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Could You, Would You?
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Men dare to reveal
Women dare to share
Your Fantasy 3some
MMF or FFM?
Taking Care of Business
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Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue
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How to blow his mind
Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?
The Taste of Cum
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Cupid's liquid darts
Describe Your Orgasm
How Does it Feel? Don't be Shy...
Why the deception?
Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner
Oral Sex or Intercourse?
What is your preference
Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?
Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?
Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?
Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?
Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?
It's complicated...or is it?
Women: During The Act
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Men: During The Act
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What do Women Want
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From Elizabeth B
My sex life of late is almost non-existent, so I masturbate frequently.
The quickest, easiest way for me to get off is to rub my clit while
fantasizing...and my biggest orgasms are when I fantasize about being
forced to have anal sex. I can think of my lover, a beautiful, sensuous woman, and it turns me
on, makes me dripping wet, and in the long run, I will come. But when I
think about a long black dick pumping me from behind, I am on my way in
seconds. And when that black cock is slipped from my wet pussy and shoved
roughly into my ass, the ground starts to move like never before!
I think about my ass cheeks being pulled open, that cock forcing it's
way into my tight hole. I see myself on my hands and knees, being pumped
mercilessly by a large black man...my head being pushed into the pillow
at just the right angle to look into the mirror. I watch him slamming
himself into me, I see his black rod pistoning in and out of my
ass. He taunts me, telling me that every time my girlfriend touches my ass,
I'll think about him riding me, and tells me I'll never be satisfied with
her fingers or tongue again. He calls me his bitch, slams himself into me
roughly, then pulls his cock out of my gaping ass and shoves it into my
mouth. I frantically rub my pussy, pressing hard on my clit, and I come
just as I picture his cock exploding, his thick white cum splashing down
From Miss B
I myself have several force fantasies. They fit the typical stereotype
of one or more large men making me do things I'm not sure I want to
do. Of course in my fantasies, the element of desire inside me wins out,
and I enjoy being taken in such a way, and orgasm because of it. This is
fantasy in so many ways. One, I would not really want to be in such a
situation--I would be afraid to be with more than one person at a time,
it would be too easy to be overpowered. Two, I am not averse to having
sex with large black men--I do so regularly, and am not scared at all.
The thing is, it feeds into society's taboos.
Anything that is "forbidden" always seems a bit more
exciting. I am currently building a relationship with another woman,
something I have never done before, and have not had sex with a man in
almost a year. I find that my fantasies about men have increased,
especially those involving force. This does not change the way I feel
about my female lover. I do not fantasize this way when I am with her.
She is gentle, loving, and very feminine. My mind gets to play in this
other playground when I have my own time, and I have many powerful
orgasms just thinking about having a big black cock shoved forcefully
into my ass. Fantasies, even force fantasies, are my mind's healthy way
of letting my body explore itself
I apparently have a whole slew of "inappropriate fantasies!"
And that little bit of recently-acquired judgmentia is not going to stop
me having them, either.
This is one of my biggest fantasies, to be taken against my will over an office desk. The office is always the domain of my fantasies.
While growing up, I would occasionally find myself having fantasies of
rape or forced sexuality, both acting and receiving. These threads have
persisted as part of a larger pantheon of fantasies through the years and
it is only recently that I have come to an acceptance of them. Almost anything can be made into an
arousing fantasy with the right crafting and I'm not about to allow a
story to send me into the streets on a mad raping spree. I think foreced fantasies are
obviously one of the most difficult to admit to having let alone sharing
- they require a certain amount of maturity and honesty from the reader
From Morganna L.
I think the distinction between fantasy and reality is the main point in this ( and many other) discussions. I am a highly-educated woman, a sociologist as a matter of fact, and while I risk my friendships, career and credibility with this admission, I believe it's important to make a public statement here. Yes, I am turned on by rape fantasies. I imagine them during sex, and I write about them. There is no moment, though, where I would want to be actually raped. There is no moment in the world where I think it's "okay" to actually rape, coerce, or otherwise force another person into a sexual act. I could post a whole long lecture here about "guilt" and sex and the "freedom" of non-consent (in a psychological way). Relax, I won't. But the bottom line is, "stroke material" is whatever you "allow" yourself to be turned on by --particularly stuff that goes against public policy. And as long as no one confuses fantasy for reality there is no problem.
I know, I know, some feminists argue (quite forcefully) that "fantasy" depictions of violence and rough sex "teach" men (it's usually me, they say) that it's "ok" to act this way in the real world. The same argument is used regarding media in general. ("Movies cause violence, rape, anti-social behavior, patriarchy, racism," etc.) I'm afraid I don't buy it and never will without irrefutable proof that explains the presence of these acts across cultures and history.
So...enjoy your fantasies and I'll enjoy mine.
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