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From Kelcalman
I had a girlfriend who would wake me at 2 or 3 in the AM if she found porn on the computer. She would get so upset and drill me for hours about it. It sickened me until the day she realized that her father looked at it as well. We had a long talk and I explained to her that men are like that. We love the female body.

Why do women act as if porn is so horrible? I once had a girlfriend that claimed to never want to see porn. One day she came by my place and visited. She wondered why the television was on the dining room table. I said just wait and find out. I turned it on and she saw nothing but a pussy being eaten and licked. She said nothing but she took it all in.

I walked over to her and touched her shoulder and I can swear I saw her moving her pussy in her pants. She was pumping her pussy slowly as if the pleasure was to much to take. Her mouth was opened and her breathing was labored. I asked her how did she like seeing a pussy get licked? She said, and I couldn't believe it, I don't like porn. I almost fell out.

So to tested her, I got on my knees behind her as the video played. I slowly touched her face and kissed her neck. She tried to resist. I said, "if you don't like porn, why is your pussy so hot? She closed her eyes and said "I don't like porn." I said "I'd bet if I took off your pants your panties would be soaked." Why the hell did she still try to deny how she felt.

I moved in for the kill when she had to go to the bathroom. She went in and sat on the toilet. I opened the door and got on my knees and opened her legs. She was so fucking wet I couldn't believe my luck. I picked her up and took her to the big fluffy chair I had in the dining room for this purpose. I kissed her so deeply until we couldn't breath. It was all about her and I was out to give her the time of her life. I gently buried my face in her pussy and washed it with her pussy juice. I can't tell you how sweet her pussy was. She must have been 102 degrees because her pussy was literally hot.

I swallowed as much of her as I could before she screamed with delight. She sucked my dripping dick like she was desperate for food. She tasted my cum and enjoyed every bit. We fucked each other for about a hour then I came so hard inside her until we both shouted I love you to each other.

Life was not the same for her and porn was her favorite kind of movie. She learned how to drink my cum and love it. I learned that she was a woman who was locked inside a box created by the desire to be a "lady," but to me she was all woman. She had to move out of town but we talk about old times. Although we are involved with others, we know what will happen if we both met again. We can't wait.

From Emma T
As a woman, I really like gay male porn. Interestingly, what I don't like generally is heterosexual blow job scenes but I love watching male-on-male blow jobs. I think the aggression/animalism that is easily accommodated in gay male sex is just too unpleasant for me in typical heterosex porn.

From Kat
Ok I am a female and I watch porn by myself everyday, because my fiance will either not keep me fulfilled, or he just can't seem to have sexual relations at least once every two days. I masturbate to porn and think to myself the whole time I wish he were here instead. The only thing porn does for me from a females perspective is kill the need for that moment not for the moment when I actually do get some from him.

I really wish he would watch porn with me and maybe get some ideas from it, but I think that he gets the idea that a lot of females do about their men watching it that it weirds him out and he thinks that he is just not enough for me. In fact that is not the case I just need a little more passion and until I get it I will continue to watch porn in order to fulfill my sexual desires for him.

From Anonymous
This may seem rather simplistic, but I think the only reason men seem to like porn more than women is that they don't have very good imaginations. I kind of like some porn, certainly a nice change of pace sometimes, but when I'm in the mood for self-love, the porn in my head is simply way better than anything that exists anywhere else. Any combination of men, any location, all of them saying and doing exactly what I want. The only difference between that and porn is that mine requires a good enough imagination for the fantasy to seem real.

From Stacy
I'm much more into soft porn than the hard stuff (which is what my husband likes).  I think I'd get VERY hot if I were to watch two guys going at it...but my husband would freak out if I asked to rent a DVD like that.

I know what works for me is reading erotica...and again, when I read about two guys having sex, I get very very hot and bothered.

So for me, the bottom line is, let me read instead of watch.

From Nervicula
I'm a woman, and I've been in love with porn since I was 18 and saw "Emmanuelle" at a movie theater.  I'm in my 50's now, and have a closet full of sexy movies by professionals and amateurs alike. Porn is my de-stresser and my stimulator.

From Graham
My wife is very pretty, a lady who gives off vibrant sex appeal but no 'babe' having given birth to our two children but she got her figure back and has quite buxom boobs. She did some modelling at my photographic club, lingerie and stockings and was a big hit. Some of the work was published on our club's website (face not shown) and this resulted in her being invited to be an amateur model in a photo booth feature at an erotica show.

She enjoyed it and one evening had dinner with a guy who had just set up an amateur porn website, suggesting she would work very well with at least two of the guys who regularly featured on the site. She then met the two guys who suggested they set up a film session that evening at their hotel. My wife rang me urgently for some advice. I told her, if it was safe, 'go for it!' She did and really enjoyed it, totally relaxed in having two guys fucking her, she sucking them, while another guy filmed them.

The site is free so there was no fee but as my wife said she did it for the experience and the fun, not the dollars.

From Chocolategirl70
I love porn. I think women need to express themselves when it comes to this subject. We were taught that it is nasty and girls shouldn't do that. It was taboo for a woman to enjoy fellatio, but everyone is doing it. I enjoy seeing it because one day I plan to give head to my significant other. I think it is okay for a woman to be adventurous, we can surprise men.

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