Big Dicks vs Competent Foreplay
Your preference...be honest!

I would like to hear about how important a man's phallic length is. Every adult film I've seen has the macho studs sporting cocks of equestrian proportions, and it sure LOOKS like the women or men enjoy having every orifice filled by them. In the real world, however, how does a big dick rate compared with your partner being competent in foreplay? 

Would your personal preference be to have a horse-hung mate, but you'll settle for other things in lieu? If so, what rates higher for you in that instance? Your feedback could be most enlightening. —Phlyon Zawahl

Men ought to be more conscious of their bodies as an object of delight.  —Germaine Greer

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From Al
Our friend J has one of the biggest cocks my wife and I have ever seen.  Fully erect it is 12 inches long, limp it goes no smaller than 8.  But it isn't that thick, about 3 inches all the way along but has a massive head which my wife can just about get in her mouth although after a very long suck her jaw becomes painful.

Pussy or anus J's 12 inches does it for my wife and she is soon yelling out in ecstasy as he goes to work.  I've had J in my anus a few times and it was always a pretty awesome experience, nowadays preferring to suck him off, my mouth being larger than my wife's so no problems with the size of J's head.

From Geena
Does size matter? Yes, but so does foreplay and love in sex. My husband has a standard length cock but when aroused can reach 8 inches since I pay attention in our lovemaking to every part of his body, not just his cock, balls or anus, I kiss and lick his mouth, neck, chest, legs and buttocks, and that is how I get him aroused. He has the same respect for me and while he likes sucking my pussy, clit, breasts and nipples, his lips and hands are elsewhere on my body. By the time he enters me we are both fully aroused and enjoy an intense physical fuck.

On the few occasions we have had threesomes I make it a point of personal pride to arouse both husband and our guest, making sure both men are fully ready, full length and fat, hubby at 8 inches our guest probably at 10 inches, before they take me in a double penetration, or our guest in my pussy or anus, hubby in my mouth.

From K
A big dick is a must for me. I love to feel "filled" up in both my kitty, mouth and ass (occasionally). My current boyfriend is about 8 1/2 inches with nice girth and a curve. Anyone can learn foreplay, but you can't learn having a big cock.

From Anonymous
My wife and I are doing some MMF on occasions and she likes the feel of another cock. Mine is of average length and girth but our latest friend is massive!  She has been used to my normal cock for years but now if we do a 3 way she insists on a huge cock,..can't blame her,..I can't fill her up like a big dick can, and I must admit that I get turned on watching her take all that meat in.

She loves for me to be under her eating her sloppy creampie while he drives that monster in and out,..and I must admit that from that prospective I find it awesome too. We had tried a couple other people who were my size or slightly smaller but she didn't enjoy it near as much, nor did I. Since we have started letting the other guys have my ass as well, I'm now hooked on a big cock with lots of cum as bad as she is!

So yes, for us a BIG COCK is important!

From Lady Love
It's holding, caressing, and sensual kissing that tickles the clit and starts the vagina flowing with love juice. A man has to have passion for sex with his partner, he's got to want to absorb her into his mouth with oral sex. He's got to make love to her clit. He's got to want his nipples sucked as much as she wants him to suck hers.

A man has to want to give lovemaking the time it deserves. The woman, in turn, has to want everything he has to offer, and look forward to taking any part of his body into her orifices. Believe me, if a man leaves a woman feeling sexy, satisfied and loved, she'll love his cock just based on his ability to please her.

For me, the goal is to fit my man's cock like a glove, no man can resist a tight pussy, so girls, do your kegel exercises. Do not masturbate with anything larger than your man's dick, or you will stretch out. Allow your man to feel your vagina tighten up on his cock, while he's inside you, he will respond back with some great contractions of his own. And there's nothing like falling asleep staying connected. Slow down and love each other. Good Luck! 

From Veronica
I have to agree with Josephine, although I don't know how she got two of them inside at once. One is more than enough for me.

Honestly, I never thought much about it until a girl friend told me about how her well endowed lover was pleasing her.

I'm a 48 y.o. widow of 5 years and got back into the dating game about 3 years ago. I have 3 kids and I noticed that after the last one that intercourse wasn't as intense as in the early years, though even then I never was able to achieve orgasm from intercourse.

Boy what a difference with my current boyfriend/lover. He is very well endowed, about 8in. long and 5 and a half around. ( yes we measured ). When I first saw his erect penis it was very exciting and such a turn on to handle and suck it, though I can't begin to get all of it in my mouth.

Intercourse is a new exciting experience. As other women have said, there's no substitute for that "full feeling", the friction and stretching that I now get. His thickness is stimulating my clit and the extra friction is apparently rubbing my G spot, or whatever is happening.I also love the pulsing feeling at the back of my vagina. I'm now experiencing multiple orgasms from intercourse, and some incredible final ones. Of course it doesn't hurt that he's a handsome, well built guy and very romantic too. Also, and very important, he is very patient, always waiting until I'm very wet and ready ( It doesn't take long! ). We also use lube.

I've read that a minority of women experience intercourse orgasms. I wonder if they're the ones with well endowed lovers?

From Lilith
Does size matter? I have to say that I have had them at various sized. I mean from like two inches to almost ten inches. I have had the skinny, thick and cone shaped. The best sex, I have noticed didn't come from the biggest, or widest or even the funny shaped one. In fact, that best sex came from one that was about nine and half inches, normal in width and didn't get fully hard ever. This penis was so big that he passed into my cervix. He is the only one out of a handful of penises that brought me to orgasm. Not to say that the others brought me no pleasure and some displeasure, but he was the only one that seemed to be able to touch that spot inside of me that allowed me to climax the only way that I am able.

My first, I can't say what it looked like or its size. I was fifteen and was so not going to look at it. I never did either. It wasn't until I had my second sexual partner that I ever had seen one. I made sure to investigate it at length. It was I believe average, but not to my knowledge as average. He was about seven and a half inches and was perfectly shaped. The only thing that I noted about him was he had a freckle on the tip as well as some small flesh colored bumps. Which, I have now learned are normal. In truth his penis is the only one I have ever investigated to the full extent that I did. Loving to watch his scrotum expand and contract from my breath. But moving on.

Next I was able to see my first uncircumcised penis. It was as strange as its owner, who it so happens had an attached tongue, which for obvious reasons would have sucked had I kept him. The size was about six inches and more then that I don't know as I couldn't get passed the foreskin. Then I dated a guy who had the weirdest penis I have ever had the misfortune of meeting. His penis was three inches at best, and I am being nice, we couldn't switch positions as it wasn't big enough to maneuver with. So it was lame old missionary. On top of being tiny, where he wasn't, it was cone shaped and the tip curved. Needless to say, I have nicknamed him Captain Hook, and Cheeto.

Then I dated another guy shortly after breaking up with Cheeto, and discovered he had a small penis too. His was a mere four and a half inches. It was other then that normal. Oh, I forgot it was also uncircumcised along with that it also had those same fleshy bumps on it. Personally, I am for the circumcised as I don't like having to pull back the foreskin to check for unsightly blemishes and possible diseases that could be hidden. Besides that all that cleaning and cold water makes it hard to have seconds immediately.

Since these I have seen only two others, one which I tried and the other which I flatly refused. The one I refused was extremely wide. To wide for me to phantom taking into my body. I pride myself in the fact that they compliment me on my tight cunt. (I love that word.) So when I seen it attached to this wonderful handsome man I backed down. It was at least eight inches in length and I would have to say about four in width. I say four, because I obviously didn't have a ruler on me but I could not wrap my hand all the way around it and touch my fingers, there was at least an inch gap if not more between my finger tips. So, as curious as I was to try him out, I declined and instead allowed him the pleasure of using my breasts before I left.

The last guy, I did have meaningless sex with. The truth is though it was painful. He told me that he was only nine inches but I know better. On top of being long he was wide. A real poker chip could be set flat on his penis and none of it hanging over. The three times that I allowed myself to be tormented I told myself it had to get better. It didn't. He fumbled as if he had never had sex before. He was so tall that I felt dwarfed beside him, and sex as agonizing. I like a little pain with my sex. It is just good that way. But with him it was a little sex with my pain. I had to at all times keep a hand pressed to his abs to stop him from diving to deeply in which he was want to do. When I left his house I had cramps from his battering of my cervix and spotting. He broke numerous condoms even the magnum condoms which are made for the larger penis. Where my only orgasm came from a man of a larger penis he wasn't as wide nor was he ever as hard as this dudes penis was. I am actually surprised that he got enough blood into that organ to allow him to grow to that size and stay like a rock.

Basically sex was an inconvenience all around for me. He seemed to enjoy himself but what guy wouldn't like to know that he is the biggest cock a woman has had the misfortune of housing?

So, my thought on size, is that it matters.

From Josephine
I love the feel of a huge dick inside me...slowly pumping away inside. The feeling of complete fullness is incredible.

I have had the pleasure of indulging in quite a number of MFM over the years. One particular guy Craig was around 8-9 inches, and quite thick too. At one point during a session I was riding my husband who is around 6-7 inches, Craig decided it would be fun to enter me from behind. He lubed up his cock and entered my pussy as well. Double penetration in the pussy!! It was incredible, I didn't stop coming the whole time they were both in there.

We only ever did this the once but I would love to do it again. Craig got himself a girlfriend so we stop being sexual partners.

So for me width and length was a huge turn on. On other occasions though, different positions can make me hurt inside with my husband who as I mentioned before is only of average length 6-7inches. I think for me personally it depends on how turned on I am, and the position I am in as to how "tight" or "small" I am.

We have begun doing anal sex and GOD I love it! For double penetration I would love a smaller guy. So I suppose it all depends on what you want to do with the cock at the time.

From Shel
After the birth of our second child I could no longer feel my husband, my vagina had become so tunnel like. Sex stopped being enjoyable but we eventually solved it with him getting a penis extension. That gave me a good 12 inches in length plus some very satisfying thickness.

Five years or so later my vagina had shrunk back and I began to feel my husband without the need for the extension. By chance, while on holiday, we met a fun, sexy couple who we swung with and the husband was absolutely massive, incredibly satisfying experience in my vagina, anus and mouth. It gave me back the taste for big cock but hubby and me settled for a strap on after some disastrous meets with some single guys who had very undersized willies.

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