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From Neil
I recently indulged in the purchase of a very skimpy men's bikini bathing suit...even smaller than your typical Speedo.  My wife and I were going on vacation to a Caribbean beach and together we wore the hottest sexiest swimwear possible.  Her's was a micromini thong that showed off her round ass and barely covered the lips of her pussy.  It was a "see through when wet" white suit and when she emerged from the water, I could see her huge hard nipples right through her top and I could even see the inner lips of her cunt and her aroused clit right through her micro bottom.  My wife also groomed her pussy hair so that just a small rectangular strip was visible protruding from the top of her micro bottom. 

My suit was also sheer when wet and really was not much help in containing my erection when I saw my wife.  When I got out of the water, we walked down the beach together, enjoying the voyeuristic stares of other adult beach goers.  One woman came up to us just to tell us how hot we looked together.  I became more erect as we stood there talking to this woman and then it was hopeless as the engorged head of my cock emerged from the top of my deliberately skimpy suit.  This was turning into a fantasy come true.  My wife said "it's okay...he likes to show off." 

We were in a pretty secluded part of the beach and I told my wife right in front of this woman, who was quite voluptuous, that I need to come right now.  While I wanted this other woman to participate, I was going to be happy to masturbate in front of her...with my wife's blessing.  I boldly asked the woman if she wanted to watch me and she said to my great pleasure "sure."  We waded in to the shallow calm warm water and with my wife behind me caressing my chest and thighs, I lowered my bikini and began to slowly stroke my erect cock with my right hand.  The other woman was in front of me watching intently.  It didn't take long before I was really close to coming and the woman said "I'll bet this will help." 

She then pulled aside the straps of her bikini top letting her larger breasts spill out for me to see.  I said "I want to come on your tits."  She knelt down in the water and my wife's hand replaced mine and my wife masturbated me to an explosive orgasm as I watched my come shoot out onto this stranger's big tits. 

Just retelling this incredible story makes me aroused and I'm going to have to masturbate again right now.  But before I do, let me encourage you to be bold and buy and wear that skimpy bikini bottom...lots of people love to look!

From Andrew
Speedos, or more accurately, bikini swim wear. I wear them, I'm not overweight and I don't care who doesn't approve. They're comfortable, functional and they feel good on.

All beaches aren't created equal. I'll wear something with 3 or 4 inch sides and a full back at a beach or pool with an average sized group of people around. At other times with fewer people or at a beach with other bikini wearers I'll wear a string bikini with 1/2 inch sides, a narrow front and Rio back.

I like the sun and tan lines are sexy. Same at home and sunning in the backyard. It's private. Nobody's got any business peeking through the bushes. If they do, they're the one with a problem.

From Jared
Thanks to Ed for his feedback. I will add that when I was single, I experienced what Ed did. When I had gotten into the best shape of my life my physique really stood out and I did not hesitate to wear small suits to the pool or beach. At any beach, I never lacked for attention. No woman was grossed out, they often would just walk up and start conversations. The odd one even admitted that the fact I had the cojones to wear such suits was an attractive thing to them.

As I have read through all the posts here, hard to believe that this is such a hot topic still. I do agree with one thing I read somewhere, that if more celebrity types wore speedos the stigma attached to them might disappear.

From Adam
I've always been interested in wearing speedos but too shy. I had some as a teenager but would not wear them in public. That was many years ago (I'm 35 now). A few years ago, I learned that a buddy of mine got some and he started wearing them to beaches and pool parties. That prompted me to finally pick up a pair. Now, I only wear speedos when getting wet. My friends are actually shocked now when I forget my speedos and have to borrow boardies. I think people are more accepting/tolerant than people assume them to be.

Now, my next challenge is to wear them to a water park. I still haven't built up the nerve to do that yet!

From Ed
Couldn't agree more with Jared. [see Jared's entry below] I'm a bodybuilder too, born in South America but currently living in Australia. I also own several Andreas Cahling posing suits, and they are great for the days on the beach when it is not appropriate to wear a thong. Back in S.A., I used to wear string bikinis very similar to the Andreas Cahling ones, and most of my girlfriend just loved it. Didn't have negative reactions from the locals, but yes, as Jarred points out from his Uruguayan experience, I did stand out. 

Here in Australia nobody gives a damn for what you are wearing on the beach;  therefore I'm free to wear Dore and Muscleskins without any problems at all. I still wear my Andreas Cahling string bikinis when I go to the local swimming pools with the kids, and I'm unbelievable popular with the ladies, at least 6 of them talk to me all the time.

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