Younger / Older Relationships

What are the Expectations?

Okay...so it finally happened. I met a guy and after a few dates, I finally managed to put a stop to the re-growth of my virginity.

This fella is only 34 - ten years younger than me. He's been married, had a typical number of lovers and seems open-minded and aware enough. The foreplay was great, but he was very passive once we got around to actually doing the deed.

This really troubled me, so I mentioned it to an online friend who happens to be male, and he said face it... as this guy is so much younger than me, it's inevitable that he's going to expect me to take charge and be the aggressive one.

So, I'll put it out to you all. Is it inevitable (or at least fairly predictable) that a guy 10 years my junior will expect an older woman to take charge?  And what about younger women and older men, what are the expectations?  —Anonymous

Age is not a particularly interesting subject. Anyone can get old. All you have to do is live long enough.   —Groucho Marx

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From Mick
I am 52 now and I have been with the same girl since I was 40. I met her in a night club, I assumed she was 18 and in a couple of weeks she was. So I felt better about that . I haven't had a better relationship. we have been together all this time, she is now older and is still a honey.

When we met it was magic she was so beautiful and her spirit was pure. It was a bit of a daddy daughter fantasy and we are now into the equality of it now. Her body is so soft and sweet, her cute young face and her energy. She keeps me up all night. I am so blessed as this young vixen has the love to give and the body to die for. We still do it like we did when we met, it's always fun to be with someone who is into you, I can be as lazy as I like or as horny, she is always up for it.

Her breasts are still pert and firm her butt is to die for and her svelte small frame is so sexy. When she lays beside me with one arm over my chest it's very comforting, she really likes the security. I am so lucky she is always into whatever and experimenting. We have so much fun together,  always into doing same stuff and more and more now that she is older -- a little disproportionate at first but it was so right and so kinky when we met that I was just into the young flesh and all that came with it.

Sex is so tight, so good so frequent and so so so nice. 43 went into 18 very nicely and 52 goes into 28 still as nice. If she ever got boring or old I would leave her for a younger girl. She knows that the young ones like the older sugar daddies. Make an old man happy and he can make you really happy.

From Ralph
My experience is not particularly erotic but my partner is 45 y/o, exactly 21 years younger than me.  She had been married for nearly 20 years, towards the end she had a number of men friends, all of whom were her own age and very unreliable.  When she divorced it got no better with a string of deadbeat men of her own age.

We met at a party last fall and became steady soon after.  I soon discovered that sex was very important to my partner and no sooner had I finished fucking her than she demanded to be fucked again.  Very exhausting (and exciting) but, so far, I've done it without reverting to Viagra.  More important, I have introduced my partner to some sexual sophistication, especially the art of foreplay.  She had never experienced a man's mouth at her pussy before me.  I am now able (once she had trimmed back her bushy pubic hairs to a 'landing strip') to use my tongue and teeth at her clitoris to bring her off, have her climaxing two or three times before I penetrate her. In return, she has learnt to give good head and now benefit from a long, loving suck of my cock, as opposed to her previous style of an energetic mouth masturbation of my cock.  

As part of our improving sexual sophistication I have suggested that another male join us.  She is not against the idea but, unlike me, wants it to be an older male, while I wanted to witness her satisfying a much younger male.  She, however, insists it is an male of my mid-sixties age range, that he is Hollywood good looking, sexually virile, able to get an erection very quickly, thus guaranteeing her multiple quick fucks. 

Her folks are also very charming.  Her father is 7 years older than me, her step-mom is younger than me! Both are very happy that their daughter and I are hinting at marriage.  My partner is very honest and says that, younger, she had always wanted to be fucked by her father and I am the closest she will get to that. 

We are both pleased with how our relationship has developed, and that amongst many very wonderful aspects, it looks  like continuing being a positive force for some very satisfying, enjoyable sex.

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