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From Anonymous
We've been visiting clubs for about 10 years. Some lessons we've learned include the following:

-Both wife and I are well known in our community, so we generally visit out of town clubs - usually 5-6 times per year in conjunction with business trips and vacations.

- All clubs have the rule, "No means no!" However, we'd also like to add, "Yes means yes, but only within the confines of the club." One bad experience locally early on and the out of town club policy above was born.

- Do your homework well ahead of time. We're on a few message boards which can make recommendations by city and fill us in on the demographics and type of clientele at specific clubs.

- Don't feel like you have to partner up on every visit. It took us a couple of tries before we made a connection.

- Be open-minded about who you partner up with. One time we met a couple in a Miami club that was our absolute polar opposite (more conservative, a little older) . . . and they absolutely took us to school. Absolutely mind blowing!

- It doesn't take a genius to figure out that fit people make more connections. I took off about 25 lbs about 3 years ago and it's made all the difference in the world.

- Most people at clubs don't look like models (we certainly aren't perfect), but at least look your best. Put on some nice clothes, wear some nice jewelry, get your hair done, etc., etc. People you meet will notice and appreciate the effort.

- Finally, keep in mind that visiting clubs is like a spice. A little bit can go a long way. Avoid making going to clubs the focus of your relationship.

From Lori
Look, don't over-intellectulize it. We're in our early fifties, married for 25 years and we've just swung, and boy did we enjoy it, like blowing away cobwebs! We went to a partner swap party, met some couples our age, background, interests etc. Our premise was simple - have some enjoyable sex with people we don't know, may never meet again, enjoy it, have some fun! And we did. I had vaginal/anal/oral sex with three men I'd never met before and it just opened my mind and in all the fun I learnt a lot which I then took to the marriage bed for sex with hubby! We don't plan to do it every week but do it again we certainly will!

From Bella
My husband and I went to a swing club recently (we live in London), mainly out of curiosity but it was one of hubby’s birthday presents to me. We’re both 40 and have been married since 1990 and I’ve always said to hubby that I’m genuinely interested in partner swapping (with the ‘right’ couple) but with so many awful stories about swinging have been very reluctant. So, we’ve always left it to something we might do on holiday, given meeting that right couple. 

Then hubby read about this very exclusive swing club in London, opening only on a Saturday night, couples only, entrance by invitation only and (I learnt later) a very expensive entry fee, £250 per person! From the entrance we climbed the stairs to the bar area, very plush, dimly lit, where we chatted to other couples. Then our table for dinner was ready and we went to the next level to the restaurant, set around a disco floor. There another couple started to talk to us, slightly older but very attractive and well dressed. 

Between courses hubby and I danced then, over coffee, the husband of the other couple asked me to dance. He was handsome, in his fifties, very sophisticated and witty, full of energy when dancing (for an hour to some old soul stuff!) and when the slow tracks came on I had no qualms about putting my arms around his shoulders, kissing him, his erection making me quite excited! 

I wasn’t in the least shocked when I heard myself ask him something along the lines of ‘is there somewhere we can go?’ We went to the next floor where we found a small room with some large bean bags on the floor. We undressed and made love, he being very appreciative of my black seamed stockings, me very appreciative of his being ‘well hung’. A little later I sucked him off, and once he’d recovered we made love a second time, this occasion anally, something I enjoy with hubby but incredibly exciting with another man who was so well-endowed. 

Afterwards we exchanged email addresses before I became very conscious that I’d left hubby behind in the restaurant but assumed that he had indulged with hubby’s wife. He had and after drinks in the bar with them we left. We met them again at their flat one Sunday for lunch and après sex and they asked me to join them (leave hubby behind!) for a threesome which I did, with hubby’s agreement, the evening doing much to develop my bi- sexual tendencies. 

We’re not sure what to do next. We’ll go on seeing the other couple until we all get bored but the jury’s out on whether we do anything before then to get more involved in the swinging scene, given that we cannot afford to go each month to a very expensive, if exclusive, swing club.

From Tee and Gee
In our fifties we regard ourselves as being in the prime of our lives and as such enjoy our sex, three or four times a week, more frequently when we are on vacation mode. It was while we were on a two week break from our careers we were intriqued by an ad in the local what's on magazine. We both deduced it was a swing club and looked at each other. Our eyes said it, 'shall we try it?'.

Now, in 30 years of marriage the two of us have only ever strayed once, during a very bad period in the marriage, but we have discussed joining a couple we know who belong to a small group who partner swap. We visited the club, twice. The first time we were mere spectators and enjoyed watching other couples swap and having great sex. Our second visit we indulged, meeting a couple who were friendly, intelligent and very horny. It was a great experience, we were in the same room, watched by other couples through the window and my wife proved she is a very sexy lady, very interested in exciting sex and more than able to satisfy any man.

It was, of course, safe sex, condoms were worn for all the sex acts, including oral, my wife admitting later she missed the rush of her partner's cum in both her mouth and vagina, but said her 'mind was blown' by her partner's size in her anus. We exchanged cell numbers and met the couple again a few nights later in our hotel room. A lot more relaxed and more enjoyable we eventually abandoned the condoms in the last of three sessions that evening.

Back home, we're back to being an ordinary married couple but our friends' invitation to join them at their next swing party will get a very firm 'yes please' from us.

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