Cock Rings
Tool of Torture or Toy of Pleasure?

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From Jim
I have used cock rings for several years. I wear 2-6 ounce metal bands around the penis and the scrotum. I wear 4 to 6 more slightly smaller diameter rings around only the scrotum. They feel really great especially when walking. During sex, they are totally awesome. I have other rings that are made of jade, granite etc. 

My girlfriend and I are really into the bondage scene a lot. She enjoys it all and is always looking for new things to try.

From Jim
I would like to hear from women who have had a partner use a vibrating cock ring and if there is a notable difference between non and vibrating cock rings.

From Kevin
I've been wearing my cock ring for years, I put my testicles through the metal ring then my penis. It never falls off and when I come, my penis goes soft so there's no reason to ever take it off.

From Darkfyre
I surprised my husband one night by using the ribbon from hair to tie his cock and balls in the cock ring fashion. He loved it and since then I have purchased several! I find them very erotic.

From Sarah
I just bought an adjustable rubber cock ring for my fiancé to wear on our honeymoon. He said that a bit of light bondage would really turn him on so I definitely plan to make him wear the cock ring one night during our trip. He said he's used the cock ring method in the past when masturbating (not with a ring, but more like wrapping a scarf tightly around there, etc) and it feels great - so I am assuming we will have a good time with it and probably use it a lot. It's interesting to hear everyone's experiences - thanks for sharing!

From Utah
I am forty-one and have been wearing a cock ring for about ten years. Made it myself out of sterling silver with an opening at the bottom to allow for swelling. It sits behind the head of my cock very comfortably and I wear it continuously apart from when I shower. I like the weight and the general feel and appearance. It's a piece of jewelry! Simple.

My girlfriend loves it. She says just the thought of it turns her on.

I occasionally wear others behind the balls and at the base of my cock, but this is only as a precursor to sex play or because I'm feeling particularly horny on a certain day. Otherwise it's just me and my jewelry! Oh, and I'm clean shaven too. Another thing my girl loves.

From Joey
I first started wearing them about five years ago. I tried leather first then spent money on a good thick stainless steal ring. I place it over my dick and pull my balls through it. I like the feel of the steel and the weight. It fits snug and is great for pulling the balls forward. It also helps you look great in jeans (commando) and swimsuits. Especially for swimming, when the cold water tends to shrink things up a bit, the cock ring helps your dick stay full without being hard.

I read once about a guy using multiple rings so I tried that. I have three now and place a steel ring, then rubber, then steel. I use that more for having sex and it is exceptional.

From Anonymous
I use an adjustable leather strap and I like it. It plumps up the penis just right and helps keep you nice and hard. Also the definition of the penis is more pronounced, more veiny and the ridge around the head of the penis has more definition. Now if I can just work up the nerve to use it during sex with my wife.

From Adam
The first one I ever had was thin and adjustable, it was sorta like one of those weird neckties that don't actually get tied but instead have a buckle or something clamped on it. Anyway, I liked the results but didn't really dig the the hair tugging that resulted from the contraption, lube did help but just a little.

It didn't take too long for me to figure out that the problem wasn't the ring. The problem was the hair. Once that was gone so was the discomfort. I got a lot of use out of that one for a while but have since discovered that I prefer having 'at least' one much thicker ring positioned behind the sack accompanied by smaller choker up front. 

The question of whether damage could result from wearing a ring for too long is one worth asking. I'm not sure about the risks to the reproductive system. But from a vascular point of view, it is my understanding that cells will eventually die if they do not receive enough O2. Fortunately the arteries which deliver the O2 rich blood to those cells are not as close to the skin or as pliable as are the veins which carry away the de-oxygenated blood. The veins are being restricted by the ring while the arteries continue to allow blood to build pressure thus resulting in the "Cockring Effect". Blah blah blah...

My guess is that extreme restriction could possibly result in a loss of a little sensitivity. But, because the typical cockring is essentially just an amplifier to the natural, more familiar, "Boner Effect", which doesn't seem to bother my penis one bit. This is not a common problem.

From Dominic
I have been using cockrings regularly for the last 10 years after being introduced to them as a surprise by my girlfriend at the time. She bought the rubber o-ring type and had 'manually sized me' while I thought I was just having a good time ! The point is, size is very important. They work by restricting blood flow out of the erect penis, which is why your dick gets engorged, remember put them on while soft, get hard and hey presto, you've gone up a dress size ! Experiment with size till it feels snug but not uncomfortable. 

Over the years have tried, rubber, metal, the tourniquet style, leather adjustable with standard metals studs (SAX fetish - one of the best manufacturers around) and other flexible types with ball separators etc. Have been able to wear all the flexible (ie rubber or leather) for up to 8 hrs without damage (stress correct sizing here again). Metals are unforgiving with all that soft tissue to pinch against and the more heavy BDSM styles are short term wear only. 

My partners have always enjoyed them mainly because my dick feels different, my ejaculations have a little more force because (of the blood engorging restriction) the come has to force through and my balls don't rise or retract up as I come. Only one not bad experience but a warning note for girls and a let them be surprised for the guys. When a women is on top obviously she will feel the ring quite a lot, but the rubber ones are more comfortable for both partners, but note! A women's clit will most likely hit right on top of the ring and be squished against the guys pubic bone and if the sex is vigorous or passionate...the ring will chafe just a little bit and your lady may experience a little stinging next time she pees or washes!

From ADavis
After reading the postings to this site on cock rings I was curious enough to buy one. I decided to buy the simple rubber rings. I bought a three pack of Cock Rings at the adult store for $7.50; medium, large, and horse-like. That way I could avoid the worry about sizing since I figured the medium or large would do it (alas, it was the medium).

My wife would not have approved so I tested it in secret. I had to kind of work it on down to the base of my cock, but it was the perfect fit. As I got hard the head really got firm and the definition of the shaft was great. I used some lubricant to run the pumping fist and my climax was very good—a bit more intense.

Eventually I worked the ring into lovemaking with the wife. When she finally agreed she was weary of anything that was outside the norm. We made love the usual way, with her on lying on top of me while I stroked her clit by reaching around and under. After she climaxed I used a small amount of lube to push the ring on and down.

We switched places to missionary and I slowly pushed my way into her. She said she could tell the difference in my cock, the head really hard and the circumference a bit bigger. And she liked it. While I eventually came with greater force, she climaxed again which is unusual. She said feeling me ejaculate and the bigger head did the trick.

Looks like the ring's a keeper!

From Dave
I used a Cock Ring for the first time last night. It was great! My wife says I was huge! I came before she did and was able to stay rock hard until she had an orgasm. By all means get a cock ring today!

From Speeds
I use Cock Rings like jewelry! I love going to the gym or the nude beaches and put them on. Three rubber o rings at the base and one under the head and it looks great and gets looks. They pump me up and and make my cock look pretty good. They keep me semi hard all of the time and you get that real plump like you've just had sex. That look is so sexy!

From Dustin
I'm going to be getting a cock ring for the first time and can't wait to give it a try. No matter how hard I try I can't control my orgasm, and go in like 15 or 20 min. My partner wants more and I want to give it to her but I physically can't and I hate it. Will this cock ring do what I've heard and allow me to control my orgasm, or is it a load of crap?

And I don't wear a condom, so I can't blow my load and keep going, or am I going to have to wear one if I use a cock ring, to be able to use it to its full ability?

From Zeke
I started using a cock ring a couple of years ago and have really grown to love it! I tend to prefer the ones made of rubber tubing with a plastic ball draw closure. The rubber expands a bit and allows for a tight fit with minimal pain. I tend to always use it during my first sexual encounter with a new partner because it allows me greater control over my ejaculation.

From Anonymous
I find that I enjoy the feel and look of cock rings very much. My fiancé likes how hard my cock gets and the little extra size I get with it. As to the weight, I use an aluminum silver cock ring that hardly feels like I have it on.

From Anonymous
Can someone answer this question, Can the cock ring cause any type of damage? I like to wear mine behind the scrotum and around the base of the penis. For example, could this cause damage to the bladder or testicles?

Also, some of these cockrings are made to keep the testicles from rising. (worn around the scrotum) could this damage the cords that pull the testicles up? (maybe pull a muscle or ligament)? please let me know.

From Dick
Cock rings? Toys, mostly. Oh, they can work after a fashion; keeping blood pressure in the penis. I'd recommend a trip to the local hardware store, where one can find a full range of  rubber o-rings. Select a size that creates just the right constriction on your cock. Rubber o-rings work well with water based lubricants and are easy to apply.

From Gary
Sorry Charlie, your statement that "It's impossible for a man to satisfy a woman with pecker alone" is unfortunate [see Charlie's entry below]. A woman can orgasm with just a man's pecker! But, he has to know what he's doing, banging away doesn't cut it (well, some women get off on that. Not complaining!).

But, I am off track...In order for both the man and woman to enjoy a cock ring it must be properly sized for his thickness. Whichever is used, it should have about the tension of a good hand (come on guys, you know what that means). The metal ones are the least forgiving, but that can be enjoyable in itself. Remember, if you and your partner get into a little BDSM, the cock ring can be a turn-on. The latex, rubber, or silicon types are more pliable, and are less harsh on a woman's body. The adjustable ones do tend to catch hair, unless you both shave it all off!

A correctly sized cock ring gives a firm cock even more definition (you like veins?? you got 'em!!). If used during intercourse, be gentle at first, cold metal against pussy isn't a turn on for her, but if used correctly, the firm thickness of a long-maintained erection will give a woman an orgasm. Slow and gentle at first, let her establish the rhythm (that's true without a cock ring, though).

Just like any other toy, cock rings are just that, a toy, you have to learn how to play with them.

From Charlie
Oh I know what they were design for. I just thought they were more for a man's ego. Keeping it up and all that stuff. However most women don't really reach a blow out just from having a man's dick going in and out. Like the dude and his harem. I wonder how many of the women really had an orgasm. Certainly not all of them. He just wanted to show off and say ‘I fucked them all.' 

I really never considered the one you mentioned that had the female stimulator on it. That would of course make a tad difference. 

I always believed and still do that the fingers, lips and tongue can satisfy a women as much if not more so than a stiff pecker with a rubber band around it. It's impossible for a man to satisfy a woman with pecker alone. That's why God created dildo's, vib's, buzzer's, and all those other good things. 

But then again, at my age, if I put one of those things on and it stayed up all the time I may not want to take it off. Then it would rot and fall off. Nope! I'll stay ringless. 

From Sedona
Charlie, cock rings are fun! At least to some. They serve several purposes: to prolong sex, to heighten orgasms by not allowing the blood to rush back to the body so quickly, to allow for a second round of sex when the blood is undecided whether or not to stay or go from the penis and finally, to heighten clitoral or anal stimulation to the woman and, in some particular varieties, can anchor a second dong for double penetration. Some vibrate, others have knobs or raised points for the woman.

The little bit of historical information I could find was that the cock ring was first used by a conquering prince in order to serve his harem - ALL of his harem.

From Al
You're right Charlie, there are tons of varieties out there, a Smorgasboard of sexual toys. And I have seen all different types of cock rings. However when I tried it my partner was not all that into it. But with the right person sex toys can add so much to sexual play and really it is all in the imagination and how they are used that makes it fun and erotic. With the right person anything can be a sex toy and be very stimulating.

From Al: 
Hmmmmm ... I'm not fond of the darn things.... have only used a couple and then discarded them. I had one that you could adjust and it was a thin rubber strip like an o-ring if you know what that is. But it had an adjustment that seemed to always catch my hair and then it hurt so that didn't last long.

I also had a leather one that had adjustable straps on it. Didn't like that one much either. It really didn't prolong my erection though really ... and maybe I was using it wrong ... but it never seemed to work like it was supposed to which is to trap the blood inside so you don't go flaccid. But out of the leather one and the rubber one I preferred the leather.

From Cervo
The only one I ever tried was made of steel. It was quite heavy. The lady thought that was all sorts of butch, but she of course was not wearing it. I think she bought it at a plumbing supply house. Anyway it felt like plumbing equipment when I put it on. It was heavy, annoying, distracting, and finally boring. I took it off and had a drink instead. She was annoyed and disappointed. So much for cockrings.

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