Younger / Older Relationships

What are the Expectations?

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From 47 and moist and beautiful still
Good for you John [see entry below]. I applaud you that you see beyond the age gap and what this beautiful woman of yours has to offer at age 48. If she is everything you have ever wanted in a woman, then claim her if she'll have you.

The real great connections and opportunities in life are rare I believe. And when you are in your 30’s you don’t always realize that yet. Some of you young guys, you're definitely intelligent, and thoughtful and sensitive but I would bet that there are those amongst you that will regret 10 or 15 years from now, letting that valuable and dynamic older woman go. And that is not something we can tell you or anybody can for that matter. You just have to be okay with that moment of clarity that this is the woman for you. 

I am not being flippant, and this choice is not possible for everyone to make. I don’t want to say that such an age difference does not matter at all. This is a bold choice. But like such things as finances, rearing children, and interracial marriage - it's as big or as little of an issue as you make it. Keep it simple. Go for the love, go with your gut and know that you each have much to offer each other and that is the beauty of a relationship where the compatibility is right on, the sex is great and together you make a little more of life than apart. 

I was with a young guy and the age difference was the same as with you (He was 33, I was 45). He could not make that choice to choose me. He just couldn’t get there. So again, I applaud you. Wishing you peace and happiness always. Happy New Year!

From Happy Nurser
I'm currently involved in an adult lactating relationship with another women. She's nursing and has started sharing this unbelievable gift with me. As a female I have always enjoyed having and looking at large breasts. However, Cindy's current state has taken my breast interest to a new level. I have now nursed from her huge bosom on several occasions and look forward to visiting with her almost weekly. Her typically large D cup breasts have grown to twice their normal size. 

I'll never forget my first nursing experience. I was staying over and we were watching TV. The conversation turned to nursing and her ability to produce large volumes of milk. She asked me if I was ever curious enough to taste her milk. She dimmed the lights and called me over to the couch. She was wearing a silk robe and pj bottoms. She opened the robe exposing a big white nursing bra. She then exposed her large full, right breast while remaining in the bra. She pulled my head to her warm soft breast. As she relaxed I learned to empty her supply. It was the most erotic moment of my life.

From Jim The Younge
Honey, I'd say give it up [see entry below]. He's not confusing you, you're lying to yourself. Your young guy already said "never again," he's not coming around, don't you think that's enough of a hint that you're wasting your time waiting for him to round? 

I had an intense experience with a woman 12 years my senior. She was lovely, charming, sexy, smart - every thing I ever wanted in a woman. Except that she had young children (I wasn't ready for kids, especially not my own), and I was always aware of her age (not in a good or a bad way, just aware of it in a general way) and it seemed that our relationship centered around sex, and that simply wasn't enough. As much as I loved to be with her, I felt uncomfortable at the same time. It didn't work out, and ended badly. I wasn't strong enough to be honest, left her in limbo and that hurt her. For that I'll always be sorry.

From Tigerlily
I am 47 and divorced 4 years ago. 2 years ago I had a sexual fling with my neighbor, a handsome 32 year old. It happened one night...I think now that it was going to happen for a lot longer than I was aware of! I was 45 then. Wow, blew me away. He is very experienced and took charge - in all the right ways.

We both contributed to what we enjoy in the bedroom. I have outward reserve but I have discovered, with the right man I am a slut in bed. He loved it. I suspect I am the best sex he's ever had, and he has had a lot. I love oral sex, both give and take, and he is totally the right fit inside me. It was just so liberating and unexpected for me. I was able to give and take and be present like never before, because I had no agenda other than him at that moment.

I have a very young body, a classic hourglass figure. To men I am 47 going on 37, which is wonderful of course. He is very successful and works like crazy. I am successful too, with a business I have run for 20 years. I think that I was a surprise for him too.

Then after 6 months of mostly bootie calls and after a night of "this feels so good" he ended it abruptly saying "never again".

I moved 6 month ago (it was planned, not becasue of him and not far away) and he's no longer my neighbor. Before I left I walked up to him in front of our houses. He was kind of abrupt, tense and standoffish. I told him never was a very long time, had he ever thought about changing his mind? He smiled, and was warm like the sun. He put his arms around me and kissed me on the neck and said we would talk about that when I moved.

But now I have talked to him on the phone a couple of times, and he remains elusive. I can't get him in a room with me . He is a very direct person and would have no problem telling me to let it go if that was where he was. But he hasn't. He says he'll call...then doesn't. Yeah he's furiously busy with his projects but is that just an excuse? Is he just thinking about it, feeling what it is like to not have me as a neighbor? He is confusing me. I feel like I am getting the come closer/no stay away treatment. He's never been married.

What should I do? Life's rare and beautiful gifts sometimes come in unexpected packages, not to be missed. I think he and I could be one of those and it's worth exploring.

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