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What goes on at these parties?



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Adam & Eve

From Joe
My wife and I swing, and we only go to clubs or parties that insist that all members practise safe sex. I have to say that I'm appalled at how many entries here don't mention safe sex within the swinging community. The consequances of swinging at clubs or parties (different, of course, with a long time aquantaces known to be clean of sexual transmitted diseases) without protection is a seriously bad idea. Be careful, folks, play but play safely. The price to pay otherwise is damn scary: think Chlamydia, Genital warts, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis, Syphilis, AIDS)

From SilkyWmn
My husband and I have been swinging for about 6 yrs and we are in our twenties. We attend a Monthly swing club in Nebraska. They have themes to dress to to make it fun. It is "Off Premise" but held in a great hotel. There is about 300 people that attend every party. The people which range from 19-50 and always see new faces. We have been attending this same club from Sept. 02' every month. We go even if we are not intending to play. It is held in a reception hall with a professional DJ, and food.

I would recommend if you do attend to go to a club and not a house party. There is quite a few in the area but this one is the best of all. They give out prizes they let us vendor the party with our adult items. They have "rules" like any other club, here is the rule at one club

RULES OF THE GAME!

  • This list of rules is intended to orient those who wish to participate in our club. Anyone violating the rules set forth will not be invited back!
  • All guests must be registered to attend!
  • No Walk-Ins Allowed!
  • You WILL NOT be let into the party without being on the guest list. Sorry!
  • For the safety of all involved we must check photo id's at the door. You must be 21 to attend.
  • Confidentiality and Discretion are a must!
  • All guests will be required to sign a non-disclosure confidentiality agreement when attending a function for the first time. If you do not wish to sign this agreement, we cannot let you into the function.
  • We will STRICTLY enforce NO MEANS NO.
  • Please respect others boundaries and wishes.
  • At no time will any member harass another member.
  • If you are signed up as a couple, you MUST come as a couple.
  • No Camera's or Video equipment, no matter how much fun it would be! This is for the privacy of all involved.
  • No weapons or drugs are strictly prohibited! If you are caught you will be removed IMMEDIATELY and the authorities will be notified.
  • No Public Nudity! NO FLASHING! NONE! ANYWHERE! In the party area, hallways, lobby, pool area, or any other place persons NOT associated with our group could see you. If this rule is violated, you will be asked to leave immediately!

Since our club meets in various locations... we are considered an off premise club. This means no public displays or encounters. When we hold our functions in a hotel setting, we will provide a hospitality suite for those not staying over. Visiting the club does NOT guarantee or imply an type of encounter. Any type of encounter is by mutual consent only. Guests are liable for all or any encounters. You will be asked to leave if these rules are violated.

I say at least visit one club and see if you like it. Just sit back and watch the first time. Sign up to any swinger sites and get to know people that attend the clubs. Visit http://www.nasca.com and see where a swinger club is near you.

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