Losing Your Virginity

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From Anonymous
Today my boyfriend and I of two months tried to have sex. We have talked about it before hand so it wasn't unexpected, but we were both virgins so when it came down to it, we didn't know what to do. The pain was so unbearable I asked him to stop. He tried four times, each time the pain was a little less intense, but I just couldn't handle it. He listened and didn't hold it against me that we didn't finish. We have talked and decided we need more time next time. I'm just so afraid of not being able to take the pain.

From Another Male Perspective
Just thought people might be interested in another guy's first time experience - thanks to the first one for breaking the ice, but unlike him I'm not about to give my real name! It's funny, my first couple of girlfriends were beautiful but I never felt ready for penetrative sex with them. I don't know why. I guess that something was wrong on the emotional level. I don't think I quite trusted either of them. The first was a couple of years younger than me, a virgin, and just a little bit manipulative, the second was a year older than me, not a virgin, and more than a little bit 'loose'. I went a long way with them physically and enjoyed it very much, but didn't go as far as penetration. 

Then the third woman I got it together with was eleven years older than me and very dominant. I just didn't feel like I had any way out. I knew I had to fuck her, and I knew that I had to keep doing it. What's more, I knew I had to give the impression of wanting it. So that's what I did. Big mistake. It was horrible for me, but she had no idea about that because I later found some of her poems online and the meaning wasn't very well disguised. 

Let me put it like this: I didn't have to fake orgasms, but I did have to fake enjoyment, and it looks like I faked it pretty well. (I'd say a lot of porn actors do the same; it can't be that much fun having sex in a brightly-lit studio, especially when there's a bunch of guys standing around.) What baffles me is how I got involved with her. I guess I was pretty insecure; a lot of guys are in their teens. 

Things aren't like that any more. I haven't seen her, or even had to think about her, for such a long time, and I'm so glad! I'm with someone who's just wonderful, and all that unpleasantness is in the past.

From Sulga
I lost my virginity when I was 17 years old. I lost it to my best friend of my the same age. It was during the school Island Nite and my best friend and I were sent to buy some snacks in the nearby village. I trusted this boy as he is my best friend however it turn out to be the one I will lose my virginity to him. He is handsome and tall for his age, and kinda of shy.

From Daniel
I don't know if guys are meant to post on this forum or not, I've not seen a any male posters on this topic, so if I'm not meant to be posting here can a admin please delete this or move it to a male equivalent forum. Guys are nervous too. I was young when I lost it, I just wanted to get it over and done with, so I rushed and made a embarrassment of myself, I felt nervous scared and excited all at the same time, I was more worried of what the girl thought of me and looking like a idiot then anything else.

From Anonymous
My first time was not the best way one should loose their virginity. I was 16, and he was 23. My boyfriend wasn't nice or understanding about the whole situation. He pressured me into having sex with him until finally one night I did.

It was the most horrible night of my life. My boyfriend wasn't on the small side so that was one thing going against me...he barely got the tip in good. I tried to push him off because it hurt so badly, but he didn't stop. After he finished I got dressed and went home. I was soo sore and I bleed for 2 weeks after that, and every other time we had sex. I truly regret it till this very day, but I can't change the past.

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