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From Kev
Having read the discussions I feel I must respond. Both my girlfriend & I developed our own rape role play from an unexpected scenario. At a car boot sale a batch of summer dresses were being cleared at £2 each. I harmlessly remarked "let me buy a couple of extra ones, maybe I could rip one off you" my girlfriends reaction was ecstatic & her eyes clearly lit up! She couldn't return home fast enough & in the safe confines of my bedroom she put on one of the summer dresses & laid herself down on her back on my bed.

She waited obediently & with much anticipation as my hands roamed freely over her dress. When I took a firm hold of the top of her dress her eyes were ablaze with lust as I announced I was going to rip her dress open. I pulled her dress wide apart scattering the buttons in all directions and it felt I was viewing her breasts for the very first time! I continued to tear her dress & we had the most frenzied mutual sex we had enjoyed in a long time...a realized fantasy for us both treated with mutual respect.

From Carol
I apparently have a whole slew of "inappropriate fantasies!" And that little bit of recently-acquired judgmentia is not going to stop me having them, either.

From Virginflame
Having read The Office Slut and the multitude of opinions concerning the subject matter I am worried that many people have completely missed the point of fantasy. I am horrified that what is apparently role play of an extreme kind has caused some of the more judgmental and quite frankly small minded to pigeon hole the sexuality of others. To say that one hates sex because one can appreciate dominating or being domineered...or as in the case of the missive in question fantasize about "rape" and enjoy it is misguided at best and frightfully ignorant at worst. 

The Office Slut is a well-written scenario concerning the enjoyment of power plays. Much like her masturbatory demonstration her cries of "no" was obviously for show. Having been raped on more than one occasion I assure you that this story bears little resemblance to the real thing. There is a real difference between a woman enjoying being taken and the ugly nightmarish reality of true rape. What saddens me is that some have actually wasted time and energy condemning a well-written piece based on uninformed outmoded beliefs. Honestly some of you have apparently seen one too many Hollywood portrayals and/or read one too many self-help books. This amateur psychology that so many of us are given to is clearly more of a detriment that a help. Anyone that's bothered to talk to a therapist anytime in the last decade would know that rape fantasies are not only common but normal and are in no way a blanket indication of a disturbed psyche.

Not too long ago many would have said that fantasizing about interracial relationships let alone sex indicated an obvious aberration in one’s sexuality and/or mental health. Quite frankly in some people’s minds it still is. Yet some of you are quite ready to label others because they think about and enjoy thoughts that clearly make you uncomfortable. To tsk-tsk an author for saying what few will admit to is shameful. To castigate a person for expressing a thought that obviously brings him or her pleasure is utterly reprehensible. Save your disdain for those that truly deserve it.

Regardless as to my personal opinion about the subject matter I would not stifle anyone's creative output when no one including the characters bear any harm. I dislike Picasso's works intensely but I will not deny that they are art. After all beauty is in the eye.... Likewise if you dislike a particular fantasy subject you are entitled to your opinion but erotica is in the mind of the lover.

From Buddy
I have this fantasy where I take her with so much force that she begs me to stop but I continue to fuck her hard. She comes and I come hard and then I force her to suck me clean. I have actually tried it a few times and my girlfriends have said that they enjoyed being taken hard and fast and made to suck their own cum from my cock.

From Ak
I Just finished reading the story. I am not much in to the forced fantasy themes. I did enjoy this story very much because I did not think it was a rape. She was enjoying every single moment of it. She was putting up a show for him.

What made it very Hot for me, was the fact that it was with someone she did not know (a stranger).

From Pbr
Rape fantasies are among the most difficult of topics, and poorly analyzed can cause extraordinarily wrong impressions. Most of the distinction is because of gender, perhaps, and because of improper analysis.

All sexual thoughts are subject to incitement of sexual fantasies, regardless of circumstances simply because mankind is hard wired to be sensitive to sex and the feelings evoked from focusing upon it - at any age beyond puberty. Before puberty, sexual topics or acts are abusive in all cases and circumstances.

Sexual fantasies reside either from personal imagination or exposure to those of others, I.e., from internal sources or external sources, and are often based upon knowledge or experience of the topic within that personal frame of reference.

Since rape is actually force and not seduction, gender differences are important. It is said that men cannot be raped since they have control over their own erections. It is possible for men to be able to be seduced, however, and much of the deliberation over consent revolves around whether or not there was seduction sufficient by the female to rise to the level of force initiated by the male, as a defense to a charge of rape.

To women, the pressure of seduction by males as rape qualifies the degree of force used as characterized by the type of pressure used to achieve consent or for submission. The miscalculation of males with regard to submission is usually the issue with regard to the interpretation of rape by females, and perhaps why they feel no sometimes means yes.

"Yielding" to the moment is where most rape cases fail, and where most males fall victim to charges of rape, regardless of the outcome in cases where physical force is not intended to be used but progressive actions fall into the category of rape when they are used. The failure of men to define, therefore, what is permissible seduction and what is force could help to clarify what is rape and what is not.

Making that same distinction for women would also be helpful to prevent circumstances that result in the feelings of being raped where consent boundaries have been violated.

Most female rape fantasies reside in the realm of seductive emotional pressure that overcomes moral resistance of society rather than the use of physical pressure that results in forced sex. Unless women have been severely abused and violated as children or young adults where forced brutality left imprints of rape as sexually based, they rarely equate rape with sexual pleasure.

Seduction vs force is typically the dividing line between male and female interpretations of what constitutes permissible conduct vs impermissible conduct.

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