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My girlfriend and I just got a strap-on harness and dildo, and yes, she uses it on me (I'm a guy). I don't have any desire to be with a man, trust me I've worked this through, but that's not precisely what I'm commenting on. We bought a really good strap-on and though we don't use it every night we do take it out for special occasions - when extra-kink is what the doctor orders.

Usually during sex I'm the more dominant partner BUT once in a while I like the tremendous rush of vulnerability that comes from being submissive to her. She gets a major kick outta having 8 inches of phallus dildo in her strap-on to heave about and she says she like the dominance that she feel it brings out in her. It was her idea to get the thing but it only occurred to her after I introduced her to good anal sex.

Anyhow, I'm wondering are there other couples or people out there who like using strap-ons and dildos? I'd like to hear other perspectives on this and any advice other's might have: Like what's the thrill for them, does dildo size matter? And what contexts, or roll-plays might others be into? I'm doing some fiction writing right now and I'd find the feedback useful.

Thanks ... and God bless the ERWA folks for their providing this forum!    —Festus


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From Anonymous
I love being fucked by my wife—my ass really needs it. I guess I am her Ass slut. What a feeling. I clean my ass with four bulbs of warm water—until I run clean. When she fucks me—I am so lubed up. She could fuck me all night long.  I love it. The best orgasm ever.  I really dump a large load of warm cum. She is my lover—so sexy.

From Lumberjack
As far as porn goes, I'm not a big fan of girl-on-girl.  But I love watching two women fuck each other using a double-ended dildo.  And it shouldn't be too long either, they should be slamming each others lips on the deepest strokes.

From Anonymous
I am a man and have a fantasy of my wife walking into the room wearing nothing but a strap on.  I can hear her telling me she is going to lather me up and have her way with me until I come.  After I come, I fantasize about her pulling out a vibrator and using it until she comes. 

I bought a strap on, but she did not get the hint.  She seemed excited to have me wear the strap on, but not herself. I'm hoping in time she will be willing to try.  

From Anonymous
Well my leather harness and dildo arrived. My wife was taking a shower and I laid it out on the bed. After her shower she called me in the bedroom and she had the  strap-on on -- WHAT a sight. So sexy.

She really enjoyed fucking me with it, she could not believe how much I enjoyed having it up my ass. She told me she would do me whenever I want it. And that it really turned her on too.  I love her so much. She's a good wife. I am in Heaven.

From Anonymous
For years I have inserted toys, anal plugs, beads, in my ass as I masturbated. I love it,  I have never told my wife because  thought she would think I was gay, I am not. She would never play with my ass, a lot of times when I was home alone I would put a dildo in the dresser so it was locked in place and I could back on to it -- and fuck myself -- it feels so good. I would masturbate and really explode. A lot of times I would insert things in me when we had sex - but she would not know. I bought a harness and dildo about 10 years ago. I used it on her.  She never got the idea.  I wanted her to fuck me so bad. I was afraid to say anything to her.

When I see women wearing a harness and dildo and their tittys it drives me nuts. Well Last night -- we were taking a shower together and I asked her if she would PLEASE use a harness and dildo on me. She has big tittys -- and I would love to see it on her. I want her to fuck me so bad,  She told me she would let me know -- I orderd a new dido and leather harness. If I laid on my back with my legs high in the air and her in between my legs with her dido in my ass watching her tittys bounce as she was fucking me,  I would be in heaven. I hope she says yes. I want be submissive to her. Let her take total control of my ass.  And I am not gay.

From Roy
I have been a closet anal lover for years. When I married my wife of three years she had a few dildos that she used on herself. After we were married for about a year I talked to her about this not knowing that she was wanting to do me. I was all for it. The ones she had was too small for me so we bought a larger one and have used it many times.

She really likes to hammer me hard for a long time. I have had some medical problems as of late and have had to use them on her. The one she uses on me is 13" by 3" and I can take in to the hilt. I love the way it feels when she does me hard and I feel her hips ram into my back side. One must be careful and use a lot of lube,  that is the most important thing. With care one can enjoy a lot of fun for along time.

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