Big Dicks vs Competent Foreplay
Your Preference...Be Honest!

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From Black Girl
I have had the opportunity to have been mounted by both Black and White men. Until recently, I too thought that men of color could be counted on for poppin' the most in terms of size (being hung and all). Then I got a wake up call. The men that are endowed with the huge ram rods usually deliver a lot of pain, not pleasure. 

Well, one night while on a 3rd date with a tall, strong, dark man of color, things got hot and heavy and to the point of our clothes coming off. As I began to feel all over his beautiful warm black body, I just had to reach down to grab hold of his manhood. I just could not wait to explore every inch of it! What a shock! The brotha was packin' about 4 inches at the most. I caught myself before blurting out, "Where is the other half, baby?" My jets were cooled big time, but we continued on to the point of having sex.

Ladies, that was THE BESTEST pounding ever! A joy stick of that size hits your g-spot with every thrust. Getting laid by Mr. Donkey Dong himself just promises you a banged up'd uterus and and a coochie that looks like it has been turned inside out! So, does a mans race make a difference? no! Does size matter? Yes! For myself, smaller is sooo much better. I can't get enough of that humble sized wien wien! And by the way folks, equal opportunity is the way to go. I love all flavors of men. I am so happy to be a woman!

For my small tooled men out there, just add some soul to your push and pull along with a slight roll to them hips of yours and your woman will hit a high note like Minnie Riperton. No Lie.

From Isabella
I think that size doesn't matter too much as long as the guy is not tiny. My guy is pretty small, but I love him and he makes up for it by making a real effort to get me off. We have found that the most potent erogenous zone in the body is the mind.

Imaginative foreplay really rocks and even if your man is not to well endowed he can make up for it in different ways. Talk it out and you will find that every one of us has a kink or fetish.

I live in Britain and recently I found a new magazine called Foreplay. It's like a more up to date edition of Forum, with tons of ideas and features about foreplay and kinks.

I found some new ideas in it, and we are currently experimenting with role-play, and sensory deprivation.

From Todd Saucier
I am a 38 year old male and have been married for 14 years. I admit I was a little dumb about the whole "big cock" thing earlier in my life but I'll tell you this; and please take note guys, a big cock will not keep a marriage afloat for long if that's all you bring to the table. 

Foreplay that brings a woman to the height of ecstasy will keep you together long after your ability to stay rock hard, and as long as a horse, leaves you. And it will. What you do and say to your lady will give her a depth of feeling that cannot be replaced by penis length alone. I am average at 6.5" in length and thick. I have never had any complaints from my wife about "wishing it were bigger" because I like to take my time with our lovemaking and I always make sure she gets the first orgasm. Not because she demands it but because I know what it means to commit to a woman and to give her what she needs to be satisfied and happy. (And trust me commitment and giving are the biggest part of the equation).

We have two great kids and a pretty darn good life together. But then isn't that the real goal for all of us in the end? So when you stop and think...good life...happy marriage...good kids...where does having the biggest cock fit in? Perhaps in the mind of a teenage boy wanting to fit in and becoming obsessed with what he thinks will make him popular and a real ladies man?...get over it guys...I did.

Thanks for listening. 

From Teresa
Foreplay...no question about it!

From James
I think that penis size is good. I have a 7 inch and 6 width penis, but women like me giving them foreplay more than my penis.

From Anonymous
I think both are important. My current lover is only about 5in.- a little small for me, but when there is foreplay before sex I can come. I love foreplay and lots of it. I can come just from nipple play (mine are pierced). If we didn't have foreplay I would get no enjoyment from sex at all.

From Anonymous
I guess at 7 inches I'm bigger than some guys but not as big as a porn star. 

My wife is a small woman in every way, and she is small and tight "down there" too. I don't think size vs. foreplay has to be an either-or issue. In my experience, my competence at foreplay gets her to where she both wants and can accommodate my size. And she seems to care much more about my width (2 inches across, or about 6-1/2 inches circumference) than my length, since it's the width that makes for tighter friction and thus more enjoyment for us both.

So posing this as an either/or question seems odd to me. The preference isn't for foreplay or size, but for foreplay and size!

From -back in undergrad
While in college my girlfriend and I had been entertaining thoughts on having a threesome, but we couldn't settle on if we would bring in another guy or girl. We figured out who, the actual person for a guy and for a girl, both friends of ours, and did this lottery thing with their names to see who would be picked. She won and we had a MFM.

When things finally started happening she and I were naked and she asked me to start oral on her and I did. Her friend was stripping down to join in as I was working at bringing her off with my mouth when all I heard was her voice in under breath, WOE! I had then slightly pulled away from her delicates to see what was the deal. My peak gave me the sight of a truly big cock and then she felt me pausing and looking up so she nuzzled my head back down as she began to suck him off.

Everyone always talks size and I can say that I'm very average a bit bigger than 6 inches and average girth. I cannot tell you what he might have been, but you just know that you don't look like that. He was really big and I think what really made me feel outdone was that when he finally came in her mouth, he was still very hard and she subsequently moved me out of the way and fucked him. We started kissing and her faces, moans, and body movements were just not the same as when I do it. She was like erotic stranger consumed by her pleasure.

The nest time we fucked I asked her what I can do to make it like he did it and she said that I did an awesome job but that we were too different.

From Bobby
If forced to chose between small, medium or large, I will always chose large. I am well endowed at 9" length and 5 1/2" around. I have never had any complaints with or without adequate foreplay. Most women will agree that seeing a man well hung is a turn on. I have masturbated with same sex and they were always amazed at the size. Even the guys would admit that viewing my dick was a turn on.

So given the choice, I will gratefully accept and appreciate my big dick.

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