When Porn Isn't Sexy

What are they doing wrong?

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From Anonymous
What's with the shoes in bed?  How many women wear heels to fuck?  How many men find it a turn-on? All I can think of is ripped sheets....

From Anonymous
I have been reading all these comments and would agree with  most of the criticisms of porn movies .  Finding good porn movies is not easy   Until recently I lived in Italy, where I had two sex shops not so far away by car, one better than the other.  When you have time to browse, you get to know the better directors and actors and actresses.  If porn stars were good at acting they wouldn't be doing porn.  Good actors might not be able to maintain an erection.  I get the impression that most of the commenters here aren't really into porn.

I love seeing naked bodies in all their natural beauty... bottoms with cellulite, puckered assholes, cunts and breast big and small, dicks with foreskins.  I like to see indigenous people of different nationalities making it together, black on black, brown on brown, white on white.

I think German porn is the most unsexy I have seen; either like sexual gymnastics or with women who looked like the most sleezey tarts, with frightful hairdos, high heels, suspenders and stockings.  The women were contorting their bodies, rolling  their eyes, looking  at the camera and making oow and ahh noises continuously and out of sync with the men's fucking strokes.  I don't like music, or dubbed sound.  I like to hear the natural sounds of breathing, squelchy sounds of penis in soaking vagina or anus.  If a girl comes, she really comes  One of my first ever rented films which I have kept, was made in Brazil with Rocco Sifredi.  The principal Brazillian girl comes and comes spontaneously and is amazing to see.

Certain directors and actors make better films; the French make good films, with a storyline and often some humour.  I agree that some of the best real turn on scenes I have seen were in non porno films or television (After 9pm ).

Porno is porno and you cannot expect to have the emotional love scenes and the raw sex.  I agree with those who prefer amateur sex films, with the neighbours wife, the milkman calls or the girl next door; people like ourselves as they really are, women with flesh that wobbles. 

From Shannon
I like porn a lot, but I have a serious aversion to most mainstream porn. I have little interest in extreme penetration, etc. I prefer amateur porn. I like jiggly asses and people who might be my next door neighbor. My favorite porn movies are usually either older gay porn (70s era, generally) or some older titles like "Bend Over Boyfriend". Also on my favorites list is "Fire In the Valley;" not porn per se but, it turns me on. I also like anything with Annie Sprinkle in it.

I am incredibly turned on by people seriously getting it on rather than acting. I like to see veins popping on foreheads, red sweaty faces, etc. It's better if there is some humor. I like it when the silly parts aren't edited out, like people so into it they fall out of bed or off of whatever they are screwing on.

For me, generally speaking, plasticized, prepubescent looking bodies don't really do anything for me. I'm also really turned off by sex acts I just don't get. If the first thing that comes to mind is "why the fuck would you put that there?" chances are I'm not getting turned on. No pubic hair freaks me out and I don't care for that look.

In a nutshell: real orgasms; people having a good time; gay, straight bi, group, solo, instructional. If I stop making snarky comments long enough to get my hands in my pants, then it's good porn.

From John
Most porn turns me totally off.  Women screaming at the top of their lungs, things that degrade women, like pulling out and shooting on their face.  Why not show real couples making real love, slow, quiet, intense love, like many of us do.  I am a man, but the older I get (now in my 60s), the more my sexuality is becoming like woman's.  I want to see feeling, tenderness. Guys, you tired of the same old porn?  I know a site that will rock your world, a "reality porn" site.  Check it out.  Join, they are honest and legit.  www.ifeelmyself.com. Some of you will never look at another site.

From Luna O.
I don't watch a lot of porn because I haven't found many that really look like fun to me. I have a hard time getting into watching people fuck that are so far from anything I would want to get naked with. I would like to see more actors with the look and style I go for, settings that turn me on (yes, the music counts!), and film quality and lighting that looks natural rather than putrid. I'm not asking for total realism all the time, but I certainly wouldn't mind seeing a great movie that has real sex now and then, too.

I'd like to see sex in an interesting room, preferably something that looks sexy and inviting. Plain white walls with grey bedding or a couch doesn't spark anything for me and is not a good start. Unusual settings can be good. The poolside thing is way overdone.

So far I like the Rob Rotten films the best. They have most of the elements I like and leave out most that I don't. The sex acts are pretty vanilla for my taste, but the rest makes up for it. The music is great. The settings are good. The actors have a great look that I can relax and watch. The believability factor is usually good, too (meaning they don't look totally bored and the noises are appropriately timed and not so excessive).

From Anonymous
Perhaps the question should be, "What could they do right?"  I have found straight video porn to be kind of boring... either the story was stupid and the acting to boot, or it's just one scene after the other of the same pounding away, the same gleaming dicks being swallowed practically out the other side. On the other hand, there's some really charming, genuinely amateur porn out there. 

So, what can they do right?  Find people who actually have a connection together, perhaps some couples doing their amateur thing, give them lots of time in some nice, believable, comfortable settings, and film the whole episode with good lights and good sound and NO pressures on the lovers.  Now maybe nobody wants to watch 35 or 40 minutes of real lovemaking, so with some decent editing it can be brought down to 20 minutes, and look really nice.  (but don't cut out the disrobing either, because that is sexy and builds the energy!)

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