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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?


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Fantasies

Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

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Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some
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Masturbation

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First experiences

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?


Oral Pleasures

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Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
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Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?


Orgasmic Pleasures

Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Sexual Positions
Let us count the ways...


Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?


Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Enduring Ménage
Could it work?

Sex After Marriage
Who's doing it...or not?

Swing Clubs
What's going on?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?


Inquiring Minds

What do Men Want
Hint...it rhymes with 'vex'

What do Women Want
Hint...it's not size

What Turns You On...

Even if you don't want it to?



what turns you on?Sometimes I'm sexually turn on by things I see or read, but I really don't want to do those things, or have them done to me. How does this make any sense? The dichotomy is upsetting. So tell us, what turns you on even if you don't want it to, and how do you deal with it? (key words here: 'even if you don't want it to').


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Kink, bondage, bdsm

From Peeping girl
This is a interesting topic and exciting as well. I love to see another women masturbate and how she does. But that don't happen so easily. But I have to admit that I am quite often visiting public bath and saunas. Especially the sauna baths can give me opportunity to peep. And it has happened that some unrestrained women spread her legs and I am able to see her pussy in it's beauty.

That excites me more then anything. And one time I was so lucky when I noticed a women with a real big clit sticking out between her labia when she spread and put one feet up at the bench. I am quite she wanted to show it to me. I couldn't take my eyes from that lovely sight, wish she for sure noticed. I spread my legs too and I massaged my legs arms stomach and tits. When I peeped at her pussy again my heart jumped cause I saw her big clit was undoubtedly erected. It was a amazing horny and wonderful situation.

From JMNT
As a black activist, strongly committed to the growth of black culture in urban and rural America, I have, obviously, issues with how people of my race are portrayed and not portrayed in the country. There are some beautiful people out there and sometimes, yes, I have thought about someone else when with my partner. And sometimes that person is of another race. Being so dedicated, the times when that happens can make me feel guilty about betraying the cause in my heart but that's just silliness, obviously. Peace and harmony, people. (And thank you for the great web site. I've been an irregular visitor for years.)

From Anonymous
I get excited by the thought of a woman being taken none consensually and being aroused by it despite her best efforts not to be. This a paradox because I hate rape in all its forms, its an ugly vicious thing. I use it for masturbation purposes.

From Adam
I want to watch some guy fuck my wife while she sucks me - and I hate hate the idea of another man on my wife. I want to be totally dominated by a bad-ass chick, just the thought of butt plugs and strap-ons turn me on, even though I don't want it to. Anonymous meaningless sex turns me on, glory holes, ripping the blouse off my neighbor, all that turns me on and I don't ever want it to.

From Sarah
The thought of anal sex turns me off, just the idea of fooling around with my butt ... ick. But when I'm highly aroused and my husband touches my anus, just a slight pressure, I shoot right off into orgasmic bliss. Go figure.

From JMTN
I am 47 next week.  I am an independent, career focused woman. I have academic and professional achievements and the respect of my peers. That aside, there's nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing, that turns me on than being ignored by a total jerk with low social standing. The thug mugger in a film, the bad cowboy in a film, the evil do-er who's dressed all rock-and-roll -- phew. That just floats my boat.

Plumbers (the fit ones, not the ones who look like my father), custodians, bin men...do it for me. Can't explain why but why should I have do? Sex is supposed to be fun and I am not going to my death bed thinking 'I wish I'd done this or that..'   

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