What do Women Want?

We want to know what you really want in real life. What does your ideal man look like, how does he act, what does he do that sexual arouses you? 

What about you? What do you want in a man, from a man? Here is your chance to tell erotic and romance writers what YOU really want if you could make your fantasy man come true.

"The great question that has never been answered and which I have not get been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is "What does a women want?"   —Sigmund Freud

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From Mountain Rose
I am sure this isn't something that should be coming out of a woman's mouth but...women don't know what they want. It is a constant struggle to find happiness in the dreary activities of day to day life. We believe we know what we want out of the 'perfect' man on a daily basis and believe me, it always changes. It is almost as if our Mr. Right would need the uncanny ability to change and shift to our day to day moods, feelings, sexuality and opinions because just like men, we get bored with the mundane and expected.

With this in mind, I would have to say that my perfect man is someone that constantly challenges me. Someone that can arouse me mentally as well as physically. He must be a mind-reader so that he KNOWS my every thought before I say it out loud and he can prepare for the topic, event or sex accordingly. I believe he needs to be a man of many faces because I like a variety of looks from true cowboy to hardcore leather-clad biker. He has to be intelligent as well as funny, romantic, sympathetic, empathetic, kind, genuine and honest but on the other side of this he knows when to be strong, rough and even a little bit of a bad ass. He is also hard working, dedicated and simple. There is nothing sexier than a shirtless man doing manual labor out in a hayfield, especially when he's wearing nothing but a cowboy hat, jeans and boots and his chest and arms are glistening from the perspiration of a hard day's labors.

What most women will never admit is that they are just as visually stimulated as men. We like to watch porn and though there are not many men out there who don't share that with us, we do like the occasional 'erotic movie night'. Some women are harder to 'open up' than others but we are not beyond trying most things once and I think that the perfect guy would be willing to explore those options. On the other side of this spectrum, a guy must be willing to sit with you in the Beauty Salon while you get your mani/pedi, facial and waxings or perhaps they will soak with you in a nice, hot bubble bath while reading you a graphic historical romance. ;)

A guy, for me, must also be secure but also know when to show the appropriate amount of jealousy but he must not be consumed by it because I believe that jealousy ruins all types of relationships, including friendship. Friendship is a big factor of my 'perfect' man because without friendship, trust, honesty and communication, one can not have a solid foundation for any type of intimate relationship.

On a purely physical note, there are a few obvious attributes that I have always found attractive and those are dark hair, dark eyes, a nice, broad, muscled chest and a round, tight Wrangler butt.

So you see, it is impossible for a man to please a woman 100% of the time as we are creatures far too complicated to ever be figured out.

From Stefani Clayton
He's perfect! Not just his looks, although he has been blessed with more than average appeal, but my ideal man is confident without being cocky. He doesn't need to carry a chip on his shoulder, or have an ego that is so inflated that he has become arrogant. He isn't afraid to say he doesn't know, and yet he doesn't need to brag when he does. He knows who he is, where hes going, and just the path he plans to take.

He is my dream, the one I wish I had found, the one I'm not sure exists anywhere but my own mind, but still the one I see in my dreams every night. He is all man, powerful, strong, and dominating; yet still romantic, caring, and polite. He knows that to be a true success at anything requires he first master being himself above all. He also knows that once in a while you find, not a good, but a great woman, and when you do you better hang on tight. She isn't to be played, or taken advantage of, instead she is to be cherished, and worshipped for all she is, and all she will become, for behind every secure, comfortable, and contented man, is the woman who made him so

From T
I've been fortunate enough to find the perfect man for me.  He's 5'11, dark skinned black man, broad shouldered with a sexy ass smile.  He has brains, character and he takes good care of his family.  I'm very attracted to him.  Just about everything about him turns me on. And to add to it all, he's a pro at eating my pussy!

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