Swallow or Spit?

What's a person to do...

Semen is not something I would think 'mmmm, the taste'. Indeed I have found it not nice at all, yet men insist it's creamy and yummy—mostly because they haven't tried the drinkie drinkie test themselves. I prefer to spit rather than swallow but I have had one partner get highly offended that I spat. So I swallowed, hated it and resented him. Still a dilemma tho. I guess that it's like soymilk—an acquired taste. Swallow or spit; you either like it or hate it. Personally I prefer soymilk. —Giulia Cosentino 

A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex no matter how bad it is. —Lenny Clarke

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From Bill
I don't see people's problem with cum. Sometimes it has tasted less then ordinary, but the taste doesn't phase me at all. I definitely swallow. Some people complain about the texture, the way it feels in my mouth or face is the best part about sex for me.

From RJ
From a male point of view, I have always come to believe that if a woman goes down on a guy and brings him to the point of no return, she has now placed herself into the stage of whether I do or do not fulfill my commitment to swallow. During the oral suck aspect, she has to ask herself, Do I or Don't I? To please him fully, I should. I personally prefer her too, however from a guy's point, I tell other men, if you think it is a no brainer for a woman to swallow, try ejaculating into a glass and without hesitation, without second guessing, bottoms up the glass into your mouth and swallow. If you flinch or hesitate; don't chastise her for not swallowing, it may not be as easy for her either.

Just because she wants to suck your cock, does not obligate her to swallow. As a cardinal rule of thumb, I NEVER insist that she swallows, it is a choice she must make. Yet in my own experiences, I have found that if you do not make it an issue either before or during oral lovemaking, she tends to be more comfortable and relaxed and therefore she tends to swallow, which to me is the highlight of bringing two people ever so closer together. Oral sex; either way is to me far more intimate and personal than intercourse.

From Sam
I find it amazing that Eve, at 70, has 'yet to suffer any bad tasting cum.' [see Eve's entry below] I'm bi-sexual, and not promiscuous by any account , and yet I've had bad tasting cum experiences. And worse, terribly thick viscous consistency. Sometimes I swallow, and sometimes I don't. It depends on person I'm with -- sometimes I take a guy in my mouth and he taste and smells good enough to eat and I swallow. Sometimes the smell and taste is not right, and I don't swallow. And I don't expect the men or women I'm with to swallow. It's their choice to make, if they do, that's fine. If they don't, that's fine also. Oral sex is good either way.

From Eve
I'm old enough to remember the pre-pill days when you either relied on the guy to wear a condom or you played safe and sucked him off.  I have yet to suffer any bad tasting cum and I never spit, always swallow.  Safe sex is a big issue of course and I try to limit my sexual encounters to guys and couples well known to me and hubby. 

From Sue
I'm a retired porn star. The only gift of sperm I can think of [see Judy's entry below] is to the multi-billion dollar porn industry - it's called the money shot. After countless sperm showers on my face, breasts, ass, pussy, I can tell you it's just plain icky - sticky, smelly, slimy. But, the silver lining is we don't have to swallow the stuff. It's not so much the taste, which could range from ok to god awful, it's the consistency that is so unpleasant. Let's face it, sperm is not god's gift to women. It's simply reproductive fluid. We've effectively taken women off the pedestal, thank goodness. Now let's do guys a favor and take his dick and sperm off the pedestal and let him move past the social constructs of what makes a man.

From Tim
Ok ladies, I can't say I don't appreciate your willingness to swallow, or how much you enjoy it. But, there are plenty of us men who don't think it's the be-all-end-all of sexual thrills. So a girl swallows, so big deal. The real big deal is her enthusiams for the deed, and in particular her arousal, meaning her participation in love making. The point is, swallowing is not a big deal ladies, so if you don't like to, then simply don't and that's fine.

From T
My personal philosophy: If you put it in your mouth, you better be damn sure it's disease free—especially if you swallow.

From S
My personal philosophy: If you can put it in your mouth, you can swallow what comes out of it.

From B
My personal philosophy: Don't ask someone to do what you're not willing to do.

From Sir Kenn
I do not mind a lady spitting, its the ones the gargle that scare me.

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