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From Kalliannassa
Hmm, Tacky but I loved Pirates of the Caribbean , Depp, and Bloom, and a very very sexy sword fight. The Count of Monte Cristo. Who'd have thought revenge could be sexy?

Tomb Raider, if only for what I did in the theater when Buffy and Spike get it on for the first time in a falling down house. Also when he is playing with her on the balcony of the dance club, and she wants him to stop, and he says make me, and then she doesn't.

Has anyone here heard of a show called Bliss? It is a half hour of erotica. Sometimes it shows nearly everything, sometimes not so much, and they do everything. Personal favorite, the blind piano tuner..... purrrr

From Seppo
My favourite film was long ago, and still is, Big Easy with Ellen Barkin and Dennis Quaid making love. Almost nothing is shown - and still I got so hot - as Kimberley so lively described. I think I have to have it on DVD... Since that Ellen has been my favourite! And since that I have had the dream to make a film of my own. Erotic in a way how much can one achieve showing as little as possible! That's much more interesting than showing it all!

From Brandy
The Piano is definitely one of the sweetest, most erotic films ever made! The sexual energy slowly builds, as Harvey Keitel shows us a unique soft side. And a Harvey full-frontal? Who could want more? I've seen another Keitel movie listed here, From Dusk Till Dawn . I'll have to see it and get back to you. There is also some incredible sexual charge in his movie with Kate Winslet, Holy Smoke , but the movie itself is ridiculous!

From Slow Movement
Desert Hearts I love this kiss through the opened car window. "We can go on like this if you want to." The sex in the hotel room is legendary beautiful. great tenderness and enormous arousal.

If The Postman Rings Twice (Bob Rafelson version) I was a teenager in the movie theatre then. O how I loved seeing Jessica Langes beautiful breast touched through the dress by Jack Nicholson's hand, to watch her legs, the stockings, the panties, softly bulging over her beautiful thing. I fantasized her blonde pubic hair. I was totally stiff and it was a great cinematic moment. Before that, when she swept the things from the desk, opened Jacks trousers. Mh! Ah! It was such an horny and explosive scene.

Leaving Las Vegas . A sad story. But I felt in love with Mrs. Elisabeth Shues eyes, hair and beautiful breasts. It's a little bit morbid, but I liked this last time they did it He, dying, failing to masturbate in order to get his cock stiff for a last time, she taking over, doing that for him, and giving him a last ride to heaven. Oh, even this hands clutching my cock ... Being in Mrs. Shue is one of my greatest movie star fantasies. Coming in slow motion. I can imagine stealing endless moments from death, enjoying her body in many positions, each deeply and happily enjoyed.

From Penfold
I would have to say Desert Hearts just for the hotel room scene. And The Lover for its hot and heavy scenes. Finally the original Thomas Crown Affair the chess game scene with its implied sexuality was brilliant.

From Sarah
The movie that got me the the hottest, no questions, Original Sin with Antonio Bandaras and Angelina Jolie. They kiss, he sucks all over her, beautiful close up of her breasts, she gives him oral, they begin to fuck, her legs are in the air and the faces she makes are wonderful. The best part is the shot of Antonio's ass as you can see the muscles thrusting. Very well done scene, I'm excited just thinking about it.

From Grasshopper
Lianna , by John Sayles, is a great, sexy film about a married woman falling in love with her female neighbour. On the topic of lesbian romances, Desert Hearts has to be one of the sexiest around! A few others: Pandora's Box with Louise Brooks (1920's film), The Hunger, Warm Water under a Red Bridge (Japanese, 2001), Decline of the American Empire (French Canadian, 1988),  The Lover, Baise Moi , and my favourite of ALL time, Henry and June ... where do you get lingerie like that these days?!?

From nlj
Just add my vote for the Dennis Quaid /Ellen Birkin scene from The Big Easy and George Clooney/J Lo in Out of Sight both good films too.

From Zendora
Firelight is hot. It is the perfect female sex movie. The beginning where they meet up for sex in the resort inn. And later when she hunts him down and you see his penis after his morning swim, you get hot right along with the lead heroine. I love this movie, it's good for when you what romance with a lot of visual heat.

From Steve
First, I agree totally about Sea of Love , what a great movie. Now you can call me a pervert (you know you want to), but my sexiest movie moment is from The Dunwich Horror , with Sandra Dee, drugged up and lying on an altar surrounded by a coven of witches, just waiting to be impregnated by the ancient god Ctlulhu (a kind of huge jellyfish). What more could you ask for? A great film, but hardly what H.P. Lovecraft envisaged.

From Mike
A couple of scenes with Laura Dern spring to mind - the masturbation scenes in Rambling Rose and Wild At Heart (with Willem Dafoe).

From TMS
I'm a sucker for Rob Roy w/ Jessica Lange & Liam Neeson....when he arrives home during the wee hours & goes to her in bed....ah yes! And when they're on a picnic & send the children home first...to linger...Also, Chocolat ....could watch that one daily! I'm more inclined to enjoy the subtle, sensual messages!

From FoxXanatos
The opening scene of Don Juan de Marco with Johnny Depp never fails to get me hot and bothered.

From Sheila
Dracula with Frank Langella is one of the sexist, erotic movies I have ever seen. The scene where Dracula is invited into Lucy's bedroom for the first time is so sensual I get wet thinking about it. No one is better as Dracula than Langella.

From J.B.
The remake of The Postman Always Rings Twice with Jack Nicholson and Jessica Lange has a very sexy scene about a half hour in when they do it on a kitchen table. It starts out almost as a rape but then she stops fighting him and goes crazy. He pushes her up against a wall and puts his head between her legs.

Then there is a scene that drives me wild. He is pushing his hand up toward her crotch and Jessica is wearing the appropriate 1930s garter belt, stockings and white panties. We get a beautiful closeup of this. As his hand approaches her crotch, she is so hot she can't wait for him to touch her through her panties so she puts her own hand there and gives herself a squeeze. Then he puts his hand on top of hers and guides it, then she moves her hand onto the top of his, and together they caress her a few times.

So very briefly, we get to see Jessica Lange masturbating. It doesn't get any better than that.

From Brigid
For me one of the sexiest movies I have encountered has to be the Thomas Crown Affair with Pierce Brosnan. The chemistry and fight for control between the two characters reached out of the screen and grabbed me! Maybe it was because I like the actors so much, I don't know but I wanted to be Renea Russo and for me any movie that makes me want to be part of the story is a good one.

From Victoria
I'm a big Al Pacino fan, so I agree that Sea of Love was an incredibly sexy movie. Another scene was in the all night grocery store where she came to meet him in nothing but a trench coat and high heels. The look on his face was priceless.

One of my all time favorites is Risky Business when Rebecca first came into the house and asked Tom if he was ready for her? Ready? READY?! Are you kidding? The heat that came off the screen in the next few minutes was enough to melt the film projector wires. When he ran his hands up her body from behind...mmm... well, let's just say that part of my tape has been rewound and played over and over again.

From Bianca
I'm a Japanophile, and I love Japanese smut because a lot of it is about riding the fine line between pain and pleasure, and the aesthetics are always breath-taking...

Everyone's seen Realm of the Senses I'm sure, but a lesser known classic I love is Mishima , based on the life of one of Japan's greatest queer authors. A beautiful young man sells his body to a lady gangster...She's wearing lingerie while she cuts a melon with a knife, and later he completely submits to him while she cuts him with the knife...all the sex scenes in Tampopo are great too, especially the one with the Yakuza and the girl selling oysters... damn!

From Bettina
I had nothing to add to this list until last night, when my husband and I watched Nora, the story of the love affair between James Joyce and Nora, his wife. I have never seen a more truthful or sexier depiction of the waves of passion we ride in our long-term relationships. It's a new film, just out on video and DVD with Ewan McGregor and Susan Lynch.

That reminds me of another Susan Lynch film, From Hell . About the reign of Jack the Ripper, it's quite erotic-visually rich and sensual.

From Kimberly
Oh my, my vote goes for another Ellen Barkin movie...The Big Easy ...sigh. Dennis Quaid has been after her and she's trying to keep her professional distance and he finally 'gets to her'. 

In his bedroom on his bed, her face is to the camera, she's up on her knees (after telling him that she's no good at this "sex stuff"). His hand has traveled slowly up her leg and you can tell where his hand is <is it warm in here?> You can tell by the look on her face what's going on, and I can damn near feel it m'self... She's getting weaker and weaker with passion and tells him to "Stop that". 

He gets this grin on his face and says, "Stop what, that.........or that?" It still just makes me so wet when I see that....a man who is intent on his errand....Mmm Mmmm Mmm

From Josef
When I saw this topic I immediately thought of the first two crushes I ever had on movie actresses. I think I was maybe twelve or thirteen?

The first one was Charlotte Lewis' Tibetan character (although Charlotte is really half-Arab half-Irish) in The Golden Child with Eddie Murphy, the scene where a pipe breaks and she is drenched with water after knocking a couple of bikers over the head. Her thin blouse plastered to her breasts still gets me breathing faster even this many years later.

The second is Valentina Vargas in The Name Of The Rose with Sean Connery solving a medieval murder, the scene where she seduces Christian Slater's young monk. She was dressed in sackcloth and dirt and still one of the most beautiful creatures I had ever seen. (Or maybe it was just the sight of a female among all the hideous male characters in that movie.

I'm convinced somewhere there is a warehouse where they keep Ugly Mexicans For Spaghetti-Westerns, and right next to it is another one filled with Ugly Medieval Monks. Where else could they have dug up all those monsters?

From Cervo
Women in Love is at the top of the list of sensual films. My first vague thoughts of oral sex came with Rita Hayworth and Susan Hayward. I still think Ida Lupino ought to be spanked.

For sexy, I must say that as an adolescent I thought Never on Sunday, Two Women, La Dolce Vita, and Eight and a Half were steamy stuff and I still do. Hud gets pretty lively with Patricia Neal and Paul Newman.

I found 9 1/2 weeks erotic but not sensual. One of my great favorites is Forman's Valmont . It's a rendition of Dangerous Liaisons that is also quite funny.

It's hard to make films sensual. The director has to work for something more than a photograph. It is not even so much what is shot as the way it is shot and frame, the juxtaposition of images, and the combination of forces in the image. It is easier to describe in painting. Michaelangelo's paintings are sensual but not very erotic. Titian's are erotic and ironic which makes them sensual.

I saw 2001 the other night again and if you are in to men in tight pants, it is pretty erotic especially considering all that powerful homoerotic fucking between the space ship and its inhabitants. That is a matter of pace and flow of the images.

Hedwig and the Angry Inch which I found delightful and erotically touching.

Purely erotic? The Thief, The Cook, His wife, and her Lover if you can ever see it in its entirety is a tour de force of flesh, pain, ingestion, digestion, expulsion, repulsion and attraction. It is the full gambit of the sensual range presented as an arena of decadence. It is the modern sexual orgy full blown, a portrait of consumption in all its lust and brutality.

From Kassandra
Hmm, sexiest movies... I have to agree with some of the other replies that Bound is up at the top! Gina Gershon is simply HOT! I read that Suzie Bright was used as the 'expert' in this movie. One of my favorite movies is the unrated version of  Wild Orchid . The whole movie oozes sensuality. But the hot scene is when she is watching this black man and woman together

From KMK
Sexy to me, engages the mind as well as the body. Anybody remember the chess scene is the original Thomas Crown Affair? There wasn't any sex going on, but the energy fairly crackled.

From Paul
That scene you describe, KMK, is very sexy indeed. I was impressed with Shakespeare in Lovethe Graduate, the trunk scene of Out of Sight is pretty damned good, but the sex scene I found the hottest of those I've seen was the L ride from Risky Business.

From Stefan
In my opinion, Hollywood for the most part does not have a clue about how to handle sex, eros or sexiness on screen. There are some exceptions of course, but then my sense of what is erotic is fairly out of the mainstream. Movies that dealt with the erotic in interesting ways, for my money, are:
Dangerous Liaisons and The Piano Teacher (not for everyone!)

There are a few others that don't come readily to mind at the moment. I think the main problem that most American movies have with sex is that most American movie makers can't make a movie that doesn't fit a pigeon hole and "erotica" is not a recognized film genre.

From Emma
I forgot about High Art with Ally Sheedy. That is such a good film and raw and sensual as hell, making heroin addiction look very alluring ... but for all that, a great film.

From Ashley
I can't believe there is an on-going discussion about the sexiest movies and no one has mentioned Interview With the Vampire . Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt smoulder. Antonio Banderas looks like a bit of a wanker but what can you expect from a man whose name is an anagram of "O! No! An Arse Bandit!"

From Megan
Body Heat. Sea of Love. Basic Instinct - to a degree. I loved it when Sharon Stone was being interviewed. She crossed her legs, making it obvious she was wearin' nothing but skin. For me, sexy movies have to have a plot ­ if it's a mystery that's even better for me.

And Frank Langella in Dracula.. I still get hot thinking about him and those sexy looks and moves he had. Gave me a whole new sense of who Dracula was. Bela was good, but Frank added the needed sex appeal.

From T
There are some real hot sex scenes already mentioned that I would have to second: Bull Durham, The Thomas Crown Affair, Bound, High Art, Casino Royale, to name a few. Here are some of my absolute favorites:

Swept Away, the Italian film from the 70's, where the cabin boy and the madam of the yacht are stranded together on a deserted island and she becomes his slave. By the light of the campfire he asks her just how committed she is to him. He is on top of her and either pulls out or threatens to if she does not say how committed she is to him. It is so hot, it makes me want to scream yes, I'm yours, just fuck me.

The Handmaiden's Tale with Aidan Quinn and Natasha Richardson (I think). They must have sex that has been secretly approved by their boss, Faye Dunaway.

Rocky, where Sylvester Stallone has Talia Shire in his apartment for the first time and backs her up against the door, sticks his arm out in front of her so as to block her from leaving, leans in very very slowly and kisses her as they slide down the door frame to the floor. I get so weak I can hardly stand it.

Similar scene in On the Waterfront with Marlon Brando and Eva Marie Sainte, where he visits her in her apartment and kisses her.

Nostradamus, the film about the seer. His first wife tries to commit suicide and he finds her and then they begin to fuck. Later, they are in bed in the morning, he has her turned to the side and they are chatting about the day. It is so lovely and comfortable. Then she dies, and after a long while of being alone, a patient comes to visit him. After he gives her a check up, she dresses, leaves, he follows her out into the hall and fucks her on the window sill, pulling up her skirts and sticking it in. So yummy. I couldn't find the exact movie on imbd. I wonder where it went.

And finally, in Quills, where Joaquin Phoenix fucks Kate Winslet on the alter as she is dead and he dreams that she is alive. There is this certain look in his eye that makes me think of this many times when I masturbate.

From Eric
For a long time, I was a fan of some of the films on Cinemax, and then I saw Bliss. My favorite episodes of Bliss are: "Tying Up Gerald", "In Praise of Drunkenness and Fornication" (that drives me WILD!), the one involving the blind piano tuner, and the one about the older woman who finds herself attracted to her son's friend...now that is what I call "Masturbatory Theater"!

From Jazz
I've just looked through everyone's favourite sexiest movies and am surprised not to see the 1970's classic Don't Look Now with Julie Christie and Donald Sutherland. It is such a charged, powerful and evocative movie - scary and sad too - so not everyone's cup of tea (yes, I'm a Brit!).

The 'sexual healing' scene, while the main protagonists are in Venice after the death of their young daughter is intense, credible and, maybe, a turning point in coping together with their grief. You really believe they could be making a new life there and then. Some have even suggested that their lovemaking went beyond acting. Watch it and make up your own mind.

Then bang up to date, lighter, frothier and much less atmospheric - but curiously also partly based in Venice - is the new James Bond, Casino Royale. It is the male lead who, for me anyway, is the actor whose sexuality is immediate and real. In the shower scene, fully clothed with his co-star, Eva Green, Daniel Craig scores 100% on the wet shirt front......at least for me!

[Oh yes, I agree! The shower scene in Casino Royale is incredibly erotic. Director Martin Campbell, is a genius.] 

From Richard
Eye of the needle. Great espionage flix with great sexual tension I believe it was Donald Sutherland and Kate Nelligan

From J.W.
Bull Durham - no question - they are constantly mind-fucking each other in that movie. and when Susan Sarandon is writhing on her bed and Kevin Costner is painting her toenails. Oh my god! that's sexy. They are intelligent and sexy.

I love his speech about what he believes in. hot hot hot.

From John
The sexiest movie from my point of view is 9 Songs, which is about the loving of two people, is filmed with full on uncut sexual acts but the most exciting aspect of this film is the fact that it was a general release and not censored in any way.

From Franco
One that stands out to me is Monster's Ball. Someone mentioned earlier they don't like Billy Bob. But who cares about him in that scene with Halle Berry? I mean, the main thing here is that Halle Berry is naked and getting fucked. Too see the expressions on the face of Halle as she is getting fucked like that is amazing.

From Anonymous
Can any one suggest a list of movies that are free of anal sex, cumshots and other degradation and that have quality acting, plots, costumes, directorship etc... I struggle to find any movie made in the last 20 years that does not have either anal or cumshots or both! Any suggestions welcome. Thanks.

[Two titles come to mind:  Taken has no anal sex or any of the other types of activities that may turn some women off. Wonderland has no anal but still features hardcore action. Browse through Bableland.com's excellent collection of Adult DVDs. They have categories that may appeal to you]

From Anonymous
Alright, these aren't sexy movies per se; they're just movies with particularly sexy scenes in them.

The Life of David Gale - the scene near the beginning where the prof has violent sex with the grad student in the bathroom is SO intense.

Quills - this entire movie is a dark comedy about the Marquis de Sade, in which he is a writer of erotica. There is a scene with a suggested BJ in which there is the cutest male orgasm ever.

Don Juan de Marco - a very mediocre movie overall, but the Johnny Depp seduction scene at the beginning of the movie is SO fantastic. It makes me squirm every time I see it.

I heart Huckabees - So hilarious, the face-in-the-mud sex scene is great.

From John
I would like to offer two movies I do not see mentioned.

Bridges of Madison County, with Merril Streep and Clint Eastwood captured the delightful forbidden naughtiness and sexual tension between two people moving towards sex for the first time. Not much for naked bits but terrific nonetheless.

On a completely different plane Flesh Gordon I suppose this might be soft core porn. Lots of naked jiggly bits, completely silly. Making gentle fun of what is often a funny slightly ridiculous human imperative, altogether just moderately erotic fun. A good way to waste time.

From Paige
I have five I'd like to nominate, and they've all been mentioned by others already except one:

Body Heat, 1981. With sultry-voiced Kathleen Turner and William Hurt. I loved her small breasts and pokey nipples.

Cat People, 1982. Nastasha Kinski's character was so innocent and sexy. And Annette O'Toole as the redhead head was amazing as a plain-Jane. Very fuckable.

Body Double, Body Double, 1984. Raw sex, hard-core.

Tampopo, 1985. A Japanese import. Sex, sex, sex. Sexy, sexy, sexy. Rent it.

Fatal Attraction, 1987. Glenn Close was a wild woman!

From Brian
The Cement Garden has to be one of the most erotic films. High sexual tension from beginning to end

From Bobbie
As a bisexual woman, I was forced to watch a ton of movies I would never have grabbed off the shelf on my own! My ex-girlfriend introduced me to a movie entitled Kissing Jessica Stein. It's a bit of a chick flick, but there is one scene that just melts me all over. It's about a woman and her first lesbian relationship and one of them is an artist and the scene takes place in a studio apartment. The women paint each other front and back and then roll on the canvas. The whole scene is very intimate and they proceed to make love. 

I was so turned on by it that we had to pause the movie to have our turn before finishing! I highly recommend it to any artist, lesbian, bisexual woman or kinky man.

From Aurora Black
Here are my favorite sexy movies along with the specific scenes that generate that special spark for me...

The Lover, with Tony Leung and Jane March. One of my favorite scenes (other than the highly sensual, yet non-sexual hand clasping scene and the kiss on the window) is when the man begins to have second thoughts about making love to the girl (and taking her virginity in the process) but then she takes the initiative and seduces him by caressing him all over until he finally gives her what she wants. Yummy!

Except for the bloody killing part, the opening sex scene of Basic Instinct was hot as hell, as well as the big love scene of the movie. Yes, the pussy flashing scene is what it's really famous for, but strangely enough I found it funny instead of sexy. I'm not sure why.

I prefer Emmanuelle 2 to the original, because I found it infinitely more sensual and the character is very confident and sure of her appeal (unlike the first movie, when she was first beginning her education).

The scene where Emmanuelle and her husband finally make love (after a false alarm that was of course used to build up the tension for the audience) after she returns home from a business trip was a great kick-off for the rest of the movie.

There's also a French film that I saw recently called A Pornographic Affair about a man and woman who meet through an adult magazine and they start getting together once a week for sex at a hotel and eventually fall in love. This movie is nothing like Last Tango In Paris, even though the plot seems similar when you take it at face value.

My favorite scene from this one is when they're making love with her on top (This position holds a special place in my heart, can't you tell? Haha) and he's highly excited from the get-go.

From DjayEm
Mild, yet explicit, the love scene in The Wedding Date has sexual sensuality going for it. From the same movie, the scene where he 'explains' the concept of being a gigolo leaves her (and me) panting for him to follow through...

For those who like going far afield, there's a strange one which is dark as well as humorous, with a disturbing edge, called Montenegro. If only for the striptease scene with the radio controlled tank (how strange does that sound?) where you seriously cannot decide whether to laugh or be aroused.

Also the Girl Next Door, which is an alright movie with alright actors. But the scene where Elisha Cuthbert slowly takes him inside herself, which is cued solely by her eyes becoming defenseless...? That penetration expressed with a single look of surrender almost unglued me.

From Candy
Stage Beauty - I love it when they're rehearsing the scene and there's all this passion and she tries to kiss him but he doesn't get the hint. Him in drag letting the girls masturbate him was pretty intriguing and a little funny. 

Also, I like the scene when he tries to seduce his unwilling lover in the steam room. But perhaps the crowning part of the movie is him teaching Claire Danes how two men make love, and their interchanging of positions . . . Not much nudity or explicitness in this movie, but the whole idea of it all is quite hot, as is Billy Crudup.

From Ashes
Ok... I completely agree with some of these movies.. but what about Cruel Intentions? Reese loses her virginity to Ryan~ Holy shit. Counting Crows in the background, dim, warm lights on them both... and kissing that can take your breath away.

Anything that Angelina Jolee is in is automatically f-ing awesome. If she did a skit on Sesame Street I'd probably still get wet.

Lastly I'd like to mention the scene with Matt Damon and some chick from The Bourne Identity. ok~ Matt Damon can fuck me in the bathroom anytime. P.S. This website is amazing. ya'll are so interesting and erotic.

From Meri
Try In the Cut with Meg Ryan and Mark Ruffalo. Great movie and guys, if you're interested in what we want, this is the deal. Written and produced by women, it's painfully real (go for the uncut director's edition), down to the dialogue, without being sappy. Definitely a good pick. I like my share of out and out smut, but this one had me joining in a few times. Enjoy!

From Patrice
The following is a list of movies that, I think, have the sexiest love scenes:

1. The Lover - the scenes where Tony Leung takes Jane March's virginity and when he fucks her down the step.
2. Sliver - when Sharon Stone has the crying orgasm and when she masturbates in the tub.
3. Sea of Love - when Ellen Barkin has Al Pacino against the wall and is fondling him.
4. Frankie and Johnny - when Michelle Pfeiffer and Al Pacino are in bed and she's exhorting him to scream his orgasm (and he does!).
5. The Specialist - when Sharon Stone and Sly Stallone are fucking all over the place, particularly in the shower. They both had the most beautiful bodies!
6. The Big Easy - when Dennis Quaid is experimenting with finger-fucking Ellen Barkin ("There or there?").
7. Lady Chatterly's Lover (with Sylvia Crystal and Nicholas Clay) - every damn love scene; since this movie was British, they show both male and female frontal nudity. I have an old videotape that I'm afraid to watch and wish I could get this movie on DVD! It is, by far, my favorite.
8. White Palace - when Susan Sarandon fellates James Spader while he's asleep and he wakes up right before he comes.
9. Prince of Tides - when Barbra Streisand and Nick Nolte are fucking amidst the candles and have panting, sweating orgasms.
10. Bram Stoker's Dracula - when Gary Oldman says to Winona Ryder, "See me...see me now!" and he's in that Victorian suit with the long curly hair and the glasses with the blue-tinted lenses. Also, in the midst of the insane asylum when they're kneeling on the bed and she's begging to suck his blood.
11. Immortal Beloved - when Gary Oldman as Beethoven is running after that girl in the woods and she's stripping her clothes off just to get him inside her as soon as possible. If Beethoven was like that in real life, it explains his music; darkly and heavily passionate.
12. About Last Night - Demi Moore and Rob Lowe in every love scene.
13. The Scarlet Letter - Demi Moore and Gary Oldman fucking; very hot.
14. Risky Business - Tom Cruise and Rebecca DeMornay fucking on the subway/El/train.
15.Coming Home - yes, I know it's an anti-Vietnam war movie but the love scene between Jane Fonda and Jon Voigt was scorching. I was in college when I saw this movie and had never seen oral sex. I actually thought it was gross until I saw it beautifully done in this movie. I wanted Jon Voigt to do me!!

And two movies from my high school days

1. Jeremy - love scene between Glynis O'Connor and Robby Benson. My little 17 year-old loins were clenching aplenty.
2. Buster and Billy - full frontal nudity of Jan-Michael Vincent; I had never seen another man's penis until then.

From Anonymous
Bisexual woman one of my fave sex scenes is between two guys in Jeffrey. They're on the floor in blue light...and if I remember correctly, there is no sound - so you can see them talking to each other but can't hear what they're saying. Something incredible about it.

From Anonymous
I've followed this thread and I can't believe no one has mentioned an older movie with Kris Christopherson and Sara Miles...The Sailor who Fell from Grace with the Sea. Seeing it as a teenager blew me away as a young boy through a hole in the wall of his mother's bedroom watches her masturbate. Unbelievable!

From Anonymous
I'm really an addict about having my pussy sucked. So any movie that has a woman being pleasured orally is a turn on for me. Especially if it is a man doing the pleasuring. HBO aired a movie in the 90's starring Bonnie Bedelia as a judge called Judicial Consent. I don't remember the plot, something about her getting involved in an illicit affair that affected a case I think. Anyway, there's a scene in her office when this lover comes in and they begin kissing while she is at her desk. After a while he slowly slides down under her desk and by her fabulous reactions you know he is giving her the most fantastic head from under there. Bonnie should have one an award for her performance. 

If you're like me and love oral pleasure, then you will put yourself in her place and feel the delight of the licking her clit is getting. If I remember there's a moment when her phone rings and she has to talk and be professional while getting her pussy eaten. Boy what a turn on. I must buy that movie.

From Bebe
1) Things To Do In Denver When You're Dead
2) Secretary
3) Sex, Lies, and Videotape  
4) Mary Reilly  
5) Dangerous Liaisons  
6) Cat People

From Suzan
I may have missed it but I haven't seen anyone mention the movie Damage with Jeremy Irons and Juliet Binoche (1992). Altho' the movie has a tragic ending.....I thought the chemistry between them was incredible.

Someone mentioned Lady Chatterly's Lover. The version they are talking about is now on DVD

From Tony
Well, I find what really turned me on is Angelina Jolie film, Gia Gia, when she played the role of a model and was touched by her female friend. It's really hot when you see her making love as a lesbian.

From Anonymous
I think the sexiest movie I ever watched was Cat People. I was seventeen or so and wow, I still remember how I felt after watching it. The Piano had its moments, I also like Rob Roy Rob Roy for the same reasons someone else mentioned.

From Kiki
I love the movie the Titanic. I love the scene when Rose wants him to draw her naked and then they have sex in the car.

From Chick 34
I think that The Notebook is one of the most romantic movies - when he tells her it's not over and they go in the house to make out - what love!

From Joanne
I am a woman who is into thigh high leather boots, tight jeans, and showing off my 36D's with tight tees. Teasing is my specialty. The three sexiest movies I can think of right now:
1. Catwoman - with Halle Berry. There's a scene where Benjamin Bratt is trying to arrest her and she is avoiding his capture- very much a turn-on. Plus Halle in the leathers and heels is very erotic...
2. Sea Of Love - One scene where Ellen Barkin walks into the Deli and has Al Pachino drooling while he follows her. 
3. Grease - Lets face it, the dancing, the music and Sandy's transition into a leather and spandex hottie still keeps the boys (and some girls) excited.

I'm sure there are a few more but this is a good start...

From Andrew
Since this is a popular subject, I will narrow my list down to two films, both foreign in setting or context, but the last by an American director.

Stealing Beauty: Bernardo Betolucci's lush, dreamy epic starring Liv Tyler as a flowering young American tourist trying to find her father and loser her virginity, both at the same time. However, the scene with Rachel Weisz naked at the pool, is worth the rental price alone!

Henry and June: Come on. This film was so controversial they invented a new rating for it! And any movie about the love affair(s) between the two most sexually explicit writers of their times, Henry Miller and Anais Nin, played by Fred Ward and Maria de Medeiros, had better to be controversial. There is so much screwing in this movie, you kind of wonder if Philip Kaufman just used it as an excuse to direct a lesbian sex scene between Uma Thurman and Maria!

Both are a of these films are little difficult to find, but are worth the effort... trust me!

6/29/07

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