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People are weird. Just last night some guy told me, "Porn is not for women!" I was like, "WHAT?" Ugh...I'm a woman and well damn, I love porn! Oh and yes, I have lots of porn on my computer!   —Christine


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From Stacy
I'm much more into soft porn than the hard stuff (which is what my husband likes).  I think I'd get VERY hot if I were to watch two guys going at it...but my husband would freak out if I asked to rent a DVD like that.

I know what works for me is reading erotica...and again, when I read about two guys having sex, I get very very hot and bothered.

So for me, the bottom line is, let me read instead of watch.

From Nervicula
I'm a woman, and I've been in love with porn since I was 18 and saw "Emmanuelle" at a movie theater.  I'm in my 50's now, and have a closet full of sexy movies by professionals and amateurs alike. Porn is my de-stresser and my stimulator.

From Graham
My wife is very pretty, a lady who gives off vibrant sex appeal but no 'babe' having given birth to our two children but she got her figure back and has quite buxom boobs. She did some modelling at my photographic club, lingerie and stockings and was a big hit. Some of the work was published on our club's website (face not shown) and this resulted in her being invited to be an amateur model in a photo booth feature at an erotica show.

She enjoyed it and one evening had dinner with a guy who had just set up an amateur porn website, suggesting she would work very well with at least two of the guys who regularly featured on the site. She then met the two guys who suggested they set up a film session that evening at their hotel. My wife rang me urgently for some advice. I told her, if it was safe, 'go for it!' She did and really enjoyed it, totally relaxed in having two guys fucking her, she sucking them, while another guy filmed them.

The site is free so there was no fee but as my wife said she did it for the experience and the fun, not the dollars.

From Chocolategirl70
I love porn. I think women need to express themselves when it comes to this subject. We were taught that it is nasty and girls shouldn't do that. It was taboo for a woman to enjoy fellatio, but everyone is doing it. I enjoy seeing it because one day I plan to give head to my significant other. I think it is okay for a woman to be adventurous, we can surprise men.

From Trixie
I'm a woman and I have to say I definately enjoy porn. I'm straight but I love gay male/male porn. Definately pushes my buttons. Also, what kind of porn women prefer can't be generalized. Some women like the storyline and the intimacy, but personally I like my porn hardcore, and to the point. I find the extra talking and acting that leads into the xxxing is boring.

I love directors such as Chi Chi Larue, who do more hardcore/bondage type films. She's genius!

[Chi Chi LaRue, born Larry David Paciotti on November 8, 1959, is alternately referred to as "he" and "she" so the confusion is understandable.]

From Susan from Canada
I am extremely turned on by not length, but rather the 'girth' of a man's penis - the thicker the more interested I am. It really brings out the 'feminity' in my being. It would be great if women would direct and write more porn movies as I think there would be a lot more romance and sensuality in them.

From Robert
Again, I'd like to start by thanking you for this site. This is the first site I've found that really discusses erotica, porn, sensuality and sexuality.

The question at hand, is porn for women? Yes, and no. I'm a guy who loves porn. I've been watching since I was about 9. And back then porn was better in a lot of ways. It was still on film. The set ups were no more realistic, but it was more beautiful and women were stronger. The sexual revolution empowered women. And it was the stronger more mature women that I really loved, and still do.

I've been really disgusted with the modern trend in porn, to be brutal and demeaning of women. It doesn't appeal to me at all. But I've also been disappointed with the few porn designed by women. I found it too soft. I would love to see more of a story with strong characters and great sex! But I also jack off to porn I wouldn't share with my wife.

I would love suggestions on porn that is good for couples.

From the editor:  We suggest you browse through our choices in Best Adult Movies, in particular the pages "Quality Productions: Noteworthy Filming," and "Porn With A Plot: Good for Couples".

From Anonymous
I am a woman who loves porn, nothing that I enjoy better than to see a man's dick entering and filling the vagina to the core and men fucking men, the variety of positions and places.

From klittykat
I Love Porn! But unfortunately, it's all so predictable. The stuff that gets me off is not readily available. For example, my first orgasm was with another female. She rubbed her cute little pussy all over mine and gave me a clitoral orgasm. Since then, I've been studying my own orgasm, what it looks like in the mirror, how it feels when I manipulate myself in different ways, how I can hold it back, how quickly I can force an orgasm, etc. 

Everything I've known to be a genuine female orgasm, clitoral or vaginal, are not portrayed in adult films enough to give me a satisfactory selection of movies. A lot of times, I'm stuck a-whackin' off to the same rare scene that turns me on, but that gets old after a while, and then the hunt begins again. I'm not saying my fetish-type vids are not out there. I have seen a few films with women bumping donuts (that's what gets me off more than anything), I've seen a few that had women having real clitoral orgasms, and I've seen the pussy twitching as it orgasmed. These type films are always few and far in between. I'm also big on cream pies (internal ejaculation), but there are a fair amount of those films considering the AIDS epidemic.


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