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what do men think?I was reading an old magazine article that tried to answer the question of 'What Do Men Think About When They Make Love?'. If I wasn't wiser and smarter and more intuitive (hey, am I the perfect person or what?) than I used to be, I'd seriously almost believe that men think about sports or worry about how soon the woman's going to come so that they can let themselves go. That was basically the gist of the article. And I can't buy this—can I? Do men think 'Yeah, kick the ball!' when they say 'Oh, honey, let's go make love'  Do they think about baseball when they get to first base?

What the heck do guys think about when they make love?  —megan


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From Jim
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From Dan
I've noted a few references in this thread about entering a woman via her bottom or her mouth.  I don't particularly enjoy penetrating a woman's bottom but do enjoy penetrating her mouth. The sensations she can produce with her mouth are as amazing as penetrating her vaginally. They both are redolent of the feeling of dominating my woman which is a real turn on for me.

My other post was about vaginal penetration and the subsequent orgasms produced that way.  But I thought I'd include a discussion of the sensations of receiving a bj.  My wife and I have practiced bj's for years, with only three positions and each position produces slightly different emotional/physical reactions from me. As an aside, she has told me she does not get a great deal of actual sexual satisfaction that way, but does get a lot of emotional satisfaction from my reactions - much as I enjoy bringing her to her orgasms via my fingers or tongue - again, not really any particular sexual satisfaction for me, but still a whole lotta fun - especially anticipating some form of release inside her. We both enjoy driving each other wild!

My sensations during a bj orgasm? More "focused" than a vaginal orgasm, thus for a few moments more intense - as she uses her tongue directly on the most sensitive areas of my penis - sharper pleasure but lacking the feeling of being enveloped in her vagina - and her arms and legs. The emotional high I get when coming in her mouth is great - "Wow, she REALLY wants to please me." When I'm almost finished she "strips" my cum by sucking me as deep as possible into her mouth, then pressing her tongue against my cock sucks hard and slowly moves my cock out of her mouth.  This feels heavenly and we both enjoy the thought she is able to "collect" a lot more of my cum this way. Like milking my cock. And she does this over and over until she's emptied me.  What a delightful event!

So which is better - cunt or mouth?  It depends -- and it's always her choice -- she has "ambushed" me many times when I was not thinking of sex and quickly "wrecked" me with her very talented mouth and tongue.  Other times I grab and drop her on the bed and go to work on her and wind up in her cunt. They are both great!

From Dan
Depends.  During the build up I'm usually into a forced fantasy - always with some girl I've never met, seen, etc. I slip between that fantasy and paying super attention to my partner - I seem to be a bit of a dom and when I can really get my partner howling and screaming with pleasure, well - that's a real crank!

Another thing I enjoy doing to her is learning how she responds and then holding off her climax as long as possible, while keeping her just on the edge of her "O." Or getting her all ready and then backing off on her climax, telling her she will come when I allow her to come!  Yum!

I also like the girls who whimper - doing it to her very slowly in and tantalizingly out can cause most girls to whimper and strain upward chasing my penis as it slowly so slowly leaves her. Her/their reaction as it slowly re-penetrates them is fantastic. And of course when finally allowed to come or when I finally "finish the job" and climax inside them they go nuts! What a power trip!

During my climax inside them I'm lost, out of control, I will come I'm going to come inside you and... No real thinking at all - just pleasure, but, if I can gasp out to her she's about to get my cum I'm over the moon - Mars?

From Anonymous
How good it would be to watch some guy bang the heck out of my women.

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