Swallow or Spit?

What's a person to do...

Swallow, spit, dribble, it's all right here:

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From OldNavyDude
I have to say when I was younger, my first love, who was a virgin, was more than willing to give me head after our first sexual encounter. One afternoon in  my bedroom, she was sucking my cock and I did the obvious thing an idiotic, experienced guy does... I was coming so I grabbed her head and pushed my cock deeper and deeper almost forcing her to swallow my cum. I felt so guilty. But it didn't seem to matter as she continued to suck me off when we were alone and I didn't have to do anything as she fucked her mouth with my cock. When I said I was getting ready to cum. She just moaned and sucked harder till I blew my load. She was the best cocksucker I have ever had to this day and I am 52! Spit or swallow?  Swallow. Since I have done it myself, I walk the walk and suck the cock.

From Anonymous
My girlfriend and I would give each other massages with a fragrant body lotion. Once, when she was doing my front, she leaned over and kissed my cock. As she leaned back, I put my hand on the back of her head, where she liked to be touched, and I think she took the move as a signal that I wanted more. She leaned over and took my swollen head  into her mouth. I almost bucked off the sofa at experiencing for the first time a pair of lips and a soft, warm mouth closing around my tumescence. She looked up at me as if to ask if what she was doing was okay, and I just touched her head again. When her lips slid down my rod, it was too much for me, and I warned her that was I coming and tried to push her away, but she just squinted her disapproval and continued to suck. I came so hard, I thought my balls would come out through my dick. When I had stopped convulsing, she slid her lips off while suctioning every drop. She then spit into a tissue and proceeded to apologize. I couldn't believe it, and I told her that she had given me the most pleasurable and erotic experience I had ever had, that I worshipped her for allowing me to come in her mouth, and that she should never again apologize. She got really adept at deep throat, and I gladly supplied the tissues. 

From Phledge
I've cheerfully fellated the men with whom I've been involved, but it wasn't until my most recent encounter that I actually had one come in my mouth. I swallowed because I wasn't sure what else to do, and, more importantly, I was RELIEVED that I hadn't been doing it "wrong" all these years. Now that I've swallowed, and I know that I'm doing it right, and I know that, really, the stuff tastes rather like runny nose, I think I'll spit.

From Jolie
Neither! I would make a terrible prostitute because I HATE the taste of semen. I forced myself to swallow it with my first boyfriend (I was 17) because I was too afraid to tell him that I didn't like the taste. I have to say that sometimes I had to run to the bathroom. I just couldn't do it. As I got older, I was honest about it. And, it really hasn't been a problem with any man I've been with since. They don't come in my mouth, and it's been cool. No problem. My husband is completely understanding, too.

From Badtz
I'm less concerned with spitting or swallowing than I am with my partners willingness to try. I personally prefer a good facial over shooting in a girls mouth, as the visual enhances an orgasm for me personally. But if it came down to a spit or swallow thing, I prefer the swallow, but understand that not all girls want to do so. Hell, considering how many girls I've messed with who don't want cum in their mouths period, even spitting shows a certain something that most women won't do.

From Kaminari
I'd have to agree with Matt [see entry below]. I love my girlfriend and we talk often about sex. I'm not quite sure if she has swallowed before, but she doesn't now. She runs into the bathroom and spits. Sure, I do get a bit offended, but on the other hand I'm grateful that she gives such good head in the first place. She says that if I wanted her to swallow that she would, but what's the point in that? Then I feel like she's uncomfortable in being forced to do something she doesn't want to. She says that she doesn't mind cum, but she just doesn't see it as something to drink. But now that I think about it, she doesn't seem to really like cum that much. If I come anywhere on her body, she's always very fast to clean it up, almost as if it were acid. Like I said, I love her more than anything and I'm glad for what she does for me, but I don't think sex should be about a series of "ok, if that's what you want..." reluctant actions.

If you are willing to try something, try it. If you don't like it, say so. If it's something you can get used to, that's just another skill under your belt. I love it when someone tries something with me for the first time, especially if it's my first time, too.

From Matt
Having her spit ruins it for me for one simple reason; it makes me feel selfish as though she's doing something she really doesn't want to do because she thinks I expect it or something. Whatever the case, it makes me feel really awful and ruins the act for me. It might be partly because I'm from the old school...I enjoy having sex but I LOVE making love and if someone is doing something she doesn't really want to do, it doesn't feel like love...obligation would be a better word. 

From Mike
I don't care if they swallow or spit. I'm just happy to get a BJ. Either way they are going to get a big thank you from me that starts with long slow kiss. Then it's their turn for some oral manipulation.

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