Swing Clubs
What Goes On At These Parties?

Anyone ever been to a swing club or sex club? I'm dreadfully curious—what's it like? What are the rules, the etiquette? Can you go and just watch or do they find that annoying?

By "swing clubs" I mean the type of establishment where you have a membership and there are scheduled parties and dances, rules and regulations, etc. Off premises or on. It turns out there's such a club in the city where I live, and I'm told by my gentleman friend that an acquaintance of his (from work no less) can refer us to the proprietors. I'm not the type to want to get naked with strangers, but I certainly am the type who has always wanted to indulge an untried voyeuristic inclination.

So, the more anyone can tell me about what goes on at these parties, the better I'll know if I want to try and go to one...or two or three or...

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From Paul and Jay
We are in our sixties, retired, enjoy our sex, making love most afternoons or evenings. Thanks to the Internet we discovered there were many happily married couples who wanted to expand their sexual experiences and satisfaction by swapping with other couples. We discussed it but never actually got to either reply to an ad or posting our own. It changed one evening when, in our favorite restaurant, we shared with a young, good looking fortiesomething couple at the next table our frustrations at the poor service.  Over dessert and coffee they suggested we get the tab and decamp to a nearby jazz bar which we also knew and had visited a few times.

There we managed to hold a more conducive conversation with them, discovering they lived about a mile from us, suggesting we end the evening at our place and at 1 in the morning we got back to ours.  Up to then there had been no hint we might swap with them but in the intimate dimmed lighting of our lounge with jazz on the hi fi the conversation inevitably got round to sex and we openly and honestly declared our interest in expanding our sexual knowledge and enjoyment with another couple.  They also declared their similar interest.  It didn't take us long to agree we should end the evening with a foursome.

It was very enjoyable, more fun than intense sexual pleasure and I found it fascinating to see my wife suck off another guy, compliment him on the volume and taste of his semen, and a little later see him penetrate her vagina and anus.  For my part I believe my new partner enjoyed my lovemaking, she too fallating me and swallowing my cum (to my personal satisfaction), and enjoying me inside her, she being impressed that an oldie could get and maintain a large erection and produce enough semen to make it memorable.  They stayed the night in our guest bedroom and over breakfast we all discussed long and hard our very first mutual foursome, agreeing that we wanted to repeat the pleasure again.

From Dan and Keri
Our first experience of swinging came over the holidays when we met a couple our age, 30s, at the restaurant line at our hotel. We got chatting and saw a lot of them in the afternoons and evenings. Back in our room on the second night my wife wondered if they wanted to swing with us. We agreed they did and agreed to say 'yes' if they asked us.

The following lunchtime they finally popped the question and my wife said 'we thought you'd never ask!' and went to their room for our first session with them, a very enjoyable foursome, both wives afterwards ambushing us guys into a mutual 69, my first experience of sucking another guy's cock, the two of us eventually shooting our loads into each other's mouths, an awesome experience for me.

We met them each day after lunch and after dinner for some very satisfying foursome sex. Back home we decided that our vacation fun was just that and we weren't going to join a swing club or group although my wife said she'd like to experience different cock to mine at some stage.

From Jay
We were in Bermuda in the summer when my husband took part in a charity golfing event. I don't play but spent my day in the club house, first being taught some rudimentary strokes on the nursery links. Later, I came in out of the heat and sat in the bar wondering what to do for lunch after discovering that the charity teams wouldn't be back until mid afternoon. I was wearing a tennis skirt so when the compliment came about my tanned legs I thanked the guy but inwardly was horrified at such a limp opening line. The guy was Jimmy, one of the club officers, and after about 15 minutes of exchanging pleasantries he asked if I'd join him in the members' clubhouse where a buffet lunch and champagne was available to members and their guests.

There I was asked by Jimmy if I'd care to join him and some of the members on one of their yachts for a Sunday 'sun worshipper' brunch, intriguingly told not to bring my bikini. Although the invitation was extended to my husband he declined, preferring another round of golf. On board, the 30 or so guests were either lying in the sun, down below getting some brunch, or simply chatting. Despite the advice I had brought my bikini and soon slipped out of skirt and blouse to soak up the sun. When I eventually went downstairs to use the rest room, I was quite shocked to see beyond some doors, that should have been closed, three naked couples in a variety of sex acts and positions. On leaving the rest room I glanced to the doors and as I did one of the ladies came out, saw me and said something like 'aren't men messy' as he tissued her vagina. I could only say 'is this a private party?' to which I was told that the 'sun worshipper' brunch I had been invited to was in fact a swingers party, although no one was under any pressure to join in.

Back on deck I joined all the other females and went topless, my sunbathing soon interrupted by a young couple, the wife asking me if I'd like to swing with them. I explained that I'd never swung in my life before, wouldn't know what to do and at 47 was probably 20 years their senior. Their compliments on me looking not a day over 30 didn't work as I said it was not my style to have sex with strangers. It didn't work. They explained what they wanted to do, what they wanted to achieve from swinging with me, there'd be no violence, the husband said he was well endowed and I'd be very satisfied. It was truly bizarre but I reluctantly agreed and went downstairs with them.

I was, of course, very satisfied. In over 25 years of marriage I'd never had sex with anyone but my husband but that afternoon I had the wife suck me off, me suck her off, her husband suck me off, and I suck him, and I was very aroused, very sexually excited by all of what we were doing. By the time the husband was ready to climax, he penetrated me doggie style, first my vagina, then my anus, his wife below me licking, kissing my nipples, occasionally kissing my lips, as I lent low to kiss and lick her clitoris. It was an incredible hour of very exciting and satisfying sex and after showering I went back on deck to continue sunbathing.

When Jimmy looked me out a little later I pre-empted him by asking if he was going to ask me to swing with him. Yes, but would I object to his friend joining us in what he called an MMF? I asked him where his wife was and that of his friend. Both ladies were apparently elsewhere on board having their own fun. I was very blase and said, 'OK, of course, let's go!'. The sex was incredible. Two horny men, two hard cocks, with a mind-blowing double penetration as the piece de resistance. What more could an equally horny woman want?

By the time the yacht returned to the marina it was nine in the evening and I'd had an amazing eye opening experience that had changed my view of sex for ever. I'd had four sex sessions with total strangers and enjoyed every single second. At first my husband thought I was bragging but when he finally agreed to believe me he fumed at missing such a wonderful day's fun. Had he ever thought of us swinging
with other couples? He hadn't (nor had I for that matter) but some four months later we are now very enthusiastic converts, have some very loving, caring, sexy friends, couples of all ages, plus some very athletic, large-cocked single men, all of whom we now regularly swing with.

From Tee and Gee
In our fifties we regard ourselves as being in the prime of our lives and as such enjoy our sex, three or four times a week, more frequently when we are on vacation mode. It was while we were on a two week break from our careers we were intriqued by an ad in the local what's on magazine. We both deduced it was a swing club and looked at each other. Our eyes said it, 'shall we try it?'.

Now, in 30 years of marriage the two of us have only ever strayed once, during a very bad period in the marriage, but we have discussed joining a couple we know who belong to a small group who partner swap. We visited the club, twice. The first time we were mere spectators and enjoyed watching other couples swap and having great sex. Our second visit we indulged, meeting a couple who were friendly, intelligent and very horny. It was a great experience, we were in the same room, watched by other couples through the window and my wife proved she is a very sexy lady, very interested in exciting sex and more than able to satisfy any man.

It was, of course, safe sex, condoms were worn for all the sex acts, including oral, my wife admitting later she missed the rush of her partner's cum in both her mouth and vagina, but said her 'mind was blown' by her partner's size in her anus. We exchanged cell numbers and met the couple again a few nights later in our hotel room. A lot more relaxed and more enjoyable we eventually abandoned the condoms in the last of three sessions that evening.

Back home, we're back to being an ordinary married couple but our friends' invitation to join them at their next swing party will get a very firm 'yes please' from us.

From Kit
Our experience was a first, also on vacation. We were given a flyer advertising a 'lifestyle club' and over dinner we seriously discussed what was obviously a swingers club and did we see swinging with another person a threat to our marriage (30 years) or was it just a fun thing? We enjoy sex and have sex three or four times a week so we both agreed we'd probably not be very inhibited and would enjoy sex with a stranger.

So we went and we did enjoy. We met with a couple in their thirties, at the bar they made us feel very relaxed, great company, very sexy, so we went off to one of the rooms and had a great foursome. We came out feeling very good about ourselves, returned to the bar and met another couple and had yet another very exciting session.

Back home, long after the vacation was over, my wife asked if I'd be interested in swinging with another couple. Of course, I said, we signed up with an on-line club and are currently looking for two swing sessions, a couple and a single guy.

From Pete
Ricardo's experience [see Ricardo's entry below] sounds pretty gross but when my wife and I paid our first visit to a swing club (near Nashville) while on vacation, we had a very enjoyable time. Perhaps us both being fiftiesomethings and married for 30 years makes all the difference. We had seriously discussed well in advance visiting a swing club and both agreed that we wanted to experience some fun with another couple.

On arrival we were pleasantly surprised to be asked to change into towelling robes, we thought we'd be at a bar fully clothed. My wife kept her stockings and garters on plus bra and panties and I kept my boxers on. At the bar we soon made friends with other couples (no singles at this club) and after half an hour we were in friendly relaxed conversation with another, younger couple, and sitting at the bar my wife was very receptive to the husband's stroking of legs and caressing of breasts and waist. We all knew we were ready to swing.

We went upstairs to a bedroom and the four of us had some very enjoyable condom protected sex, the nature of this very first swing session for me and my wife being that she and the other wife continually swapped back to husbands, then back again, so it was a strange session. About an hour later we swung with another couple, our age, and this was a far more satisfying session, my wife certainly impressed with the size of the other partner's member.

I guess a key element of success is swinging with good looking people who are balanced, intelligent, as well as horny, and great lovers without any inhibitions. Since our trip we have had difficulty in finding on the internet suitable couples to swing with so a visit to another club is planned.

From Ricardo
We were in our honeymoon in France. ..we just married I am 26 Years and my wife 24 years.

We never discussed swinging before or even thought about it. What happened, we enter a club thinking that it's a Night Club (disco), But we discover that its a swinging club ....we went downstairs and we found everyone down in action .

After a while a single young guy came and started touching my wife and talking to her...then without any permission I see my wife stripping fully naked with this guy and start the action. I got angry when I saw him coming in her mouth.

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