Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or Noble?

We don't need no stinkin' sympathy here...

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From Karl
Yep, when I was a young lad before I was married, I have been known to have a sympathy fuck both as a giver and receiver. Usually it was with ex-girlfriends. When I look back at it the results were mixed. It seems to depend on the nature of the breakup whether she initiated it or whether I initiated it and how difficult the breakup was. For some of them it prolongs the agony of a failed relationship. For others it was fun and actually better than when we were in the relationship, go figure. 

Would I do it again? Probably yes. Whatever the reason, it fulfils a need in both of us at the time that is usually more than physical. That can be loneliness, reassurance, or a myriad of reasons. At at that point in time it seems to help.

From Eleanor
Ha! I must agree with Rachel McIntyre [see entry below] - I can always tell if he isn't into it. Fortunately, when I beg my husband for an "I'm pregnant and horny even though you're tired and think I smell bad" type of sympathy fuck, he gets into it real quick, especially if I do some cat/cows in front of him. Bless his heart, he can't help himself. 

Anyway, I have given out a sympathy fuck or two in my day, I'm sorry to say. Mostly in my youth, when I'd have felt so bad for taking some boy home to keep me company when I just wanted to talk that I'd have sex with him to make him stay. I don't think I wronged any of them, even though they could sometimes tell I was just going through the motions, but I feel as though I underestimated myself by not thinking that I was good enough company without screwing someone. It always felt terrible the next day!

From Shar
What is erotic about that? It sounds just pitiful, especially if it is someone you really don't have a relationship with. Now, if you're involved in a relationship, any sort of fairly long-term, well-standing relationship really—marriage, date, friend, neighbor—it can be truly illuminating to explore sex based on intense feelings other than your typical attraction, but sympathy? Lost puppies pluck heart strings but I don't bring flea bitten strays into my bed.

From Rachel McIntyre
Sympathy fuck - now that’s a really awful idea, isn’t it? I can’t see how the experience could be good for either party. I mean, unless the person receiving the sympathy fuck was really dense, wouldn’t he or she know the other person wasn’t really into it? Could he or she really enjoy themselves if the other person wasn’t?

I know I wouldn’t. My arousal feeds off the arousal of my partner, so if I got the slightest inkling that he wasn’t a hundred percent into the experience, it would ruin the whole thing.

So no, I’ve never had a sympathy fuck. Either I’m attracted to someone sexually or I’m not. I may be a slut, but I’m a selective slut. Is that an oxymoron? LOL. I’m a slut for whoever speaks to my wanton slut soul - how’s that?

From Volponia
I don’t know about sympathy fucks, but I’ve more than once given an ‘all right, already!’ fuck when the circumstances were such that I could not easily escape the nagging, and it just seemed easier to do it. Shame on me for being such a wimp!

From TreSart
Let’s see. I’ve done a drunken fuck...and so regretted! Also when it was towards the end of my 10-year relationship and she wanted to have sex, I’d agree, but I really didn’t want to. Guess you could call that a sympathy fuck.

From Amanda
Can I have a sympathy fuck? Pleeeaassse! I’m so greedy.

I have fucked men sometimes when I’ve invited them over to my place without first meeting them first and then they weren’t really to my liking, but they were already there, soooo...

Blaine and Shane for instance, premature ejaculators both of them: one a Cornwall farm boy, the other a law student and snowplow operator. Then there was Chris, the guy who wouldn’t kiss. I shouldn’t have fucked him, but I don t believe in regrets, so I just popped the little bugger into my novel and wreaked revenge on him.

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