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By "swing clubs" I mean the type of establishment where you have a membership and there are scheduled parties and dances, rules and regulations, etc. Off premises or on. It turns out there's such a club in the city where I live, and I'm told by my gentleman friend that an acquaintance of his (from work no less) can refer us to the proprietors. I'm not the type to want to get naked with strangers, but I certainly am the type who has always wanted to indulge an untried voyeuristic inclination.

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From Blondeddd
I am single and always had a fantasy of going to a swing club and having sex with the husband and wife.  I finally got up the nerve to go and wore my sexiest lowcut dress with no panties.  I met a couple at the bar. It was their first time swinging.  The wife wanted to be with a woman for the first time.  The husband wanted to watch and then be with the woman while his wife watched.  I was lucky enough to be the one. 

Although the wife had never been with a woman before she was horny and ready.  She took out my breasts and started sucking on them at the bar. She pulled up my dress and started rubbing my wet pussy.  We couldn't get to the sex den quick enough.  He took of all my clothes and sucked on my breasts while she licked my pussy.  She made me come so many times my pussy was soaking wet.  She wanted me to rub my wet pussy all over her wet pussy and she came like crazy.  Then her husband picked me up and put me on his hard cock and I rode it while she watched.  I came like crazy and so did he all over my big tits.  It was a mind blowing experience. 

Now I go on vacations with them and spend the weekends with them as their sex object.  They shower me with gifts and sex.  Lately they are in to taking movies of our sexcapes. So hot!!

From Angi
We are in early thirties, got married in 2008 and last summer we discussed and decided that to stop our relationship and sex going stale we would look out some young couples to swing with.  We did, using a well known swingers website, and so far we have had some very enjoyable experiences including a vacation with a special couple who have become the most exciting, inspiring, sexy people we have ever known. 

We swing most weeks, mostly with couples we know well, but to occasionally spice it up, we might go to a swing party or club where we will meet new couples, always a neck tingling moment when in a club, meeting a stranger, some simple conversation followed by sex, never sure how good the sex will be or how personable the man. 

Swinging with a couple is not always possible.  Couples often split on arriving at a party and at a club there is likely to be more single guys than couples.  Whatever, hubby and I are very pleased with the contribution it has made to our marriage and our own sex life, we are now more sexually aware and get more joy, fun, satisfaction from our sex. So, for the time being we are both enjoying the swinging lifestyle. 

From Pete
Ricardo's experience [see Ricardo's entry below] sounds pretty gross but when my wife and I paid our first visit to a swing club (near Nashville) while on vacation, we had a very enjoyable time. Perhaps us both being fiftiesomethings and married for 30 years makes all the difference. We had seriously discussed well in advance visiting a swing club and both agreed that we wanted to experience some fun with another couple.

On arrival we were pleasantly surprised to be asked to change into towelling robes, we thought we'd be at a bar fully clothed. My wife kept her stockings and garters on plus bra and panties and I kept my boxers on. At the bar we soon made friends with other couples (no singles at this club) and after half an hour we were in friendly relaxed conversation with another, younger couple, and sitting at the bar my wife was very receptive to the husband's stroking of legs and caressing of breasts and waist. We all knew we were ready to swing.

We went upstairs to a bedroom and the four of us had some very enjoyable condom protected sex, the nature of this very first swing session for me and my wife being that she and the other wife continually swapped back to husbands, then back again, so it was a strange session. About an hour later we swung with another couple, our age, and this was a far more satisfying session, my wife certainly impressed with the size of the other partner's member.

I guess a key element of success is swinging with good looking people who are balanced, intelligent, as well as horny, and great lovers without any inhibitions. Since our trip we have had difficulty in finding on the internet suitable couples to swing with so a visit to another club is planned.

From Ricardo
We were in our honeymoon in France. ..we just married I am 26 Years and my wife 24 years. We never discussed swinging before or even thought about it. What happened, we enter a club thinking that it's a Night Club (disco), But we discover that its a swinging club ....we went downstairs and we found everyone down in action .

After a while a single young guy came and started touching my wife and talking to her...then without any permission I see my wife stripping fully naked with this guy and start the action. I got angry when I saw him coming in her mouth.

From Joe
My wife and I swing, and we only go to clubs or parties that insist that all members practise safe sex. I have to say that I'm appalled at how many entries here don't mention safe sex within the swinging community.

The consequances of swinging at clubs or parties (different, of course, with a long time aquantaces known to be clean of sexual transmitted diseases) without protection is a seriously bad idea.

Be careful, folks, play but play safely. The price to pay otherwise is damn scary: think Chlamydia, Genital warts, Herpes, Gonorrhea, Hepatitis, Syphilis, AIDS)

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