Swing Clubs
What Goes On At These Parties?

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From Dave
We were in Australia a few years ago when we finally got out first swing experience. We are in our forties and been talking about swinging but never doing anything to experience it, my wife having reservations, believing it to be a sign our marriage had failed. It hadn't of course, we were very much in love, enjoyed our sex but we acknowledged that as people with very big sex drives our lovemaking was becoming a little stale.

So we discussed swapping with another couple or having threesomes, one with a guy, one with a bi female. We never got the courage to search out some couples and singles so left it hanging, frustration growing.

In Sydney we were given a flyer advertising a lifestyle club so we decided to go along. Cut a long story short, we met another couple, went to a room in the club, swapped partners and had an enjoyable time. With no pressures my wife sucked off her partner while his wife was more keen on me providing basic virginal sex. We went again, this time I did get fellated, while my wife got it anally.

Result? We met them again, this time in our hotel and reprised the fun we'd had at the club. Back home we searched the net and met with both couples and singles and for a year or so we had a great time swinging, our own sex life improving considerably until we felt we didn't need external stimulus any longer and ended our swinging period.

From Will
Like Phil my wife and I are in our fifties and like a lot of couples who have a rock solid marriage of our age we don't find it at all strange to consider some consensual, open, honest, extra-marital sex to add some spice to our sex lives. [see Phil's entry below] We had never discussed swinging per se but at parties it was obvious that as a good looking couple we'd attract similar couples, initially for good conversation, mutual dinner parties where the subject matter would of course turn to sex.

Three or four dinner parties later and we had reached a point where our not so new friends and ourselves, completely unsaid, had to decide if we were going to be platonic friends or, perhaps, partner swap and see if the relationship had any real foundations of strength, or just a convenience to facilitate extra-marital sex. Why don't we all go away one weekend? my wife suggested, it could be fun! The accent was on the word fun, said as a simile for swapping, in a sexually charged atmosphere following much consumption of wine.

The weekend was a success. We swapped twice, my wife enjoyed the sex with the husband as I enjoyed the sex with his wife. It was our first partner swap and it gave us a taste for more but, sadly, our friends decided to see less of us and it left us wondering what we'd done wrong, we coming to the conclusion that for them it was just sex, not a desire for a productive creative relationship. My wife and I are now looking for a couple, our age or younger, with whom we can create a successful and rewarding lifestyle relationship.

From Phil
A few years ago my wife reached her fiftieth birthday and despite her attractive slim figure had doubts about her looks and personality. That led to a very thorough discussion about love, marriage and sex, and inside that we discussed extra-marital sex as in was there a need for it in our marriage, what would it produce, would it lead to our divorcing? While sex with another man wasn't a major element of her self-doubt I knew that might be something that would help her, if only superficially. 

I suggested that we consider looking for another couple to swap with. She dismissed that saying it was more about me wanting to leave my semen in various women's bodies. I convinced her it wasn't and she eventually reluctantly agreed to allow an ad to go onto a swingers web site. To cut a long story short out of the 200 plus replies we got we got down to a short list of three couples, our age, all professionals. Two years later and we have wonderful and very fulfilling relationships with those same three couples. 

Sex is of course a major part of the relationships and my wife is sexually fulfilled by each of her three men but more than that we have mutual interests in the arts, travel, antique collecting, opera, ballet. Safe sex is important and after initially insisting on the use of condoms we now know each other very well, trust each other implicitly and the use of sheaths which husbands and wives alike detested is a long faded memory. 

For the time being we have no interests in meeting other couples, there is no need when all three of us couples meet for a weekend, a three-way swap of all partners is so much more emotionally fulfilling than hanging out at a swing club.

From Mike
My wife and I have recently been discussing the 'use' of another woman in our relationship. We have been discussing our female friends and their bodies, and my wife has even joined the gym (not that she needs to she has a fantastic figure already - with beautiful 40dd breasts and a cracking pair of nipples, all dark and large) she joined the gym so she could get a good look at their bodies, when she comes home we make love whilst she describes their most intimate parts and we discuss at length what we would both like to do to them. 

A few months ago I came across a group of friends discussing a local swingers club, we decided to go along for a drink just to see what was going on. During the evening we watched couples in groups making all sorts of wonderful love which in itself was beautiful, we started chatting with another couple and we slowly got into the 'swing' of things, suddenly my wife was half naked, sucking the breast of this other woman, she had such a lovely look in her eye and between us we spoke silently. 

By the end of the night I was making love to my wife whilst she licked another woman out, and I was banging this other woman whilst my beautiful wife gave her partner a deep throat, all intertwined together. It was a wonderful experience and we have vowed to do it again, we won't be as nervous again the next time..... and there will be an next time. Our personal lovemaking has been brilliant since and we still fantasize over her girlfriends ... mmm nice. Best of both world for me (and her).

From Andy
Ours wasn't a swing club experience, it was in the spa of a hotel. We'd been out for a meal when my wife suggested we go for a swim before bed. We got our bathing clothes and went to the spa, passing the large tub with some couples in it chatting, the females topless. We said 'hi' and got our swim. On the way back they invited us to join them in the tub, we looked at each other, made a snap decision and climbed in, my wife removing her bikini top. 

Only when we were in did we realise that everyone was fully naked and although we didn't speak my wife and I looked at each other and realised that we were in a tub with some swingers. To cut a long story short, we warmed to our libidinous new friends, they were a mix of medical professionals, teachers, entrepreneurs from the same location in Georgia, friendly, intelligent, funny, we felt very relaxed with them and although we didn't say anything once again my wife and I exchanged looks and we agreed to let matters take their course. 

In time my wife removed the bottom half of her bikini and I took off my swimming briefs, both of us acknowledging we'd not object to sex with our new friends. As the newest female member in the tub my wife was obviously in demand and partnered with all four men for a mix of vaginal and anal sex, the images of her in the water with her men reminding me of something from a 1950s black and white French movie!

From Phil & Sandy
My wife and I are in our late fifties, enjoy our sex, and as a good looking, out-going couple are not without friends. Amongst them are husbands and single men my wife finds attractive and there are wives and single women I find attractive. It became a source of frustration that at parties we'd each meet someone we found attractive yet not desiring to cause problems or an argument in public we'd both hold off from becoming too intimately involved with whomever we had met. 

As a result we had two or three earnest discussions about sex - what we wanted in our marriage, what we wanted as fun outside our marriage and the risks we'd take if we did indulge. To avoid the possible jealousies and anxieties we agreed, after much discussion, to first test ourselves by going to a swing club. Fortunately we picked the right place, it was more like a private house than a club. My wife partnered with three men and came away feeling very satisfied and, as a result, we have held off going over the top on relationships with people we might meet at parties. 

The visit to the swing club produced an immediate spike in our own one-on-one sexual activity, and we agreed to visit the swing club once a month until we either got bored or it became part of our lifestyle.

From Jo
You don't have to go to swing clubs or parties to swing, if your head is in the right place you will meet other couples looking for good sex, some good fun, exciting experiences. We are early thirties, in a great marriage, husband and I have been to many regular parties and once we've met a couple our age we like, once we've all stripped away all the play acting, we discover they are just as hot to connect with a sexy couple as we are. Result - some great sex, some great experiences, and no tacky swing clubs!

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