Losing Your Virginity

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From Faenia
My first time hurt so much that my boyfriend had to stop halfway through because I honestly couldn't bear the pain. The second and third times were also quite painful. It wasn't until halfway through the third time that the pain subsided, and it wasn't until the fifth time that I began to see what all the fuss was about. Prior to my fifth time, I had sex out of a sense of obligation and curiosity; afterwards, I did it because I enjoyed it. I envy girls who have an easy first time. I really do.

From Jerry
I lost my virginity at 15 years old by my mom's friend who used to stay with us at times. My mother was divorced like this woman. My mother seemed like she suspected that we had did something but she never said anything to me about it.

Some say that this type of thing does harm to a young man, but I can only say that after that first time, I was in love with her and I learned how to make love, including oral, to a woman. This woman is 24 years older than me and is still very beautiful, but she is now happily married. She will always be important in my life and I will always love her. I think my mother can somehow feel how much I care for this lady.

From Another Male Perspective
Just thought people might be interested in another guy's first time experience - thanks to the first one for breaking the ice. The third woman I got it together with was eleven years older than me and very dominant. I just didn't feel like I had any way out. I knew I had to fuck her, and I knew that I had to keep doing it. What's more, I knew I had to give the impression of wanting it. So that's what I did. Big mistake. It was horrible for me, but she had no idea about that because I later found some of her poems online and the meaning wasn't very well disguised. 

Let me put it like this: I didn't have to fake orgasms, but I did have to fake enjoyment, and it looks like I faked it pretty well. (I'd say a lot of porn actors do the same; it can't be that much fun having sex in a brightly-lit studio, especially when there's a bunch of guys standing around.) What baffles me is how I got involved with her. I guess I was pretty insecure; a lot of guys are in their teens. 

Things aren't like that any more. I haven't seen her, or even had to think about her, for such a long time, and I'm so glad! I'm with someone who's just wonderful, and all that unpleasantness is in the past.

From Daniel
I don't know if guys are meant to post on this forum or not, I've not seen a any male posters on this topic, so if I'm not meant to be posting here can a admin please delete this or move it to a male equivalent forum. Guys are nervous too. I was young when I lost it, I just wanted to get it over and done with, so I rushed and made a embarrassment of myself, I felt nervous scared and excited all at the same time, I was more worried of what the girl thought of me and looking like a idiot then anything else.

From Liz
So many women say how they bled the first time they had sex, and it hurt at first and the hymen broke and all that jazz. This experience is alien to me. I never bled or felt pain when I first had sex. The only time I feel discomfort is when a guy goes in before I'm wet enough. So I guess I'm just different. Either I never had a hymen, or mine is just really stretchy. Or maybe I broke it by accident as a child, and I just don't remember—although I think I would remember something like that.

From Anonymous
My boyfriend and I of two months tried to have sex. We have talked about it before-hand so it wasn't unexpected, but we were both virgins so when it came down to it, we didn't know what to do. The pain was so unbearable I asked him to stop. He tried four times, each time the pain was a little less intense, but I just couldn't handle it. He listened and didn't hold it against me that we didn't finish. We have talked and decided we need more time next time. I'm just so afraid of not being able to take the pain.

From Bernie
I lost my virginity at age 17. My girlfriend was 19. She was a virgin too. It was in the front seat of my Ford Pinto. I know those of you who  remember that vehicle are wondering how that happened. It was on desolate dead end street of a housing development under construction. I think it hurt her a little but not for long. Subsequent sessions were much better. I didn't last very long. As I ejaculated a pall washed over me as the words of my parents telling my sex was bad echoed in my head. Hormones were stronger then my parents words though.

Sex for me and sex for her were different. I was a young man with raging hormones, yes, but a plan for my future. The future included college and career. Was I in love and did my future include her? I hadn't thought out the relationship that far. I was sincerely in love at the moment. She had apparently thought about the relationship and her career. Her career was me. I think the moment we had sex, she felt like we were going to together forever. The reality was neither of us were mature enough to know what we wanted forever. We were together about six or eight more months before I graduated and headed off to college. I broke it off before I left for college. It ended badly. I didn't miss her and still don't.

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