Swing Clubs
What Goes On At These Parties?

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From Bella
My husband and I went to a swing club recently (we live in London), mainly out of curiosity but it was one of hubby’s birthday presents to me. We’re both 40 and have been married since 1990 and I’ve always said to hubby that I’m genuinely interested in partner swapping (with the ‘right’ couple) but with so many awful stories about swinging have been very reluctant. So, we’ve always left it to something we might do on holiday, given meeting that right couple. 

Then hubby read about this very exclusive swing club in London, opening only on a Saturday night, couples only, entrance by invitation only and (I learnt later) a very expensive entry fee, £250 per person! From the entrance we climbed the stairs to the bar area, very plush, dimly lit, where we chatted to other couples. Then our table for dinner was ready and we went to the next level to the restaurant, set around a disco floor. There another couple started to talk to us, slightly older but very attractive and well dressed. 

Between courses hubby and I danced then, over coffee, the husband of the other couple asked me to dance. He was handsome, in his fifties, very sophisticated and witty, full of energy when dancing (for an hour to some old soul stuff!) and when the slow tracks came on I had no qualms about putting my arms around his shoulders, kissing him, his erection making me quite excited! 

I wasn’t in the least shocked when I heard myself ask him something along the lines of ‘is there somewhere we can go?’ We went to the next floor where we found a small room with some large bean bags on the floor. We undressed and made love, he being very appreciative of my black seamed stockings, me very appreciative of his being ‘well hung’. A little later I sucked him off, and once he’d recovered we made love a second time, this occasion anally, something I enjoy with hubby but incredibly exciting with another man who was so well-endowed. 

Afterwards we exchanged email addresses before I became very conscious that I’d left hubby behind in the restaurant but assumed that he had indulged with hubby’s wife. He had and after drinks in the bar with them we left. We met them again at their flat one Sunday for lunch and après sex and they asked me to join them (leave hubby behind!) for a threesome which I did, with hubby’s agreement, the evening doing much to develop my bi- sexual tendencies. 

We’re not sure what to do next. We’ll go on seeing the other couple until we all get bored but the jury’s out on whether we do anything before then to get more involved in the swinging scene, given that we cannot afford to go each month to a very expensive, if exclusive, swing club.

From Janie
My husband and I aren't (or weren't) into swinging. We tried it a few times but couldn't find 'our' type of people, we're in our fifties, slim and still good looking, we're a bit picky about our sex partners so abandoned it. But then out of the blue we had a totally unplanned swing experience a few weeks ago - and thoroughly enjoyed it! 

We were at a hotel in the Keys, went down after dinner to the spa to the hot water tub, which we'd enjoyed earlier that day, said 'hi' to the dozen or so couples in the tub, went to the changing rooms where I put on my black bikini and hubby put on his briefs. We should have known of course but we were a little naive - the dozen other couples were swingers! We got the message immediately as we watched two couples having sex, the guys with backs against the tub wall, the females doing the work, bobbing up and down in the water on the guy's cocks. 

I gave hubby a glance - should we stay or should we leave? No brainer he said, let's stay, could be fun! Then suddenly I had this young guy in front of me, shaven headed, thick neck graced by a heavy gold chain! Strangely I didn't find him repulsive in the least and inside me I had these mixed emotions, competing feelings - should I do it, or not? But I found the idea of sex with a total stranger in a hot tub was very edgy and appealing! I smiled and that was the signal, the guy pulling my bikini pants away, parting my legs, hands at my waist lifting me up and brought me down on his cock! 

It all happened so quickly but nothing said it was 'wrong' and in no time at all my hands were around this guy's neck and we were french kissing! And, sure, he was a great fuck, he was very big and I felt him all the way. But that wasn't all. The swingers 'rule' in the tub was that all the ladies did a full circuit of all the guys. It sounded very sexy and I did start but gave up after my fourth fuck, diving for my bikini pants, leaving hubby in the tub to enjoy himself. 

The strange thing was that half way through the following day I began to hanker after another swing session in the tub and, yes, hubby and I went back and paid two other visits before our week was up. Back home in NC, the two of us are now trying the swing scene again, hopefully this time it will work for us.

From T & E
We didn't go to a swing club but we did swing with another couple while on a recent vacation. We're in our fifties, happily married since 1978, and in recent years we'd always been 'swing curious' but never ventured beyond discussing the subject, always agreeing we should try it but never doing anything.

The couple we swung with were probably ten years younger than us but, like us, were from a professional background and enjoyed their sex. Broaching the subject came while on the beach with them on our third day in their company, they staying at our hotel and we first meeting them in the hotel bar. On the beach both our wives had gone topless from the kickoff but as it was a secluded beach decided to go bottomless as well. It didn't take long before we men followed and, quite naturally, each wife was interested in the other husband's 'package'.

Lifeless, mine is nothing much to write home about but, sufficiently aroused, I can muster a good straight 8 inches. But my wife was much taken with the other husband's appendage. I had to admit to myself that even lifeless it was handsome, flaccid it was as long as mine would get fully erect, and very obviously trunk-like in its girth and it came as no surprise when she obviously couldn't resist commenting on its size with something along the lines of "you really are very big...aren't you uncomfortable in pants or tight jeans, or do you wear a jockstrap that keeps it all neatly packed away?" It broke the ice and all four of us then engaged in a very lively discussion about size, sexual satisfaction, sexual positions, marriage, monogamy, opportunistic sex, and, yes, swinging.

They said they weren't swingers but into sex, always looked to seek new experiences and when they had swung with other couples had always enjoyed the experience, using it to boost their own sex life and lovemaking. It was my wife again who spoke up first, suggesting that "perhaps we should swing with you then..." So we did, that evening after dinner.

My wife went off with him to their bedroom while I took his wife to our bedroom. For me the sex was excellent, she wanting to experience '69' with me, as well as anal and straight vaginal sex. For my wife, much the same, all positions, he obviously very large, but also very athletic with good staying powers, much enjoyment and satisfaction for her. For the remainder of the vacation we paced ourselves and swung with them on another three occasions, all of us relaxed enough to dispense with rubbers, the wives naturally wishing to enjoy our semen to its fullest.

Back home we have placed an ad on a swingers website, looking for professional couples and or single guys, and wait to see the quality of the replies.

From Lori
Look, don't over-intellectulize it. We're in our early fifties, married for 25 years and we've just swung, and boy did we enjoy it, like blowing away cobwebs! We went to a partner swap party, met some couples our age, background, interests etc. Our premise was simple - have some enjoyable sex with people we don't know, may never meet again, enjoy it, have some fun! And we did. I had vaginal/anal/oral sex with three men I'd never met before and it just opened my mind and in all the fun I learnt a lot which I then took to the marriage bed for sex with hubby! We don't plan to do it every week but do it again we certainly will!

From Richard and Nicola
We are in our thirties, 24x7 careers, married eight years. My wife and I would never have given swinging a second thought before we went on a Fall cruise. We had no plans at all but we did have a mission to enjoy our expensive cruise so when we got friendly with another young professional couple and the evening meal conversations on two occasions led down the partner swap path, it had me and wife discussing the subject in our cabin. We agreed the other couple almost certainly wanted to swing with us and after some earnest debate, my wife’s line was ‘OK, they’re a great looking couple, good company, friendly, we know who they are, where they come from, know what they do, so, yeah, I’m keen, if you are and during our lovemaking that night we both voiced our fantasies, excitement, about sex with near total strangers. 

So, at dinner we went balls out and asked them straight. They laughed and told us they were about to give up on us. After dinner, our first session was a fourway, in their cabin, larger than ours, a very successful mind-expanding experience for my wife and I, me getting to see her being fucked by another man, and the guy’s wife suck her hubby’s stuff from my wife’s pussy. After that we paired off for our swinging, at first all of us returning after sex to our cabins and our married partners, eventually giving that up to spend all night with our swap partners. 

Back home it was the dominant feature of our cruise remembrances (and a major part of our day to day conversations at home), the two of us sharing our experiences, me downloading the pictures of my horny wife taken during the fourway, she constantly reminding me during ten days of swinging on the cruise ship she’d blown the guy a dozen times, lost count of how many times she’d been pussy fucked, and how fantastic it was to be anus fucked for the first time since her ‘pre me’ days. (It’s now a major part of our sex life, our mutual ecstasy and enjoyment is mind-blowing). 

We believe swinging has a role in our sex life so long as it doesn’t threaten our marriage, our careers and we don’t get involved in the ‘wrong types’. We’re currently in research mode, checking out web sites, hence discovering yours (amazing) and we’re in email contact with our cruise couple, my wife keen to meet up with them soon. We plan a family in three years so while we have the freedom we’ll use the time to do some light swinging for as long as it remains fun and safe.

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