Is Phone Sex Cheating?

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From Anonymous
I feel so guilty. I would never ever want to hurt my husband I love him so much. I have a sex drive that needs a ride! I talked sexy on the phone for the attention, for the feeling of being wanted, and sexy and I liked it because I feel am lonely. My husband would be hurt if I told him this, and I don't want to hurt him so I will just not do it anymore. Does this make me horrible?

From Elly
I personally think it would depend on wether it was anonymous or a personal call, say someone you work with or met online and carry on a non sexual relationship with. If you know so much about someone that they are no longer simply a vent for sexual frustration, you may begin to desire a relationship with them. Wanting that relationship is cheating. A call to someone you don't know is not.

From shadow_dreamer
Like cyber-sex I feel phone sex is also cheating. You are not only venturing into another avenue but you are straying from your relationship. One should stop, think and take a good look at their relationship and answer the question "Why am I doing this?" Even if you're thinking it's just for fun or self gratification then try to imagine, see how it would feel because it hurts your partner. It not only deteriorates a relationship it can also create a few emotional problems for yourself and your other half.

We are emotional beings and when we get hurt we may forgive but it is rare to forget thus creating bad memories. How would you feel if your other half participated in phone and cyber-sex?

From Sassy
Now being a phone sex operator everyone expects me to say no. Well I haven't always been one. I have also experienced in my years of this profession that most people think it is all about sex. This isn't always the case. I have had men call me and just wanna talk about something that has happened that he doesn't bother his wife with because it isn't that big of a deal but he needs to vent about it. Most people not just men can vent on strangers easier than with someone they know because they don't have to worry what the stranger thinks of them.

Now I have had all sorts of people call me. Men usually call these lines because they have a fetish that their wives just wouldn't understand. I have had married men 30 years with 5 kids call because they like to be dressed up in women's clothes and made into a panty boy. In today's society he would be labeled gay and less of a husband and father if it was to get out. Through phone sex he can be anonymous and fulfill his desires. Also I have asked men that called me why they call me and they say because I respect my wife enough not to ask her to demeanor herself the way I ask you...I can ask you because I don't know you! That seems like a fair thing to me.

Now I have had a preacher call me because his wife was so religious they slept in different beds, he was married for 55 years! Could you imagine 55 years of sleeping in a different bed and only having sex on special occasions? Now if a man has an open minded wife and one that wouldn't mind some of the weird things men ask of me then it is cheating. So before you go judging the man or the operator ask yourself...what are your boundaries!

Now don't get me wrong I have mine as well. I had a boyfriend that asked me to quit my job because he felt I was cheating on him when I went to work. I don't see how he feels that. They weren't touching me! But all is to their own opinions. I have people ask me all the time. Would you feel the same if it was your husband/boyfriend and you weren't an operator? Well considering I'm pretty open about a lot of stuff I would ask him why he feels he needs to call someone he'll never meet to fulfill over a phone what I can in person.

So is it cheating? No I don't think it is.

From Unmay
May be it is cheating however isn't it true that our conscious mind leads always to cheat the heart, which always remains captive of the conscious mind that is governed in turn by the fear of the innumerable bondages of our social-ethical-political laws?

Phone sex is a way like other means to come out of the suffocation. It is possible only because partners at both the ends are sick of the same disease.

From Krystal
Yes it is cheating. This is coming from a wife and mother sitting up at 3:00am crying my eyes out. We have battled with this for years. He keeps saying "I know it hurts you and I will stop". But never has! I have tried many alternatives to spice things up. It makes me feel as though he doesn't love me and I am not good enough.

I have given my life up for my family. And this makes me feel very much unappreciated and useless. It really hurts. But I love him and don't have any clue on where to go from here?? Sometimes when we do things we need to think about how it will affect others in our lives.

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