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From Mike
My wife and I have recently been discussing the 'use' of another woman in our relationship. We have been discussing our female friends and their bodies, and my wife has even joined the gym (not that she needs to she has a fantastic figure already - with beautiful 40dd breasts and a cracking pair of nipples, all dark and large) she joined the gym so she could get a good look at their bodies, when she comes home we make love whilst she describes their most intimate parts and we discuss at length what we would both like to do to them. 

A few months ago I came across a group of friends discussing a local swingers club, we decided to go along for a drink just to see what was going on. During the evening we watched couples in groups making all sorts of wonderful love which in itself was beautiful, we started chatting with another couple and we slowly got into the 'swing' of things, suddenly my wife was half naked, sucking the breast of this other woman, she had such a lovely look in her eye and between us we spoke silently. 

By the end of the night I was making love to my wife whilst she licked another woman out, and I was banging this other woman whilst my beautiful wife gave her partner a deep throat, all intertwined together. It was a wonderful experience and we have vowed to do it again, we won't be as nervous again the next time..... and there will be an next time. Our personal lovemaking has been brilliant since and we still fantasize over her girlfriends ... mmm nice. Best of both world for me (and her).

From Charles
My wife and I visited a swing club last winter in Goa en route back from a months vacation in Australia, enjoyed the experience mainly because we have good sex drives and regard ourselves as being liberated.  One evening we had left a club at one in the morning, walking back to our hotel when we passed a very plain looking wooden door with a sign that actually said If you don't swing, don't ring.   We agreed it was a swing or sex club, interesting I said about to move off when, without a further word, my wife rang the bell.  A girl in Playboy type costume opened the door, led us to a desk where another girl made us club members for $80, then to the bar where we were given free glasses of Champagne. 

Within minutes a young couple, German, started talking to us.  We admitted this was our first visit ever to a swing club and they said it was their second, their first being the night before when they had swung with three separate couples, describing the rooms they had used as very clean, bed sheets were changed after each activity, room with wc, wash basin and towels, large bowls of condoms were on either side of the bed, the sex toys were clean and worked, and the tv and porn dvd also worked.  On each occasion they had chosen to swing as a foursome with their couples, sharing the same room and bed. 

The next fifteen minutes or so were spent exchanging niceties, they learning about us and we learning about them, they being married for 8 years, we for over 35, then we got onto the subject of sex and as my wife was wearing one of her shorter skirts, low cut top and high heels I guess it wasn't a big shock when the husband took more and more interest in talking to her while his wife focused on me.  So it was no shock when the husband turned to me and suggested he and his wife swing with us and before I could say a word my wife said great, could be fun. 

In the room the wife wanted to wait and watch her husband perform with my wife and while she undressed to her bra and panties, me to my boxers, I sat in an armchair, she sat on the arm, and slowly masturbated me while we watched, eventually dropping her head to suck me. My wife and her new sex partner both undressed, she to her underwear, he totally naked, fully erect as they kissed very passionately for a few minutes, he removing her underwear, she stopping to suck his penis which she continued to enjoy for about five minutes before eventually rolling a condom on his erection and climbing onto him.  He began to bite and suck her breasts and nipples and climaxed after about ten minutes.  

He then invited us to join them and while his wife continued to suck me on the bed, the husband began to suck her vagina and my wife started to suck his penis.  It ended with my rolling on a condom and penetrating the wife while my wife rolled on her partners penis another condom and sucked him to a climax.   We all washed, dressed and returned to the bar.  Did we partner again that night?  Yes, of course we did.  Although my wife had her breasts and nipples covered in bite marks from her German partner, she wasn't perturbed since she said it was all fantasy and for the first time in a very long time she was enjoying being a slut.  We swung that night with two more couples, returning the following night for another session with our Germans who introduced us to French and Russian couples who we swung with in separate sessions.  

It was a very mind broadening experience, very enjoyable, very liberating, and has contributed much to our own husband/wife sex activity since getting back.  In the ten months since our experiences at the club we have yet to find a suitable couple or single guy to swing with.  We have replied to ads and run them ourselves on several swing websites but the couples and single men we have met and swung with have not matched our expectations, not just sexy people but intelligent ones, not just those who want opportunistic sex, but those we can create on-going satisfying, rewarding relationships with.  We shall continue to look and are thankful to that visit to the swing club in Goa for broadening our sexual horizons.

From Phil & Sandy
My wife and I are in our late fifties, enjoy our sex, and as a good looking, out-going couple are not without friends. Amongst them are husbands and single men my wife finds attractive and there are wives and single women I find attractive. It became a source of frustration that at parties we'd each meet someone we found attractive yet not desiring to cause problems or an argument in public we'd both hold off from becoming too intimately involved with whomever we had met. 

As a result we had two or three earnest discussions about sex - what we wanted in our marriage, what we wanted as fun outside our marriage and the risks we'd take if we did indulge. To avoid the possible jealousies and anxieties we agreed, after much discussion, to first test ourselves by going to a swing club. Fortunately we picked the right place, it was more like a private house than a club. My wife partnered with three men and came away feeling very satisfied and, as a result, we have held off going over the top on relationships with people we might meet at parties. 

The visit to the swing club produced an immediate spike in our own one-on-one sexual activity, and we agreed to visit the swing club once a month until we either got bored or it became part of our lifestyle.

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