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From Anonymous
I've never swallowed in my life. I've been married for 8 years now, and I know that one of my husband's greatest desires is for me to suck him dry.

I'm so in love with this man, and lately I've been so hot for him. I feel like I'm having a reawakening. I want to eat him so badly, I can almost taste it. Reading this forum, I don't know why I've resisted for so long.

As I sit here typing, I'm getting excited just thinking about what he's going to get--TONIGHT. I'm so wet and turned on right now, and I must say, I owe much of it to you and your fabulous experiences.

I'm excited to write back tomorrow and tell you all how things went.

From Lee
 Once pregnant I started to go down on my husband at least once a day, he must have thought Christmas had come early, especially as I hadn't been too keen on giving him head up to that point. Of course I got hooked and well after the birth of our first child continued to blow hubby, swallowing every last damn drop. 

We did a bit of swinging with some friends for a short period, nothing too heavy, and I went down on four other men and was very intrigued at how different their semen tasted and its thickness.

Today, post a second child, I'm still a big fan of giving hubby head and swallowing, but I'm a little rounder, due I think to all that semen.

From Honey
My Portuguese lover is 46, unbelievable as it sounds, but this wonderfully humane, decent, intelligent, vital man has reached greying maturity without ever having his cock sucked. He was a fellatio virgin! Promiscuity is not in his nature. And I'm the second woman he's ever slept with, so I treat him like treasure, because he's so rare.

He gets all the cock sucking his body can take from me. I take my sweet time, never rush and it gives me such a rush of power-pleasure to taste, feel, hear his inarticulate cries of arousal and excitement, to feel his body quaking as he ejaculates into my happy mouth. I wouldn't dream of spitting out his semen - to me that's tantamount to rejecting him.

He tastes salty-bitter and eating meat seems to make his semen more pungent. Frankly, I've had boyfriends who have tasted better and sweeter. But I've found my emotions for him can over-ride my taste buds. He's now switching to a more vegetarian diet so he can taste sweeter for me.

The only thing he's uncomfortable about doing is deep french kissing me after I've swallowed his cock milk and he can taste himself on my tongue. What is it about men and this almost instinctive reaction against tasting their own bodily fluids?? Ah well, that's the final barrier that has yet to be crossed.

From Susan from Canada
I find swallowing a very intimate act so for me it depends on the man. If it is just someone for recreational sexual excitement then I am not into having a man come in my mouth - in fact it would turn me off. 

If, however, it is someone I have deep feelings for, then yes I definitely want his cum in my mouth and to swallow it for him - every drop. It is the most intimate thing I know to do to show him I love him. To swallow is to love him.

From Pete
I'm a bi man, and me and my girlfriend love to have one or more male 'friends' in the bedroom when we have sex. We absolutely love to suck dick together and swallow. It's just a feeling you can only get from swallowing the load of a man you brought to orgasm. 

I just love the feeling of a man's warm cum inside my mouth and so does my girlfriend, we like it so much, that we have invited 10 guys to come into the bedroom and we sucked them all dry together. It was the best night of my life

From Raven
Oh, man, I love giving head; it turns me on in the same way so many men say cunnilingus turns them on! (my lover included, thankfully:) And for me, swallowing is part of that, the culmination of a highly erotic act.

Other than kissing, felatio was the first sexual activity my lover of 22 yrs now and I engaged in, and I initiated it, virgin, oral and otherwise, that I was. It was an impulse; I just wanted to have him in my mouth and bring him that pleasure, and he was, needless to say, thrilled!! (and I think even more so when he realized I'd swallowed, though I didn't think about it before I did it, I just did it, and then wanted more, yummmm!)

The only times I have not swallowed were the few times when I gagged due to too deep penetration at orgasm, an accident. I just get so aroused and excited by the act, seeing and feeling and hearing my lover so aroused and then coming because of what I am doing to him, I just want to consume him and that includes his cum.

Does it taste good? To me, at that point? Absolutely! wow! What a turn-on! Like no other taste. Would I buy it in cartons and drink it? No! But not bad, and there is an association there which is very positive, which obviously factors into it.

I have heard men say that spitting feels like a form of rejection, like the woman is grossed out by you, no matter what they say at the time to the woman or how much they rationally understand her pov. I can understand how it could feel that way, like if a man went down on me and then spit or gagged or went to brush his teeth immediately or something. Yes, would make me feel like I was gross or dirty to him, even if only subconsciously.

But I don't swallow out of any sense of obligation; it is what comes naturally to me, what *I* want. I can also get how some women wouldn't like it and spit, without feeling disgusted with their lover or anything deeper than just being grossed out by the taste or idea. Just my 2 cents.

From Anonymous
I think that either way is just as good. If I get a BJ, I don't care spit or swallow.

From Tessa
We are in our sixties, married thirty years, and have a great sex life including some very loving mutual oral, hubby sucks me and I suck him. I've always swallowed his cum and genuinely enjoy its taste (either salty or lemony) and consistency, although while it's still quite thick and juicy, I don't get the full mouth full I did when we were in our thirties! I'd never have it any other way, he'd be very hurt if I spat it out, not that I would, it's a major part of our loving relationship.

From That Guy
I must say that if my wife of 4 years didn't swallow I'd be disappointed (but I'm sure I'd manage) and I probably wouldn't enjoy the experience as much. Fortunately, while I doubt my cum tastes like Irish creme, she enjoys swallowing because she knows it's a turn on for me. To come in a woman's mouth after she's given you a passionate blowjob, only for her to spit it out, is just plain unromantic and impersonal!


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