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From Beth
Five years ago I was 46 and after months of deep doubt I finally gave in to the patient sweet approaches from a friend. This was just days before his 60th birthday, and we both were (and still are) well married, each with children beginning their adult lives. 

Well, I can tell you that it was the best thing we could have done, and I have thanked many times his courage to insist. I had never had sexual contact with any other man except my husband, and so I'm no great authority, but there is no comparison. The joy and pleasures we have experienced are enormous, and I feel that now I am a complete woman, so happy to do all "normal" things and a number of others I never admitted before. He feels the same. 

In the beginning we always fucked (sorry for the word) twice in each weekly encounter. Now it is "just" once, but he never fails, and I orgasm every single time. But then this is just physical information for the records; what matters is that he is 65 and we have great, wonderful sex and so much more for heart and mind and soul! Good to talk about this secret in your forum.

From Ceej
I'm happy to say I'm a 62 years old male and my lover is 44 years old female. We both agree after nine months we are having the best sex we have had in ours lives. The frequency rivals our earlier marriages but the duration and height of our sessions far exceed anything from our younger days.

From Jim
To Pouting Adri [see entry below]: Some wisdom from one who has reached 60. Don't worry! If you continue to feel that way, you will be exempt from the humiliation of having a sex life when you achieve the age of your mom and dad.

From Pouting Adri
Honestly, I do not, repeat do not! want to picture my parents having sex I don't care if that's how I was conceived I don't want to know about it or picture it.

From DB
Are you kidding? No way there is any cut-off age for great sex. I am 52 next week and in the best physical condition of my life. Played hockey for Michigan State in 1970-74 and I am in much better shape now and have 30 years of lovemaking experience (24 with my current wife). Sex has never been better. My erections are just as firm as age 20, but I must admit I have to work hard to stay so fit. My wife says my ass looks sexier than ever (better than in 1974). She will be 50 in June and her ass looks like Jennifer Garner's. Don't let age fool you! You try much harder to look good when you hit 50.

If I had to rate our sex life now compared to 1980, on a 1 to 10 scale, I would give us a 9 today vs. about a 4 in 1980. As the saying goes, "it ain't over until it's over"! And we aren't anywhere near the age to think about that yet.

From Susan
Like Ellen [see entry below], I too had a revelatory experience with an older guy. He was very charming, knowledgeable, witty etc so no surprise when I found myself in bed with him but in my arrogance expecting him to climax and out of my bed in seconds. I was very pleasantly surprised at his staying powers, the size of his erect penis and how good his body looked, v slim and tanned. I was not amazed to find myself in bed with him for another few hours enjoying some very rare sexual experiences with an older but by no means decrepit man!

From a female
Like the one posted below, I'm in my thirties, I have had one encounter with an elderly gentlemen, penetration wasn't really the main thing, I have to say. He strapped my ankles apart and I was supper. I truly believe he thought he would never see a naked woman again.

From Kay
I will pay a pound for the bright sparks who came up with these questions, very entertaining, and I only put in the word writing in Google....anyways

In my younger days of 31 (like 2 years ago). I worked for a promotions company and got posted to some show functions in America (I live in UK). From these show themes I got further work from a client. Gawd, this is sounding like a Hugh Heff bunny girl thing. Yes I slept with a client who was 60 ish. Have to say younger guys are stronger at holding your hips and thrusting obviously, but never had a young guy go down on me for an episode of Friends before. Equipment wise everything worked, wore heels and thong and the mast stayed erect.

From Zeke
I am a man of 32 and had the distinct pleasure of a sexual encounter with a 56 year old female co-worker last year. After I got over my initial reservations of sex with a much older woman I was absolutely amazed at how good the sex was!

Given that this is the only experience I have ever had with a much older woman I am not sure I can speak as an authority; however this women was fantastic! She was very committed to exploring deep pleasure and had absolutely no inhibitions at all! The experience has brought about a paradigm shift in the way that I look at older women!

From Sheila
I'm a married lady in my mid sixties, slim, sexy and attractive, and the member of a male dominated club that now allows lady members. We meet each week and I have been lucky to meet a number of handsome men half my age who enjoy the company of older more mature ladies, especially over dinner in a good restaurant, followed by some enjoyable, satisfying creative sex.

I enjoy the company of younger, more alert men who nearly always turn out to be very virile active lovers, and I now enjoy sex in its many forms including oral and anal. As a result the frequency and creativity of sex with my husband has also much improved over the past year or so and this has helped liven up our relationship, physically and otherwise.

From Mark
I'm a younger man and I choose an older woman every time. I was introduced to a mature woman when I was 24, she was 55 and the sex was fantastic. So much so that I would never look at a younger woman again.

When I was 30, I met this 65 year old and we fancied each other like crazy. Sad thing is I let other peoples views influence me into thinking it was wrong. Why??? I would say to any younger man who reads this, an older woman is more experienced, exciting and much much better than any young bimbo out there. Try and older woman you'll be damn glad you did

From Czaiden
I'm glad to know that someone out there likes it older. I'm in a cyber-relationship with someone that's 20 yrs older than me, and it's wonderful. True, it's just cyber, and we talk about other things, but I have the most mindblowing orgasms knowing she's watching me, since I have a webcam and she doesn't. This makes it easier believe it or not, since she knows I'm doing something and not just talking.. so she's getting something out of it too. Thanks to her, I've revised my former "age biased" opinion on the older set. Thank you baby.. you know who you are.. and to all you younger men out there, try it, they just might like it!!

From Sam
To Franco 48 is old?!? [See Franco's entry on page 2] I'm 72 and there is an 85 year old woman I am just dying to get into bed with. It's all a matter of perspective. The best thing about being older is that the crop of attractive women grows every year when the girls turn 18! A 48 year old woman is just hitting her stride. No wonder you had such a great time!

From Chuck
My wife, 65 in April, went on holiday to India with a friend over Christmas and New Year for a month and came back slimmer and much energized with an amazing appetite for sex (plus pubic hair trimmed back to a 'landing strip' and a black rose tattoo on the small of her stomach). Previously lovemaking would have been once a fortnight, but on the day of her return we indulged three times, on her arrival early morning, lunchtime and in the evening before jet lag caught up and she crashed out. 

It transpired that she had met this younger man and after a number of dinner dates allowed herself to be seduced becoming completely taken by his sexual prowess, stamina, especially impressed by the volume of sperm he deposited in her vagina and mouth. Her sexual reawakening is of course good news for me and for us to indulge both during the day and in the evening is very enjoyable and satisfying and for the first time we are seriously discussing 'swinging' with other couples and seeing if we could arrange a 'threesome' with a young single guy.

From Brit
I am 80 my beloved 77. We met 15 years ago shortly after my first wife died. She is very pretty, tiny size 4, weighs 96lbs and has a nice bosom. She is always very lady like and essentially (or so I thought) did not like oral. I suffer from PTSD and my life became unbearable until I sought professional help and wound up being prescribed psychotropic medication which dramatically delayed ejaculation. 

My beloved usually climaxes within two minutes of penetration. I had never done cunnilingus with her until two months ago when I started with softly kissing her pubic zone. After doing this twice I started licking her clitoris and she went ballistic. Climaxed in about 30 seconds. Our sex life is much improved because of this. Since it takes me a while to ejaculate she can have several orgasms. She told me that she doesn't mind the extra time I take. Thing is, I just love doing her little button but she gets off so fast and wants me to enter her immediately. Which I do. She usually groans deeply on penetration and is really vocal at climax. 

Before the taking of medication we would be intimate three times a week. We are now down to once weekly but it is the best sex I have ever had. It is totally gratifying for me to be able to please and satisfy her that it is worth the wait.

From Victor
My wife and I are in our mid sixties and are very active, enjoy life and enjoy our sex, have no inhibitions about sexual positions and styles. We recently spent a week at a very beautiful colonial style hotel in Florida celebrating our fortieth wedding anniversary. We had a lovely room with old brass bed and great balcony view of the gulf. Unfortunately the walls weren't too thick and during vaginal and anal love making my wife likes to show her enjoyment and ecstasy with lots of 'fuck me's'. 

Well, after one particularly hot session around midnight, which I guess lasted a good thirty minutes, we got a call at breakfast time from the front desk asking us not to 'party' so loud. It transpired that both the people in the rooms either side of us had complained at my wife's loud requests for me to fuck her harder. I later found out that both people were young couples in their thirties and I couldn't believe that they were so sourpuss about sex, can only guess they are just very repressed people.

From Richard
I'm 76 and my wife is 74 but we still have fabulous, wild sex. We've kept ourselves active, exercise regularly (including gym workouts) and practice moderation in all things (except sex) such as eating and alcohol. Plus no use of illegal drugs. No, I don't need Viagra; don't get me wrong, if you need Viagra or Cialis - use it! 

We both come (she is multi-orgasmic) and my cock gets as hard as a rock. As I write this I think of last night; she still yells as I pound away. Maybe our good luck is an attitude. One of let's not be bullied by those who decry "senior" sex and have had a very open mind about good sex. 

Those of you that have slowed down (by the way, see a doctor if you are having some problems) by all means use the sex objects others have mentioned or some good cuddling and foreplay. Keep an open mind and enjoy. We do!

From April
Sexual performance was an exclusive problem for the younger man but since the arrival of Viagra older men are now staying harder longer and their sexual performance is beginning to ape the younger man. 

In a small retirement community this can lead to some problems and in our gated community two couples have divorced and left us. For those who have remained (28 couples, all in their sixties and seventies) the women are well serviced by the men who not only can achieve and hold an erection but can perform better than they may have done pre-Viagra, premature ejaculation also receding as a problem. 

My husband is typical of the men in the group. He is 68 and his 'little blue pill' will give him an permanent erection of up to three or four hours and at an evening 'swing' party he may well service three different women plus sex with me. We wives may be living in a fool's paradise but for the time being we are very pleased that we have a very impressive choice of men whose sexual performance takes us back to our younger days.

From Jim
I turned 70 yesterday and my pixie like 60 yo female partner had a 69 session which ended with her swallowing my cum while I massaged her "G" spot and licked her clit until she squirted onto my face! We still love sex and I don't use Viagra!

From Aron
The experiences shared are very vivid. I am a male 54 and wondered what it will be like when I reach 60. It looks good to be growing and reaching another era of experience

From Douglas
I was 25 yrs of age and we had just invaded Italy in 1944, having just spent 4 years in Egypt where pussy was in short supply I was randy. We were billeted in a tobacco factory in a town in south Italy and an old lady (84) used to chat to me over the wall of her garden. 

As everything was in short supply I used to give her little bits and pieces, I then worked my way into her home and in no time had taken her to her bed and had a good deal of sexual relief. She was quite nice about it and I enjoyed myself, it was a case of "needs must when the devil drives" I went on to "know" about 30 ladies in my 18 months service there and she was one of the best.

From Franco
I can confirm that there is no such thing as a woman being too old for sex. A few years ago when I was 28, I had the pleasure of meeting a woman who was 48. The sex was simply amazing. One time, I fucked her for an entire day, with a few breaks here and there. She had a delicious pussy that I loved to eat, that gave her screaming orgasms. And she in turn would suck my dick in such a way, that my pleasure was so intense, that I never wanted her to stop. 

Her age didn't matter. She was a very sexual woman who knew how to give a man pleasure. I know now that whether I have sex with a woman who is 25, 30, or 45, or a woman who is 50 or 60 plus, the sex can be great.

From Anonymous
I am 39 (really!) and my current lover is 64. We have been having sex for 3 years, and it only keeps getting better. He knows my body and what makes it respond more than any other (younger) lover I've had. He makes me orgasm over and over, and he says I keep him rock hard longer than any woman ever has. He usually comes 3 or 4 times when we're together. 

He's also fantastic at telling erotic stories while he strokes my clit. I had another lover who was in his early 50s, and he was great, too, but not as good as the current one. Maybe older is better?!

From Jessica
My husband is 70 this year and I am 68 and we are an active married couple and that includes sex three or more times a week. Because we have kept our figures and looks we have excited the interest of people much younger than us and we enjoy regular extra-marital experiences. Our younger sex partners are consistently flabbergasted at our interest in not just sex but creative sex. 

My husband has many younger female admirers who enjoy his sophistication and sexual experience while I have younger men who appreciate my matching their virility with my lack of inhibition.

From Mary
I recently heard a psychologist mention some back reading she had been doing about sex and the older generation. The point of the studies she was reading was that "of all ages and phases, sex is most exciting for couples in their 70s and 80s." That affirmed what I was just discovering as one of the best kept secrets of all ages below 60.

Having just turned 60, I experienced an epiphany of sorts, one of the lessons learned being that I am just now beginning to enjoy my sexual prime. My sexuality is not only intact, it is flourishing. The appearance of the body no longer gets in the way of a couple pleasuring each other and enjoying being pleasured. The mind and sensibilities are now broad enough to entertain variations once considered taboo. So, to you younger men and women, don't disparage the sexuality of the older generation. You'll get your turn.

From Anonymous: I think the biggest difference between the "youngsters" and the over fifty crowd is that as we get older we're more into quality than quantity.

From Franky: I have just celebrated my 71st b/d, and am convinced that sex is better with each passing year. Many of my operating systems have slowed with age, but still work like a charm. My wife, who is 20 yrs younger, calls me 'horndog geezer', and seems well pleased with my performance. I'm still a horny teen-ager in heart and mind.

From Jimie
Being sexually active and enjoying sex doesn't suddenly end when you're 60! I'm 68 and my wife is coming up to her 65 birthday and we've never faltered once in our sex life, engaging in sex in one form or another three or four times a week, both of us having high sex drives. We are both slim, good looking, tanned and healthy, lead active lives. 

From Ron
I am 74 and my lady friend is 68 - we met 4 years ago and have been going steady for 3 of those. It took a while at first she was of the impression that after 55 all areas of her body were out of bounds to anyone (including her) until one weekend when we went away, we usually shared a room but had single beds, this time however following a complete mix up a double room was provided, with nothing available for the rest of the weekend, and being tight as we had paid up front we decided to utilize the room as intended. 

Having her lie next to me although in her nightie turned me on and I could not contain my erection, through my pajama bottoms it protruded, the more I tried to hide it and make it go away the more it poked out, typical. She woke up and looked at me and found the whole episode quite funny, she eventually said I could masturbate over her but that's it. She removed her nightie and exposed her wonderful breasts, they were lovely with good old fashioned long thick nipples. 

My hand was wrapped around my penis so fast I could feel myself coming. She took my other hand and placed it on her breast, I rolled her nipple through my fingers, she felt good. She did let out a little sigh as this happened so I thought I would just concentrate on her for a while, I bent down and kissed the nipple, whilst slowly touching the other breast, her reaction to this was the green light needed, my hand slid up her thigh and felt the warmness of her vagina, her back arched and she was completely mine. 

She commented why we had not done this years ago, I just kept quiet. I slipped her nightie off and gazed at her body, she was still in good shape for her age and this turned me on even more, I had not made love for over 8 years and desperately needed her, but I knew I had to go slowly. I decided to go down the kissing of the tummy routine which worked, her legs opened and offered me more, which I gladly took. She tasted delightful, all musky and warm, her female juice was offered to me on a silver plate which I accepted without a second thought.

I asked her if we could make love - I won't tell you her reply because I want you to remember that to me she is still a lady and the reply I had was nothing of the kind! We made love for a good hour - very slowly but excellent none the less. 

Needless to say the second night we both got into bed naked and it happened all over again, and continues to this day - much to our children's disgust.

From Steve
I'm 67 and I go through these periods when I am intensely horny. (As I write this my cock is stiffening!) I love to make an older woman come - writhe about in ecstasy. Some years ago I met a 68 year old. When I went to her place (first time I had met her in the flesh - before I had only talked to her on the phone), she started making a cup of coffee for me. I lifted her skirt and within seconds we were nude in her bed, with me stroking her clit. She loved it!

From Adhara Law
I have a funny vibrator story of my own, related to my via my husband. Before we got married, my husband was helping my parents move to a new home. My parents are about 45, and my husband is 35 (I'm 26). My dad and my husband were picking up some boxes, when all of a sudden, a loud buzzing noise was coming from one that my husband bumped.

My dad and he looked at each other; my husband thought he was going to break down in hysterics. They both knew what it was -- my mother's little *ahem* friend(s). My dad bumped the box again and it stopped. He said, "You should probably ignore that."

From Tessa
I have some Un-clever input on this issue: It doesn't bother me at all to imagine my parents doing IT. Bothered me to death when I was a kid that they "necked" constantly. Nowadays, I know the what's and why's of all that mush. The people I'd hate to imagine making love are my KIDS, not my parents.

From PasshnFlwr
...uh...if I can't give my sweetie a good tongue lashing in his older years...just shoot me.

From Don
If anyone thinks sex is just for the younger set (say less than 60) they just have not tried. It is way exciting and oh so easy in our modern time. Lack of male erections is easily solved by prescriptions such as cialis, levitra, and viagra and/or cock rings. Female dryness is easily solved with any number of lubricants such as Astroglide and/or saliva.

Not as easily solved is a tightness found in the vaginas of older women, that tightness resulting as much from lack of use as age. But, even that can be solved in very exciting ways. One way is with gentle caring entry with lots of feedback from the lady. He may not get all the way in the first few times, but eventually things will open. And the trying is almost as exciting as the result! Another approach careful play with dildos of increasing size. It takes some time and caring, but the tightness will disappear. Then it is up to you to keep things exercised!

I find older female bodies as exciting and excitable as young ones. That especially applies to older clits, which when properly loved always generate pleasure!

From BD
At 60, I was with a 47 year old woman. I would fuck and suck for hours, sometimes starting after work on Friday, fucking and sucking all night, all day Saturday and all night, all day Sunday and all night. Obviously there were short cat naps occasionally, some getting up for drinks and snacks, and potty breaks. I was at my sexual peak and could keep a hard-on without coming for hours and days, as long as it was stimulated. 

I was definitely a better lover with more stay power and more ability to romantically and sexually please a woman than I ever was while younger.

From Bob
My wife is a fiftiesomething lady who has a trim figure and good looks, vivacious and engaging personality. We have an active sex life and I would hope that she is fully satisfied with me sexually and she wouldn't go behind my back for gratuitous sex but would, if bored in bed with me, agree to swing with those of our friends who indulge.

From John
I suppose my experience is pretty tame. I have had one wife and no other sexual partners. She was the same. We had almost 53 years together until her heart gave out. I'm now 77.

Once she got through menopause (at 55) and the kids were mostly gone we stepped it up some. Almost every day and sometimes more. Since neither of us had had any prior experience, we had had to learn together and she had some inhibitions so it was quite a while before we started going down on each other. Unfortunately, I was never able to come that way though she did. It was probably great as it kept our loving from becoming stale always found new things we could do to make each other happy.

As the years went on we slowed down some. I masturbated solo much less. I don't think she ever masturbated solo much, though I encouraged her to anytime she felt like it. She never overcame her inhibitions that probably came from being brought up with four old maid aunts (along with parents.) We would masturbate together sometimes, particularly when I couldn't get hard enough an erection for fucking. I was over 70 by that time.

I write this to give you young whippersnappers some idea of what you can look forward to. I still have no idea what too old is. I'm not there yet for sure. I haven't found a new girlfriend yet but haven't looked too hard. What I miss most is someone on the other side of the bed to cuddle with. And play with, of course.

From Anonymous
Congratulations for opening up this page. I am 62, male, have a splendid wife—2 yrs junior. Sexual life of ours, I consider, mature and open. It is not as tense as it used to be when we were younger. Since my only son is now married and mostly lives elsewhere, we have plenty of liberty to enjoy our sex at our will. 

We take time to relish our sexual appetite, introduce variations, like, taking showers together with enough rubbing, hugging, soaping and often copulation but not ejaculation quite then. We take time to climax and before that she loves my penis inserted in her vagina for hours - often from behind holding her close, often she in upper position straddling on my penis. True, the penis often gets near about limp but the sensation is enough to get it erect in no time, while I squeeze her tits or suck on her nipples, alternatively she tweezes or suck on my nipples. This goes on for hours till we decide to have orgasm - very often together. 

This we developed from Tantric principle of sex. This does not happen very often but twice or thrice a month keeps us living and looking for a second time. In between such time, we have options to occasional use of vibrator but that is not on regular basis. In other times, we sleep in bed hugging together feeling our bodies exchanging warmth - again a Tantric way of communicating feeling. Comparing to our younger days, this is quite a innovation that has different dimension of trust and enjoyment.

7/29/70

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