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What goes on at these parties?

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From Marie
I guess the word is 'club'. When we have swung on the odd occasion in recent years then we've done so at a private party in a house where we've known most of the couples (other long time marrieds like us). At a swing club, five years ago, we found the atmosphere definitely more urgent, threatening, more exploitative, the couples younger (we're mid fifties) and we were very disappointed. So, if you wish to swing our advice is - steer clear of clubs, home in on private parties your friends hold.

From Teresa
I went to one once. It was a swing club party at someone's house. I'll tell you what happened. I was 20, everyone else there was at least twice my age and kept referring to me as "the baby" which didn't do much for me. Four guys were relentlessly trying to get me to "play" and I didn't want to. I just wanted to check it out for my first time. It was rather annoying and I wasn't sure who the right people were to tell that I was being bothered.

Mostly the women were coupling up or three-ing up with some men mixed in. A lot of the men were chatting around the punch bowl. A few instances of sex, but mostly people chatting or watching. I left relatively early and apparently it got a little "wild" later on, as I was told. I may go again, but my first experience was not so good. It also seemed like everyone knew each other, so maybe you should go to the club or the meetings and familiarize yourself with the people before you go to a party. Who knows? Just one girl's account.

From Christian Brinner
From our experiences and other things that I hear, the cliquism at swing clubs seems to be a pretty consistent theme. They seem to be fairly close communities, and I've heard a lot of complaints from others that the cliques aren't quick to welcome the newcomers.

Unless, of course, the newcomers include a cute young chick that everyone in the clique wants to boff on first sight.

Teresa reminded me of something else as well—my wife and I are both 30, and at both clubs we visited I'd say we were very far on the young end. The median age seemed to be about 45, with the vast majority of folks between 40 and 50. That may just be a common demographic in our area, though.

From Dave
After spending a year discussing it my wife and I finally attended a swingers party on New Year's Eve we found on the Internet. It was a lot of fun and once back home we couldn't understand why we'd been so worried and cautious about swinging. Maybe it's our age, we're in our mid fifties. 

We were at the party about four hours and I guess my wife probably had greater fun than I did, partnering with three guys in separate sessions, although the two of us ended the evening joining a mass of bodies who were sucking and fucking. We have booked ourselves into another party and really looking forward to it, no worries now.

From Becky
Just before Christmas I was in Cyprus working on a major property deal, very intense few days. On the Thursday the deal was done, our new partners suggested a celebratory dinner and although tired I agreed, better than going back again to my hotel room and falling asleep. The dinner was excellent, wives joining husbands, me feeling a bit of a gooseberry and afterwards everyone agreed to going onto a club. 

What I didn't know until I got there was that it was a club for swingers. It was a very erotic atmosphere and at first I merely looked, resisting all invitations to join in. Eventually I gave in, checking my handbag to ensure the condoms my husband had given me for occasions such as this. The sex was pure exploitation but very enjoyable, especially the threesome, one guy inside me, the other in my mouth, both rubbered of course. Back home I took my experience to bed with me and hubby, he much enjoying my descriptions of the night's happenings in the club.

From Red
Out of curiosity my wife and I went to a swing club when on vacation a few months back.  We saw three couples swap for full on sex plus another couple with a single guy, again full on.  Everyone wore a condom.  It wasn't too difficult my wife and I getting aroused so when a younger couple (we are mid 50's), who were very good looking and friendly, approached us we said 'yes'.  

My wife was fucked twice by her partner and gave him a bj, all three times condoms were in use.  Likewise me and my partner also used the condoms supplied by the club (a big bowl by the bed), the two of us fucking three times with anal twice (her choice).  It was only the second time my wife and I have swung, both while on vacation, and we wouldn't do anything with a stranger without full condom protection. 

Back home we don't of course use condoms for our own husband-wife sex, my wife appreciating what she misses on the occasions when we have swung - the excitement of hot cum in her pussy or mouth.

From Dave
In Sydney we were given a flyer advertising a lifestyle club so we decided to go along. Cut a long story short, we met another couple, went to a room in the club, swapped partners and had an enjoyable time. With no pressures my wife sucked off her partner while his wife was more keen on me providing basic virginal sex. We went again, this time I did get fellated, while my wife got it anally.

Result? We met them again, this time in our hotel and reprised the fun we'd had at the club. Back home we searched the net and met with both couples and singles and for a year or so we had a great time swinging, our own sex life improving considerably until we felt we didn't need external stimulus any longer and ended our swinging period.

From Christian Brinner
We've visited a couple... Our experience with them has been less than exciting. We've found that the majority of the people at each were very unattractive physically, and not very appealing mentally either.

On the other hand, that's two clubs out of thousands and thousands in the U.S., so I'm sure there are much nicer places out there—we just don't happen to have found them.

For purposes of your research, both that we attended were off-premise, so there wasn't much need for etiquette rules. It was more like any other public place; be polite when meeting people, back off if they don't want to dance/talk/etc.

By "off-premises" I mean that there's no sex on-site—people use the club as a place to meet up and go elsewhere, but sexual interaction isn't allowed on-site.

Down here in Texas, I think the choice to do it this way (no pun intended) actually revolves around liquor licenses—if the club wants to serve alcohol they aren't allowed to have full nudity or sexual interaction going on, something like that. I don't know much about the specifics, unfortunately.

Or maybe fortunately, who knows?

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