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From wk
My wife as of late has really gotten into fucking me with her strap-on. We haven't done this in sometime so I am not sure if it was the pictures on the internet we looked at or what may have got her going.

The first night she fucked me doggy style for about 20 minutes. She used one of her smaller cocks so it was easy to take. I loved the feeling but she loved it even more. When we got done, I helped her take her strap-on off and it was soaking wet. She told me she came so many times she couldn't count the number.

Since that time she has fucked me with some of her other cocks. One in particular is 8 inches long and 3 across we call it big red. It has a suction cup base and she loves to bounce up and down on it while I watch and stroke my cock. One that particular night she fucked me with some of her smaller cocks first and then put big red into her harness. She lay down on the bed and had me settle my ass onto her cock. As I got use to the size, she started to buck her hips and fuck me. After only a couple of minutes, I grabbed my cock and came all over her chest.

Since that encounter we have gone to get another cock for her collection. It is about 10 inches long but only about 2 inches wide. I love how deep it gets. The first night we had it she made me suck on it and then fucked me doggy style for a long time. She then put me on my back with my legs in the air and banged me. When I was close to coming she helped me lift my legs high in the air and over my head. She stroked my cock so that I came all over my face and in my mouth. I loved it.

I enjoy the feeling of getting fucked but I also enjoy even more the look on my wife's face as she fucks me real hard. Her eyes are big and she has this look of excitement that I would love to capture in a photo. She is a great woman who I love dearly.

From PK
About a year ago my girlfriend told me that her fantasy was for a role reversal. So we gave it a try and it was really pleasurable . 

No it doesn't make you gay. Yes I like it up the ass but I don't like men.

From Robert
I have been married for over 5 years and have over the years asked my wife to play with my anal area while we have sex. It is very arousing and makes me come with such intensity that I sometimes cannot handle the orgasm. In the past I have been able to get her to use a dildo on me but she didn't seem that comfortable with it so much so that I threw my dildo away. 

I now would like to introduce a double sided dildo for her and me but not sure how to bring it up. I guess in the next few weeks, I will bring it up and update everyone and let you know how it went.

From Dave Shand
I met My Girl through a mutual interest in spanking. She needs them to stay centered and balanced inside, and I need to scold and spank her for the same reasons. Needless to say I'm the dominant one in our relationship! (smiles) My nickname is a play on Dave's Hand ... something she needs and loves dearly applied to her naughty bottom.

Our relationship has always been very open and adventuresome. And while I've always enjoyed anal stimulation it took years of growth and understanding and trust in our relationship for us to begin exploring my occasional submissive desires.

Just this year we've discovered the enjoyment in her taking my bottom. I guess it really started when we realized one of her leather chastity belts also doubles nicely as a strap-on harness! Since I've experimented for years with anal penetration with various objects we got a fairly large dildo, slightly larger than my own fully erect penis.

All I can say it that's wonderful to just be the passive one and not do all the thrusting during our lovemaking! Mostly we do it with me kneeling on the bed, elbows down on the mattress, (she has these INCREDIBLE 36" inseam legs, so the height is good for her to stand at the end of the bed). But we have also tried in with me on my back, so we can see each other eyes while she fucks me. You should see her smile!

Another position I would recommend is for the man to lay on his side with his lower leg extended straight down, and his upper leg pulled up. This essentially opens you up while she kneels, straddling the straight leg. I particularly like this position as it's very relaxing for me, opposed to trying to remain kneeling, or hold my legs up above me.

Oh yes, and I almost forgot. She likes to stroke her cock as she waits for me to get in position! Gawd, I love My Girl.

From Dave
My wife came to me and told me that she was interested in being with another woman, so she met a woman online and they began to date. One night she came into the bedroom and told me that she felt more like a man trapped in a woman's body. I was stunned, she said that she loved me but needed to be the "man" of the relationship for it to work. Now, I never let my wife know that I secretly desired being with another man, it's something I never thought anyone could understand. 

As we talked more she went into her bag and pulled out the most beautiful 8 inch strap-on dildo .I just came out and told her that deep down inside I needed to know what it would feel like to be with another man and begged her to fuck me like a woman. To make my fantasy come true she dressed me up in her lingerie...panties, bra, etc...she lay me down on my back and lifted my legs onto her shoulders and she slowly inserted inch after inch into my wanting asshole.

I know in reality I could never be with a man, my wife is now all the man I could ever want!

From Anonymous
I have been begging my wife for years to fuck me with a strap-on and recently my fantasy came true. I got a strap-on one day and surprised her with it when she came home. She actually put it on right then and I about shot my wad. Later that night she used it on me, it was so hot just seeing her laying on the bed naked only wearing the new toy. I got on my hands and knees and she slid it in and went to town, I stroked my cock and came all over. I have got her to do it again missionary but not as good as doggie. 

Now I want her to do it all the time but she is not as into it as me, hopefully that will change.

From R.D.
I first became interested in anal penetration almost 20 years ago. Once, while in the shower, I inserted a finger and really liked the feeling. Thanks to a terrific and uninhibited British lover, she and I made it part of our foreplay. I especially enjoyed having her lie on my back while she fingered me. Once, she reached underneath me and gave me a hand job at the same time. The orgasm I had was intense, and that's basically what got me addicted.

Over the next 10 years, I had about 10 lovers. Four of them regularly penetrated me during sex. And it was with one of them that I first began thinking about being fucked by a woman with a strap-on. First, she put me on my back and slipped her finger into my ass and stimulated my prostate while giving me an unbelievable blow job. Another night, I got on my knees and she fingered me while grinding her hips against my ass. That's what did it. From that point on I could not get that image out of my mind. I was dying to by fucked up the ass. 

Two years later, I met the woman I eventually married. I shared my thoughts about this with her after we had dated a couple months and she was really into it. We first started with very small dildos and worked our way up. Now we use a seven and a half inch dildo that is pretty thick. And we always have a mirror near by. I love watching her do me from behind. It can get pretty raucous sometimes. Recently we have also used the missionary position. I especially like that because the prostate stimulation is strong and it is also very intimate. My dick also rubs against her stomach when she's fucking me and the orgasms are incredible. It's interesting how about once every three weeks, I just have to have her in me. When that big dick passes through that inner anal ring, the feeling is exquisite.

Here is what makes it a good experience for me I flush out my rectum with warm water. Of course we use a lot of lubricant. When she's at my back door, I just breathe deeply and actually bear down like I'm trying to push something out my ass. That seems to make it easier for me to receive her cock. Once she's all the way in, that's when the fun begins. 

She's been banging me in the ass for 7 years now, and I love it. For me, the turn on is watching a beautiful woman either bending me over and taking me from behind, or putting me on my back and doing it in the missionary position. Either way, it feels great, and I highly recommend it to any heterosexual couples who want to take things to the next level.

From Dave
My wife and I enjoy anal sex occasionally and the idea of her using a strap-on appeals to me. I'd like to try playing the more submissive role and have her pump me from behind. I think the prostate stimulation would be great.

From J
My wife and I found a great new toy, it's better than a strap-on. It's called the Feeldoe [double headed dildo] and it doesn't require a harness, it's shaped like a penis on one end and has a bulb on the other, the female inserts the bulb end in her vagina and she can fuck, harness and hands free. It also has a little vibrator bullet. I love it when my wife fucks my ass with it.

From Glenn
Sadly my wife won't strap on, she will occasionally use a vibe on me whilst sucking me off but she won't wear the strap on I bought for her.

From Anonymous
Unless you have experienced this you have not really had sex - don't worry about the innuendoes of being gay, that is just a fantasy.

My wife of 32+ years and I discovered the use of a double headed dildo by accident and for years now have enjoyed to the fullest the sexual high. Firstly she gets on a high just positioning the dildo and getting the dildo ready to dominate me . After insertion in me she takes the other end of the dildo. Once in position with my testicles rubbing her clit and we are tight together it isn't long before one of us explodes. Our best experience was with friends..... whilst we performed they sucked her clit and her breasts whilst she sucked the other mans' cock .

Just enjoy and enjoy. One caution, use a silicone dildo, some women are irritated by rubber .Go for it both ends!

From Shouldwe?
Well my girlfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now, and she is very interested in anal play. We're buying a strap on soon, but lately she's been fingering my ass until I come about 2-4 times. She says it gets her off more than she thinks I get off. She comes like 4 or 5 times by the time I cum once. It is really pleasurable. I am not bi nor gay, I have no thought of being with guys. All I need is my beautiful girlfriend and us together and I'll be fine. 

How would anyone recommend picking the right dildo for using the strap on...and what kind of lube?

[Shoudwe, you can find much of what you want to know by reading Strap It On: A Basic Primer ]

From San Frans Guy
My girlfriend and I are enjoying a strap-on for about one year (I talked her into it). At first she was a bit uncomfortable but now she enjoys her 'dick' (that is how she calls it), and using it on me. So far, we only had good luck when I am kneeling (she fucks me from behind), but we would like to try other positions, any suggestion? 

We both have a good time and she also feels pleasure when doing me on my 4s. I really like being on my knees with her getting me from behind, I enjoy being dominated and fucked by her and she also likes doing me.

From Steve
I have been married for 21 years and our sex life just keeps on getting better. I introduced my wife to a strap-on dildoe about 12 years ago. The first time she fucked my ass with it she came the same time I did. She enjoys using dildos on my ass more than wearing a strap on, only because it is hard for her to play with herself at the same time. We need to buy a harness that is open for her pussy.

I love being on all fours while she takes an 8" strap-on up my ass. I am a straight guy, believe it or not, I just have a lot of bi sex thoughts. I do enjoy getting my ass fucked by my wife and dildos or strap-ons they all feel good. I would like to have my ass fucked even more often then we do it now which is maybe once a week. 

From Anonymous
I have fantasized about having a woman use a strap-on on me. I have never done it but it would be exciting if she was wearing leather or I was. If I could find the right woman I would try it.

From Peter
I like the idea of a woman strapping on a big old fake cock and fucking the shit out of me, would be very hot. Of course I would want to be cleaned out before, so that first statement would not be literal. Sometimes during masturbation I will slide a dildo into my ass and the feeling on my prostate is very nice.

From Apmich
I've been into anal play since I started masturbating as a kid. It took my wife a long time to get into it, but now she loves strapping it on. We have a vibrating strap-on and it rests nicely against her clit, so she gets lots of sensations from it too. However, she really just loves the idea of a big cock between her legs. It's 8 or 9 inches, but I've never been able to take it all the way.

It's not something we do all the time but every few months it's a great change of pace

From SDI
I've always fantasized about getting ass-fucked. It works for me as a fantasy during masturbation, but I can't say that I'm actually gay. There's never an actual, real guy who I'd say "That's the guy." The fantasy is one thing, but the actual prospect is quite another.

So I got a cyberskin 10-inch and gave it to my wife and asked her to "do it." She does it grudgingly, but she does do it. I wish she would do it with wild abandon, but I'm happy that she does it at all. To feel that thing penetrating me drives me nuts! If she would go nuts while doing it would literally blow my mind.

I've thought about getting a "doubled ended" strap on and asking her to use it. The mere thought of my wife fucking my ass while wave after wave of her own pleasure floods her mind absolutely drives me wild!

And that more than satisfies my desire. I don't need a guy to fuck my ass. My wife is all that I desire in that department!

From Dominik
For the longest time, throughout my 7 year marriage, I had a growing desire to have sex with a woman wearing a strap-on. My wife then was never responsive, and so many of the "kinks" that came about then were buried. I constantly diminished them in importance. But I craved them still. 

As I was going through my divorce I finally met a woman who was more than happy to do it. Where were all these kinky freaks when I was married? And she gave it to me, more than she thought I'd be able to take. It was strange, and exciting, and very hot. I look forward to every time we do it now.

From Wingman
My wife and I went on vacation to a lake cabin accompanied by our best friends. One night after a lot of drinking, we went to bed and my wife fucked me with her strap-on. we don't do this to often but I love it when we do. We made a lot of noise because both of our friends commented the next day. I told my buddy that we were having anal sex. I just didn't say who was receiving.

From Anonymous
I have always wanted to get "nailed in the ass" really hard. May I first say I am a 41 year old married man. I have anal dildos which I use on myself when masturbating alone. I love the feeling of getting screwed in my asshole. I am not gay, and I am not attracted to men. I am a normal heterosexual. 

I got my wife a 12 inch strap on dildo. She put on my favorite black thigh stockings and 7 inch heeled black leather boots. She used a little bit of lube on my crack, but didn't over do it because I wanted it to hurt a little first after the initial penetration began.

Then she fucked my tight rectal sphincter real hard. God it felt so fuckin good, getting rammed in the butthole from my sexy babe that is my wife.

From RG
I am fortunate that my wife loves sex and is willing to try just about anything. Many years ago, we purchased butt plugs - a small one for her and a larger one for me.

During sex, we would insert the butt plugs in each other at the appropriate time during love making. I loved the way it stimulated my prostate and got me excited. Later, I asked if she would mind us purchasing a strap on to use on me and she got excited and wet at just the thought. She couldn't wait for us to go to the sex store and pick one out! 

Like some of the other readers, we don't use it every night, but do use it often. She loves when I get her going by going down on her and using my tongue until she climaxes 4-5 times. Then I penetrate her and make her come several more times. By this point, she is ready to do me. 

The key, as you read all the time, is to use plenty of lube. She takes it easy at first, and then once she is in and can slide it in and out of me comfortably, she goes to town. She usually comes 3 or 4 more times fucking me and her excitement gets me excited. Finally, when I cannot take anymore, she will reach around the front to stroke me until I come, or my favorite, suck me off (which she loves to do).

From Tony
To Kayla: [see entry below]  And it is my deepest phallasy (phallic phantasy) to be 'plugged' by a strapon lady. Why are we always stuck with the wrong partner? (sigh). Dear Kayla, in another incarnation, maybe..

From Kayla
Oh some women are so lucky!!! Within the last couple of years using a strap-on on a guy has been my deepest fantasy. I'm currently engaged to a wonderful, sweet man who is unfortunately anal phobic. Just recently he ventured to insert one of his fingers in anus during sex and I found it to be extremely pleasurable.

As far as me doing the same to him, it may never happen. I really started to wonder if I would be more sexually pleased if I was with a guy who was bisexual. But after reading the postings here it's really nice and reassuring that there are straight men out there who enjoy receiving anal stimulation.

From Anonymous
I'm 25, I've loved the feeling of anal stimulation ever since I discovered masturbation. My wife doesn't really care for strapping it on because she says she doesn't get much from it but she does it to me because she knows I like it. I just love how it feels when she just rams it in me and doesn't let me make her back off. I like feeling like she is raping me. It hurts at first but after a while, I cant get enough.

From Bay Are
I love anal play. I am currently initiating my girlfriend on this form of pleasure. So far, she has 'finger -fucked' me a couple of times and it was wonderful. She is still a bit shy about doing it, but last time after seeing how I came, she was more relaxed. We are very open about it, she knows how much pleasure I get from it and she is starting to get pleasure from it. I am not sure whether we will move to a strap or not. I would like to.

From Anonymous
My boyfriend (otherwise entirely straight, despite being an excellent cook...) loves me taking him with a strap on, ideally with him on his back so I can give him a well-lubed hand job at the same time. We started off with a very small, slim vibrator, and worked up to the smallest strap-on I could find—for some reason it's very hard to get them in sensible sizes, and also of a good quality—the harness and dildo of the one I have are very flimsy, but the more expensive ones I've seen are also huge.

Yes he is generally a bit sore for a day or so afterwards, but always begs me to do it again so I guess it must be worth it. Personally I found that anal sex left me seriously uncomfortable for several days and it wasn't worth it, but then his cock is much bigger than the dildo I use on him!

From Tom
OK, this concept may sound odd, but is true and just the way it is. Like many guys, I have fantasized about being strap-on fucked in the ass. And like so many other guys with this secret fantasy, I am completely heterosexual. My wife is very open and I am comfortable enough to tell her of the fantasy and she is of course willing, but it seems to me that the whole act is about my desire to explore this fantasy, not really hers. Keep in mind she is completely willing, but it just didn't feel right.

For years the fantasy was there, but never really materialized the right way. Recently we joined a large swingers site to try and find a girl to join us for a threesome. We were both into this fantasy and felt the time was right. It took several months to finally find our partner. A unique and creative 43 year old who, like me, had a great collection of toys, spent lots of hours fixated on sex, masturbation and anything erotic. Inside her arsenal were a couple of different size strap-ons.

During one of our very frank and open discussion of fantasy, etc... between the three of us, I came right out and stated that I was still very interested in getting anally boffed with one of these lovely toys. Our new friend was clearly excited to hear this. I went so far as to explain to both our friend and my wife that It was simply a better match for our new lover to perform the act as she was so THOROUGHLY into it. She had, after all collected as a single female, a great collection of toys and strap-ons. My wife was completely unoffended and happy as can be to be part of the scene as it all took place.

I can't even describe how incredible to have this unique relationship. We are exploring all types of fantasies with our new lover and let me tell you how AMAZING to have two women at once, one fucking you in the ass and the other sucking, rubbing you...OH MY GOD!

From WD
I'm a straight guy in his late 30s who fantasizes a lot about being taken anally by a woman. Two girlfriends and now my wife have fulfilled most of my fantasies in this regard, but not the strap on experience.

My lovely wife had a difficult time at first with my needs, but now she's really into fingering me, licking me, and sticking her tongue inside. Sometimes she gets off by grinding her clitoris into my anus. But she draws the line at any kind of sex toy. I have a two-ended dildo in the drawer in case she ever changes her mind.

So I have to fantasize, read all the erotic stories available on the Internet, etc. I really hope the anal taboo for heterosexual men is fading away. It's the greatest thing, offering your ass up to a sexy woman--physically, emotionally, and symbolically.

From John
I have girlfriend for two years and she had only once were touching my anus. I liked it very much that I came three times that night and I wanted more. I am not a gay, I am straight, but I wanted to ask if someone have some advice how to engage more in this and to say to my girlfriend that I want more. I also want to know how to have safe anal intercourse and how to practice alone

From Michel
My beautiful wife tied my hands behind my back, lubed up her cock and gently slid it into my virgin arse. This was all my fantasies come true, a beautiful, dominant woman, her near naked body framed in leather, her slim cock filling me- I came almost immediately.

I begged her to turn me over so I could watch her fuck me-absolute heaven. It's not something we do all the time, only on special occasions, but the thought of it gets me hard in an instant.

How fortunate I am to have married my fantasy.

From brian
I am a male, 27, no desire to be with a man. My wife would use a vibrating anal toy me and sometimes her finger. I always wanted a strap-on and she had hinted at the idea a few times. I decided to purchase one and when I showed it to her she freaked. Now she thinks I am gay and we have no sex life. Can anyone help?

From Anonymous
I'm a 35 year old heterosexual man married to a beautiful and petite blond. One of my long time fantasies has been to be in the role of a woman during sex. In fact, I've always wanted to try this out with my wife. Unfortunately, until very recently, I was never able to discuss this fantasy with her for fear of harming our relationship. Would she think I was gay? That all changed though last Halloween. For a gag, I went dressed up as Princess Leia from Star Wars. I even stuffed my chest with simulated breasts. We had a fun but uneventful evening with a group of friends.

On our drive home from the Halloween party, my wife starts feeling me up! Squeezing my fake breasts, she exclaims "I wish these were real." Wow! Instant boner. We both start talking about girl-girl sex and I could tell that my wife was getting just as turned on as me. When we got home, I went to our bedroom and pulled out from my dresser drawer (unknown to my wife) the strap-on dildo that I had purchased online recently. I helped my wife place it on and asked her what she wanted me to do. She said she wanted me naked on the bed. I stripped and got on all fours placing a pillow under my stomach. Looking over my shoulder, I could see my naked wife standing in front of our bedroom mirror stroking her "dick". Climbing onto the bed, she got behind me and lubricated my asshole with cool K-Y Jelly. Slowly slipping the head of the dildo into my butt, I pulled her onto me. She began to thrust and I was in heaven. Man, it was a fantasic sensation -- especially to be penetrated by my own wife! We screwed that way for about 10 minutes until I got on top of her and we both came.

Anyway, my ass was a little sore that night and into the next day. It was well worth it though. The sex was great. We've since taken this fantasy to another level. On my birthday, I dressed up in 5" high heels, make-up, wig and sexy lingerie and pretended that I was one of my wife's girlfriends. As such, my wife got to act out her own bisexual fantasy with strap-on and all. My advice to couples who want to try this Use a dildo with a thin girth. You will be a lot more comfortable and your ass will thank you afterwards. A vibrating dildo is a plus. Not only does it feel great in your ass but your female partner will receive additional pleasure. Last but not least, make sure you wash down there real good before you have sex. It can get a little stinky if you know what I mean.

From Straponnut
Definitely a rewarding experience for both partners if inhibitions don't get in the way. For me I started out using anal stimulation occasionally while masturbating and finally am in a relationship where I can explore this facet of my sexuality without feeling like I am a freak. I married her! It helps to start out using a vibrator on yourself because you control it and it allows you to relax. Very important before you allow someone else to do this to you. Start out small and work your way up to where you are comfortable. Get to know yourself and use plenty of lubrication, KY Jelly works for me. Using a vibrator is crucial, something about the vibration relaxes me down there in a way I do not without it. After all of this then you are ready to move on to that feeling of fullness as your partner slowly slides into you. The little electric tingle of pleasure/almost pain as the tip bumps your prostate. By now your cock is so stiff as to be painful as your love r sets up a steady rhythm of in and out that you will continue to feel even after she has withdrawn. Then there is the climax. I came so hard my first time that it hit the ceiling!!! BIG, turns me on. It takes a lot of work to get to the point where you can take it though.

From Chris
Starting with experimenting with vibrators while masturbating, then progressing to strap-on dildo's with my wife, I can say that I am a huge fan of anal stimulation. My wife always seemed to enjoy using one on me, not always coming but still enjoying the power trip and the intimacy. Recently having bought a two headed one where one fits inside her vagina, she now LOVES doing me. Her orgasms are both deep within her and focused on her clit. Multiple orgasms are attainable, while she is strapped in, and I love knowing she has such a wonderful orgasm(s). The longer she is in me, the more relaxed I become and the more sensitive I am to the stroking in & out, which I am a huge fan of. I also love progressing from a small to large dildo, the full feeling driving me wild.

I would say that the play time before is important, both for stretching and creating a sense of intimacy. backrubs, finger play and rim jobs put me in a submissive mood where I really become vocal, urging her on to drive into me harder and deeper. I typically finish off riding her, controlling exactly where the dildo strokes me, and controlling the timing of my stroking. the quantity of semen is always quite large, as if we have not had sex for a week.

I can only urge anyone to try it, you will definitely like it.

From Steve
I enjoy strap-on play as a kind of sensual role-reversal. I pretend that I am the woman when I do it and I pretend that my anus is my vagina. I like for the inserting partner (I don't think of her as a man, but I think of her as having a phallus) to gently control the action, seducing me, relaxing me, and reassuring me until my craving for intercourse overwhelms my fear of the initial penetration and sense of shame about spreading. I sometimes kneel and fasten on the strap-on while she stands because it makes me feel submissive, but I also like to be surprised by a ready-to-go strap-on under loose shorts or a skirt. I love to be lubricated by the inserter, I think it's exciting to feel her actively preparing my hole for her use. When we're ready, I crouch on the bed with my head down on a pillow and my butt in the air and spread my legs apart. I very much prefer to be mounted from behind, and the woman seems to enjoy getting her "piece of ass". I use relatively small dildos because the thrusting is more important to me than the feeling of fullness, and I find them more comfortable. I cry out during the coupling, and make feminine noises, and I urge my stud to "take me" and "oh, faster, harder". I don't come directly from the motion, so after I'm very excited and starting to get sore, I reach back and stroke myself until I come on the sheets. We're currently working on trying to get the vibrations from the grinding to directly get her off too.

From Marty
Me and my wife have been together for about 9 years. The sex has always been good but she is one of those women that takes awhile to have an orgasm. She thought she might like to try a strap on so I bought her one. she now has orgasms much faster and much more intense even during regular sex. I have to say I was very apprehensive about the idea but we bought a double penatrix and the dildo for me is not very thick which i appreciate. I have to say I don't get much pleasure from something being put in my arse but what makes it worth it to me is how excited she gets and how much pleasure it gives her. That makes it all worth it to me.

From Anonymous
My wife and I have tried a strap-ons. Usually it is awkward, but a double headed dildo worked fairly well. One end was smaller than the other and fit perfectly. It reminded me of two women going at it.

It is fun to be submissive once in a while. the best way is one of her dildos of vibrators while stroking myself. She will lick my nipples and drive me sooo crazy I want her to fuck me. I'll let it last as long as I can, then shoot all over myself and her.

Wow! It is a little selfish so be sure to return the favor.

From Tom
My wife and I had tried it, but the strap-on she had gotten was much too big for me. Also, I had a lot of gastro- intestinal pain (bloating, gas, and a feeling like I had to shit all the time but could not) for a couple of days. We would like to try again, but would like to get some more info from folks who have a little more experience.

From Anonymous
My wife and recently decided to give anal sex a try. We got a strap-on and I gave her good head, but it was just to big for my ass. Not so much as length but the girth. I was smarting for a few days and we're both hesitant about trying it again. Has anyone had a similar experience to speak of?

From Anonymous
My wife purchased a strap-on prior to our going on vacation. I was unaware of her purchase. During a night of making love she started to play with my ass as she gave me a blowjob. This is not uncommon as I enjoy anal stimulation very much. When she stopped she told me to hold still. She pulled out the strap-on and slipped into it. She then lubed me and her cock up and proceeded to slide it in my ass. Once she got it all the way in she started to move back and forth just a little. I was on my back and stroking my cock. She then started to move very fast and started to fuck me very hard. I shot a large amount of cum onto my chest and she to had an orgasm. We now occasionally use the strap-on. In talking to my wife she enjoys the power of it and sometimes pretends that I am a girlfriend of hers. She is very passive by nature. I believe this allows her to feel powerful.

From John
I've tried it a few times with my wife and using various vibrators and one strap-on. It's a huge turn on for both of us. My wife came up with a female name for me while she's fucking me and it's a real buzz for her. It varies of course - for a while after we first tried it I had to slow her down because she wanted to do me too often and I find my arse needs a while to recover. As long as she's gentle and slow about getting it in and uses a lot of lubricant, I don't mind how big the vibrator is, in fact the bigger the better. I get off on just thinking about it.

From Patrick
My lover and I have gone the strap-on route and have never looked back. I'm normally quite dominant but have been sexually active anally for a while. When I mentioned to her that I wanted her to reverse roles with me, the darling woman didn't blink an eye. She was shaking with enthusiasm at the thought of penetrating me.

We have had several encounters with her using strap-on and the most comfortable and sensual position for us has always been with me on my hands and knees and she behind. The painful missionary position has never worked for us.

From Anonymous
I'm 62 and have been experiencing difficulties with erections for several years now. I tried Viagra, couldn't use it because it made my heart fibrillate. I was diagnosed with a heart disease and am required to take medication daily. I can get an erection but can't sustain it for any length of time. It's very frustrating for me but equally as frustrating for my wife who is 21 years younger than me. She & I enjoyed several years of very hot sex before the onset of my problem. I satisfy her orally and she comes very hard, even to the point of losing consciousness.

However, she tells me that she enjoys having me inside her. We purchased two harnesses and several dildos. She tells me that they are just "o.k." We have two vacu-locks and one silicone dildo. The silicone is 5" long and slim. In August, on my birthday, my wife put her harness on and using the small silicone dildo fucked me in the ass. She was just as excited as I was and we both came very hard. Recently I discovered a video titled "Bend Over Boyfriend," which I ordered and we both watched. There is also a sequel "B.O.B. II" which we also ordered. We still enjoy satisfying one another orally and use the strap-ons occasionally, and for treats we will both take it from the rear. I would recommend to any man that he try, several times, taking a dildo up his butt. Research does indicate that it's good for the prostate. My wife has also used a slim vibrator in my rear and that's very enjoyable. Try it guys, who knows you might like it.

From Kevin
I am a male in my mid 40's. I have recently had a desire to have my wife use a strap-on dildo but she rejected it out of hand. I went to a professional dungeon (not nearly as bad as it sounds) in Chicago and before you know it I was on my hands and knees sucking the six inch dildo of a tall beautiful blonde while her partner gave it to me with a slim (thank you) dildo. It was a quite powerful experience, though I still don't know exactly what to make of it.

From mata_hari70
I tried a strap-on with my last partner, and I really enjoyed it. The back and forth movement was a big turn-on, as was the feeling of penetrating someone, an experience that women may desire, but can't always experience without toys. I liked wrapping my arms around his hips and feeling his body as I did it. It was my first time, but I would definitely do it again.

From Michael
Up until a year ago this is a subject which I would have nothing to contribute to, nor had much interest in. However, since then me and a female sexual partner have been experimenting with strap-ons over the past six months. I am a male, in my mid twenties and also have no attraction for, or desire to be with a man. Yet I find the act of having my female partner slide a 6" dildo deep into my ass to be very exciting. It started out with her sliding her fingers into my ass while she went down on me and then she told me that she wanted to use a strap-on dildo on me. The truth came out one night during one of those sexual sessions in which you go a little beyond your normal self. After heavy kissing, touching and some sensual oral exchanges she will pull up her dress and strap the dildo around her waist. The she will pull my jeans down only enough to slide into me, using my belt to hold my body as she slides in and out. It turns me on to no end to reach back and grab the onto what every I can and pull her deep into me. Usually it’s the waist band of her panties or dress. She enjoys the power exchange because I almost always hold the control during sex. I must admit at first I was unsure but it didn't take me long to learn to enjoy it and in the process help my partner to explore her fantasy's involving the use of a strap-on dildo.

From Juan
The guy that wrote in about having his girlfriend wear a strap-on and then penetrating him with it was interesting to read. My only comment is that in the past when I have indulged in anal, I found that my girlfriend got highly aroused when I also penetrated her pussy with a strap on, so much so that she had multiple orgasms. Just something to consider when writing your adult literature. Ps. by anal I mean on her, not me - I tried it once but felt like shit for the next couple of hours with a strange sensation in my guts...

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