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From Bi-girl
This is something I haven't tried yet. I'd love to plug a man's ass but I'm afraid I'd hurt him. It would have to be a man who's already experienced at it.

From Keith
My wife has used a dildo and a vibrator on me a few times while she stroked me to an orgasm. It's a fantastic sensation. I'm hoping to convince her to try a strap on to make the experience last longer.

From Love it in the Rear
My wife has always liked to stick her fingers in my ass, and I really enjoy it to. One day I brought home a strap-on and I could see the excitement in her eyes. We both could not wait to try it out. She made me get on my knees and suck own her big cock (as she calls it) until she came. Then she leaned me over the dresser in front of the mirror so she could watch herself fuck me in the ass. I came without any other stimulation, just the expression on her face and her cock in my ass. She said the power trip from having her own cock is something she cant explain and says every women should try it.

From Uptoplay2
I now know two women who liked the idea of strap-on play enough that they went ahead and purchased a Feeldoe. [double headed dildo] Their husbands, who had never said a word about any interest in strap-ons, upon seeing them playing with the feeldoes decided on the spot to bend over. For me, the feeldoe adds a new dimension to the strap-on play. Namely, the woman is really feeling it! 

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From Michelle
I've had a committed boyfriend of a while now and am interested in bringing a facet into our relationship I really think he would like, namely anal toys. My problem is with my boyfriend's own personal issues with sex in relation to what goes and what he vetoes. Which is a whole other story entirely.

He does enjoy anal play and usually asks I penetrate him during each sexual encounter we have with my finger. The stimulation brings him to incredible orgasm and he is very affectionate during the act. My boyfriend can be an annoying paradox at times. He runs of the cliff running and screaming with some things and with others he is very guarded and coldly dismissive.

My boyfriend's major qualm that is slightly frustrating me now is his attitude towards sex toys. Once we started dating he asked me to throw away mine...I of course refused which led to a ridiculous fight. I am very interested in making things pleasurable for him and have found that since he is very fond towards anal play he would enjoy other forms of stimulation as well.

Not so. I have only managed on two occasions to successfully bring him to complete orgasm with the use of sex toys in which he was not uncomfortable, and expressed extreme gratitude afterwards. A butt plug and vibrator. He did deeply enjoy these two occasions and it is from his enjoyment with this that I am being slightly stubborn about the strap-on. I know it would be a no no to spring something like a strap-on on him during sex and I sat down with him for a calm and open discussion about what I would like to do and why.

He was of course very very reluctant and I know he is now wary of me trying this unwillingly, which I would never do. We all have our sexual no goes and I respect his, however I do believe he will be missing out on something he could grow to love and I would like to give it one last try before throwing in the towel. Does anyone have any advice for having this discussion, any tips would be incredibly welcomed.

From Reilly
About five years ago, my partner told me about a dream she had the night before. She is not too adventurous and though sex was good it sure seemed like we were missing some fun. She told me that she had dreamed that I was on a table on all fours and she was fucking me with a large black dildo that she held in both hands. 

As the next year went by she began touching my ass and would occasionally put her finger a little way into my asshole while she masturbated me. One night, after she had more than she was used to to drink, she rolled me over on my stomach with surprising force, climbed on my back and proceeded to thrust her clit against my tailbone very hard. She came within 30 seconds. 

Another few months went by and I asked her if she ever thought about her dream. She had completely forgotten about it and seemed somewhat surprised and embarrassed. A few days later though, sure enough, she asked me if she should buy a toy so that we could "try" her dream. I got an instant erection and said I thought it was a pretty good idea. She came home a few days later with a dildo about the size of my penis and, surprisingly, a black leather harness. 

At first, she had no idea how excited I was but as she applied lubrication with her finger and felt me shaking with anticipation she really stepped up her intensity and started telling me how she was going to fuck me and I'd know what it felt like to get fucked really hard. It was great- she came again from pressure on my back and reached around and brought me to an orgasm so intense I saw stars. 

But we have only done it 3 or 4 times since in the past 2 years and she is very noncommittal when I ask her about it frankly. Sex is less frequent though still quite good but I want to be bent over...


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