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SpeedosI've noticed that guys like myself who wear Speedos for swimming (when I can't swim nude) are in the minority. Frankly, I don't know how anyone can swim wearing those baggy shorts they call swimwear these days. My ex used to buy me the skimpiest membrane-thin speedo type suit she could find. We were definitely a match. She used to say she was different from other women in that she liked looking at men's bodies. How different was she? Come on gals - I wanna know - does a man in a snug Speedo look that bad?   —Andy C. Vileta


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From Anonymous
I wear Speedos or other bathing briefs (Tyr, Nike) to swim laps, as most of the guys at my Y do. Once you try them you'll be hooked. They are extremely comfortable, allow you great freedom of movement and that means you can go faster and get a better work out. For me, the biggest obstacle was appearing in public in a Speedo the first time. I am in good shape, but I don't have the classic swimmer's body. (For one thing, I've got a very hairy chest). But what I found is an attitude of nonchalance when it comes to men in Speedos at the lap pool. It's expected attire.

As for the bulge -- well, yeah, it's there. But with the exception of a Nike swim brief I recently retired -- a suit in which my penis for some reason looked embarrassingly huge -- I honestly don't find Speedos or swim briefs all that revealing. However I do not wear Speedos to a regular beach. For me, they seem out of place there. But that's just me. 

From Mick
I love my old speedos, they are 12 yrs old now and thread bare. They were always wafer thin, tight and barley contained me. I am well hung and they do have a tenancy to stretch when getting aroused. I swim at the beach often and lay on my back, I have cut the gusset out and when wet they are see through, being gold coloured. So if I lay back I get a huge bulge, and if my cock's facing down I get a huge mound and the girls all around me are often giggling or taking pics. I pretend to not notice. I just lay there, the more they stare the more turned on. I get up and go to the water and just stand so the gentle waves splash my groin. I keep wet and totally see through, the girls all gather near as if they are not obvious.

I then will walk to the shore and go for a jog, my cock gets very hard and is all there to see, even my pubes, I get good comments and stares, girls come back up the beach to see me a couple of times. I love it. It's like being naked but not. If I was it would be gross but I pretending to be decent and they all go with it, never had a complaint all girls all ages (not too young) teenagers are so cool with it.

I have walked up the entire beach with a hard on poking out and see through may as well be wearing nothing. Only thing my speedo is the fine line between indecent exposure and hot hunky guy showing off as a true exhibitionist . My speedos are my salvation without them I would be unable to show off my wares as I do. On some level it's acceptable, they think I am unaware how see through they are and I pretend to be embarrassed that helps. Never go to the beach or pool without them.

From Daniel
I've been wearing bikini swimsuits exclusively for 10-12 years. I'm decently proportioned, not over-weight and just got completely fed up with wearing baggy shorts at the beach or pool.

Sometimes a bikini with 3 or 4 inch sides and a full seat is appropriate. Most often though I'll wear one with no more than 1/2 inch sides with a Rio style seat or even a partial thong back.

I shave completely to avoid the gross, hairy look. I definitely prefer the look and feel of a skimpy string bikini. The tan lines certainly are nicer than those with the dopey shorts. If there happens to be some prude on the beach who can't handle that...too bad.

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