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From Tina
Can I say neither? Its not that I don't like the taste or the idea but I just love seeing a guy spurt. When I give a blow job and I feel the guy ready to come I take his cock out and watch it squirt out. Don't really mind where. I think its my way of seeing if I turned him on enough- I'm naive enough to think the more he comes the more I turned him on but it is satisfying to see him come more. For those guys who insist on ejaculating in my mouth then I'm happy to swallow

From Linda
Swallow or spit... Who cares as long as the woman isn't forced to doing something she doesn't want to do. If you get offended for her spitting it out it's really your problem. Would you be happier forcing her to swallow and making her resent you and maybe never give you head ever again? Isn't she supposed to enjoy it too? The more she enjoys it the better the sex.

From MissY
When I met my husband I used to swallow him every time. His cum was almost sweet - I think this was when he was a vegetarian. Since we married I have been going down on him less, and I think he misses surprise blowjobs at night when I join him in bed. I get a tummy ache after swallowing his cum and I am not sure if I am alone. Any women out there who get a similar feeling? I would love to give him more blowjobs but I am not sure how I can overcome my tummy ache.

From Anonymous
When my girlfriend and I have sex, right before I'm about to come I pull out and put my dick in her mouth and she sucks it all down until I'm completely dry and limp.  She'd rather that than me blowing my cum all over her chest.

From Anonymous
When I first started having oral sex as a teenager I thought that it would be disgusting to have a guy come in my mouth so I always made them tell me when they were about to come. It was all very clumsy and sometimes I would end up getting it my hair or elsewhere.  Eventually I tried swallowing with one boyfriend and hated the taste and the consistency.  It was very salty and made me feel sick. Years later I wanted to do something special for a man I was very much in love with.  I swallowed and it was wonderful.  His semen was so sweet and delicious. The look of pure pleasure on his face is something I will never forget. 

From Anonymous
I absolutely love going down on a guy and get so turned on knowing that he is getting off on what I am doing to him. However, I am not a big fan of swallowing. If my guy comes in my mouth I usually let it seep out of my mouth in the few seconds right after he comes while I gently continue to suck his cock and bring him down from his high. I think that this is almost just as sensual of an act as swallowing, just in a different way - while I am not ingesting the come, I am still taking it into my mouth and continuing to enjoy all of him, including the cum . Am I totally wrong? I almost see it as a turn on to "play" in his juices.

From Joey S
I can't imagine not swallowing.  I am a gay guy who loves to suck cock, and I've sucked quite a few in my time.  The greatest thrill is that moment when you feel his cock suddenly swell up and hot fluid begins spurting into your mouth.  Suck and swallow is my mantra, over and over again until he finally goes limp in my mouth, or until he's ready to come again.

From John
I can't believe a woman would actually continue to date a guy who is so inconsiderate that he'd let her suffer through discomfort when swallowing his sperm. No offense, Miriam, but I think you should dump this guy, or at least stop enabling him to take such advantage of your willingness to please regardless of the consequences. [see Miriam's entry below]. There's any number of things he can do; wear a condom, warn her when he's about to come, pull out of her mouth before he comes, and so on. I can't imagine why a man would let a person suffer like that, unless all he likes about that person is his/her blowjobs. And, I can't help but wonder why a person would be so desperate to please that they'd ignore their body's warning rather then discuss ways to enjoy oral sex and not swallow. I mean it's not like oral sex isn't the most wonderful thing only if swallowing occurs. It's damn good with or without swallowing. Talk to your man, work out alternatives.

From Miriam
Yes, I began my current relationship about a year ago, after a year or so of no sex.  The first time I gave my new man a blow job it was an amazing experience.. But after I had blown my new man, I got the most violent stomach pains, bent over with it.  His cum must have been particularly rich in something we couldn't figure, or it was toxic!  He was very considerate and dug out an old hot water bottle and put me to bed for an hour or so.  I told myself I had to get used to his cum so went down on him later that evening but this time it wasn't on an empty tummy and the cramps lasted just a few minutes.  Today we have a '69' two or three times a week and just enjoy him comming in my mouth, swallowing it all but each time there is still a tingle in my tummy, but no real pain.

From MissY
When I met my husband I used to swallow him every time. His cum was almost sweet - I think this was when he was a vegetarian. Since we married I have been going down on him less, and I think he misses surprise blowjobs at night when I join him in bed. I get a tummy ache after swallowing his cum and I am not sure if I am alone. Any women out there who get a similar feeling? I would love to give him more blowjobs but I am not sure how I can overcome my tummy ache.

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