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Younger / Older Relationships

It's complicated...or is it?



Relationships with age disparity are frequently mocked with snickering remarks. Often wealth and physical attractiveness are seen as more relevant then love. Sexually, it's noted that older people tend to have lower sex drives, and younger people tend to be sexually inexperienced. But, what is the reality? Do you have experience with younger/older relationships, and if so what is the reality—the good, bad, and ugly?

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From Around The Bend
When I was 22 I got involved with a woman 44. She was wonderful, she was fantastic in bed and to me in every way. She also had a kid about 18 months younger than I living with her and everytime I selpt over, I kept fantasizing about the two of them. I wanted kids and I was falling in love with the daughter. One night in bed I called her by her daughters name as we were making love. That was pretty much the end of it. If we were closer in age, it might have worked out. No, I never did it with the daughter. I loved her mom too much. It was just a bad situation to be in.

Think twice. I would fuck an older woman and have since I was forty. They are the best lovers. I just don't want a mom.

From Del
About ten years ago our 30 year marriage went through a rocky period and we separated for a year or so.  When we got back my wife got round to telling me about one of her lovers, a guy in his mid-thirties, 20 years her junior.  As well as being good looking, slim and healthy, he was also a well endowed sexual athlete.  So good together were they she said they met for sex two or three times a week during which they experimented to enjoy all forms of sex.  

Certainly when we got back together my wife was far more sexually adventurous than before and one of her newly acquired specialities was her exceptionally satisfying fellatio technique. Once our marriage was fully re-established I made the suggestion that we have a threesome with a younger guy.  She agreed and we eventually had two separate sessions with young men and I was very impressed at watching her energy and imagination in giving and receiving sexual pleasure.

From Ruby Red
An older man takes great delight in making his woman satisfied emotionally and sexually, my  lover is 64 and we can go 12 hours at a time. When you are younger it's about fuck 'em and leave 'em, then making babies, then experimenting with your sexuality and then getting divorced and going through the change and finding a man that can truly make love, satisfying every need  you have and fulfilling your desires without question. I cannot imagine having a toyboy 14 years younger, dragging him back from the pub to do that, oh and not forgetting maybe interrupting the football match too!

From Anonymous
Don't! Do not go with a younger guy! I'm now 33 and she's 40. She's beautiful, and still looks great. But she wants marriage, she wants children and she feels time is going by - she fears it's too late, more and more... But I'm not ready to marry her - but please don't say that I'm not ready because I don't love her. I love her, but... it's early my job, my career - I cannot marry now later yes - but she says she has no time!

From June
Younger men fear rejection by females their own age. They reckon an older woman will not be so quick to rush to judgement or rejection. So, the more relevant question is - 'are older women easy?' I will own up, I probably am. I'm 52 this year and while I have my looks and figure (and sex drive) if the guy is good looking, great company and non-threatening, I will probably go to bed with him on a first date. 

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