Women: During The Act

What Do You Think About?

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From Butterfly
Well, aside from the usual, "Oh God, that feels good," and the "What the hell is he trying to do?"... This is my typical mental monologue:
*Ow! You're on my hair!
*If he doesn't quit pinching my nipple, it's gonna come off!
*Did I remember to put the dog out of the bedroom?
*Can the neighbors hear me?
*He needs to hurry up, I have things to get done.
*Maybe if I fake one, he'll finish so I can get some sleep.
*various song lyrics (I hate when I get a song stuck in my head.)
*Did we pay the water bill?
*Shit! I forgot to call mom!

Now, I'm not saying my boyfriend is a bad lover. Quite the opposite, he's wonderful. But after 2 years, there's not much territory left unexplored. He knows how to push my buttons and in what order. But as far as what's going on in my head, it's hard to think about what he's doing when he's done the same thing a million times before.

From Miss O
I laughed out loud several times while reading the responses to this subject. What I think about depends on how good the sex is. If it's not so good I mostly think "when will it be over so I can go to sleep?" or "I told him I don't like that. Why does he still do it?" But when the sex is good I sometimes lose myself in the sensations and sounds of sex. Sometimes my thoughts are coherent and other times all I can come up with is "Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God!"I fantasise frequently when I'm not having sex, but during sex I get caught up in the act itself and rarely resort to fantasy.

From Jane
At first I usually think about the chores that need doing the next day, how I can best use my lunch hour to go to the cleaners, pick up groceries, and all that mundane jazz. And then arousal kicks in and I close my eyes and let my imagination go crazy wild with shocking scenes of dancing naked while two guys are feeling me up, licking, filling me up. Or serving treats and drinks to the guys playing poker, and playing me every which way because I'm naked wearing a perky feathered butt plug. Or one guy pulling up my skirt, while the other pulls down my panties and sucks my clit while fingering me, pulling my pussy lips. And on it goes till I explode in orgasm. It's like running a porn show in my head, with me as the star in a script of my choice. Works more often than not. 

From Veronica
Upon reading this question my immediate response was, "I don't think about anything."  But I paid attention last night, and found that was untrue.  When we were first kissing and touching, my head was all over the place: I was thinking about work, pets, something mean I had said to my daughter that I should apologize for, and a pile of other stuff.  At one point my partner actually asked, "Where are you?"  I don't think I am usually that scattered and inattentive (he doesn't normally have to comment like that!), but I guess I am pretty disconnected sometimes.

Sometimes I do fantasize during sex if I'm having trouble reaching orgasm; fantasizing about giving oral sex to a woman will usually expedite things, and can push me over the edge if intercourse has been going on a long time but I haven't been able to climax.  My partner knows that I sometimes use this fantasy during sex.  If I'm struggling, he will sometimes prompt me into a fantasy, making remarks about how good vulva tastes or asking if I'd like him to bring home a woman next time he comes home so that I can go down on her (he spends a lot of time traveling because of his job).  This often precipitates a threesome fantasy.  If we're in the right position, I love licking his neck while I'm fantasizing about licking a woman.

From Selkie:
"Oh god. I wish he'd hurry up so I can get some sleep! I got to get up tomorrow!" I think about lots of relaxing scenes. Waves washing on a beach etc and try not to think about whether I will have an orgasm.

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