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From Kay
Oh God *yes*, do I love a good session with my wife using a strap-on on me!!! It allows us both to indulge several aspects of our sexuality that might otherwise not be expressed in a satisfying way. For myself, I'm bisexual to start with, although I've not been with a man--nor have I wanted to be--since meeting the woman who is now my wife. But you don't just turn off half of yourself like that, and my need to be the bottom, to receive, is very strong indeed at times; besides, I'm just plain old anally oriented, and love taking it up the backside. On her side, she has a strong dominant streak--although not to the extent that a real dyed-in-the-wool Domme does--and just being the aggressor in the usual way isn't enough sometimes. To feel me wide open under her, to see me ass-in-the-air and clutching at the sheets or the headboard, gives her that feeling of power and control she craves.

The only word of advice I have for novices is: start slow! Even if a man is used to taking a flesh-and-blood cock inside him, as I was, it's better not to use that big dildo in the toy pile until the woman in charge of it gets used to making a lifelike thrusting motion with a much smaller one. Lube it to within an inch of its life. Find the correct level and angle for penetration; critical. *Relax*. And especially, ladies, since that silicon cock has no nerves in it and you can't physically feel your partner's body around it, learn to distinguish between a cry of pleasure and one of pain; and if you get one of the latter, *stop*, for chrissakes!

From Rob
I have a strong fantasy about my wife using a strap-on. We have used dildos of various sizes and she and I enjoy that a lot. Unfortunately she isn't interested in strapping one on. I'm very envious of you guys who have someone who gets off on that.

From Robert from Euless
I'm a 40+ year old straight man that absolutely loves it when my fiancée penetrates me with her fingers, tongue, vibrator or strap-on.

I've been lucky to share my enjoyment of anal stimulation with many of my lovers, but none have been as enthusiastic as my fiancée. We used to indulge only lightly and occasionally; say, a finger or two up my ass while getting one of her A-1 blowjobs. And rimming, we have always loved shoving our tongues deep into each other's assholes.

She ordered me down on my knees and demanded that I reach back and spread my ass wide with both hands. Somewhere she had found a small 6" vibrator and rigged it onto a strap-on harness that we had purchased many years before, but never used it for anything other than between my fiancée and another girl we were doing back when we used to enjoy threesomes. Now I was kneeling on the bathroom floor facing a floor to ceiling mirror with a vibrator being fucked in and out of my ass, my fiancée pounding my butt like she's possessed. She's calling me "her bitch" and "her slut" and how much she's enjoying finally popping my ass cherry, so to speak.

For the guys that haven't brought the subject up to their woman because you're not sure how to approach it... at least bring the subject up frankly and honestly and tell her what you would like the two of you to try. Give her some time to think about it, but don't hesitate to return to the subject if more than a couple of weeks have gone by (I know... it will feel like an eternity). You'll just never know for certain though unless you ask.

My fiancée and I are firm believers that "if you can't say it, you can't do it." If you're a guy that has asked and have been refused, then you obviously have to either reshuffle your sexual priorities and/or float upon the tricky waters of negotiation and compromise. And pay special attention to the "compromise" part.

I love butt-sex!

From Eric
My girlfriend wearing a strap-on is both sexy and kinky at the same time! Love it!

From Anonymous
My wife is only into very plain vanilla sex, but I would love to be bent over, tied to some apparatus, blindfolded, gagged, paddled mercilessly, then fucked in my ass by her with a large strap-on. Alas.

From Fabienne
In all the letters I have read in this section, I haven't seen any involving two women. I have only recently been introduced to the world of Sapphic Love, but I am enjoying it.

Not long ago, while enjoying an afternoon of oral love making, I casually commented that a nice hard dick would be good right about now. Sort of like a brandy after a good meal. Without saying a word, my partner left the room. She returned a few moments later sporting a strap-on. Now I have heard of these and even seen them in catalogs, but this was my first encounter with one. It had no bulky harness. It was more like an old-fashion girdle, with the dildo poking through from the inside.

The "penis" was very flexible. Not at all like the hard, rigid ones I'd seen in movies. I laid back and closed my eyes as she opened my legs and rubbed the head between my pussy lips, not unlike a man would to spread the moisture. As she eased into me, the feeling was identical to the real thing. Only when she pressed her soft, feminine body against mine did I know it wasn't a man.

I was in heaven! Being filled with a cock and feeling the soft, yielding body of another woman. I may never go back to men again.

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