in the making of Deep Throat. The whole premise of that movie is disgusting. Traci Lords said she was raped at age 10 and that her mother's boyfriend molested her. She came out and said that her traumatic sexual experiences ultimately led her to porn. Why do so many people, especially want to ignore this ugly reality? You can have sex and masturbate without getting off to other women being exploited. Hell, make movies of yourself if you want to watch people having sex!

I once had a virgin boyfriend learned his sexuality entirely from porn movies. He was the worst lover I've had. He actually thought I would enjoy defecating on him! Disgusting. I have heard other similar things from women who were involved with men who are porn addicts.

I can't support an industry which continues to mis-educate men as to what women actually enjoy sexually, sorry having sex with dogs does not do it for me, neither do any of the other degrading and misogynist things I've seen in and heard about porn.

Porn is gross. I want sex that doesn't involve degrading and exploiting sexually abused women.

From Gin
I'm a woman I might like porn if it was dominating and demeaning enough but I haven't seen any of that so I stick to finding that in stories.

From Anonymous
I'm a 23 year old female, and I enjoy porn. my husband and I enjoy watching it together and I enjoy watching it while I'm by myself, and he does too. I don't see anything wrong with it. I enjoy looking at pictures, reading stories, and hell even writing my own and giving them to my husband for fun. If you want it to, it can open up a whole new level of enjoyment for both you and your partner.

From Varenius
I go through phases where I'm really into porn and phases where it doesn't interest me at all. I am heterosexual but I prefer to look at naked women -- perhaps because I identify with them when I see them pleasuring themselves or men or other women.

I become very aroused from porn, and have since I was a young girl. I think a lot of porn involves issues of dominance and men controlling women, and this doesn't please me, but porn in the pure sense of people having sex is a healthy and enjoyable addition to my life.

I find it immensely exciting to look at porn with a man and talk to him about what he thinks of a woman's breasts or vulva.

From Kitti
Hi, I'm a 24 year old college girl who likes porn. Porn has always been a turn-on for me. I have to agree with what the others have said, though, a lot of it is lacking, and with a lot of it, I've been extremely turned-off by it instead of extremely turned-on by it.

I would love to see more of men's faces in pornography. I find most porn just shows the woman reacting (with much fakeness most of the time). I find that boring, since I like to place myself in the fantasy. I want to see the man getting off, I want to see his face and hear him moaning and getting turned on! I would love to see that!! I want to see his facial expressions. 

I want to see a guy jacking off, too, a real man, something different than a gay porn site. I enjoy some gay porn too, but I'd like to see a site where you just know the guy is a real studly manly man and is jacking off to porn or something. Just my 2 cents!

From Anonymous
I'm a woman who likes porn, but not dominating or demeaning situations. I'm strictly heterosexual, but I love woman/woman and man/man porn. Even better, I like to read erotic stories of romantic sexual encounters either between a man and a woman, or woman/woman or man/man. What excites me the most about lesbian or gay erotica is when one or both partners aren't lesbian or gay but end up enjoying the situation intensely. 

From ShyGurl
I love all of you out there! I thoroughly enjoy your comments on this site. Anyway, yes women, definitely this woman, like porn! I prefer images of women but that may be because 1) I've never seen two men in a romantic/sexual scene and 2) the men-women scenes are too artificial, totally heartless (boring) and oftentimes way too violent.

I like the way women ease up to one another and then get busy! I saw a snippet of a video series featuring professional porn actresses with amateur exhibitionists. Hot, hot, hot! No plot to speak of but the sheer enthusiasm of the amateur was very sexy!

I've got to find a way to get a good video in the house. My husband is very conservative (alas, my toys do not get shared). After all these years of bad-talking traditional porn I don't know how he's gonna take it when he sees me getting busy by the light of an erotic video...

From Regina
I LOVE porn. I had to get my husband into it. Now he enjoys it. But I still love it more than him. I like to watch girl on girl, girl on boy, boy on boy, boy boy girl, girl girl boy, orgies, and all.

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