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From Anonymous
This is an excellent topic. I've always been a huge fan of erotic movies. In The Notebook, the scene where she goes to his house at night, and there's just an incredible amount of sexual tension. He pushes her up against the house while they kiss, and then he grabs her boobs. And then when they go to the run-down house and he kisses her ear while she's playing the piano. I love it. And of course after the canoe ride when they're drenched and he says, "It wasn't over... it still isn't over!" and rushes to her. I love that movie - surprisingly erotic for PG-13.

Some people mentioned the scene from Monster's Ball, and I just want to say that I think it was the ickiest sex scene ever. Billy Bob is probably one of the ugliest men I've ever seen.

From Henry
Monster's Ball because of Halle Berry and Billy Bob Thornton. There are only two sex scenes between them in the film but each is intense for completely opposite reasons. The first one is explicit, to the point that you truly wonder whether they were actually having sex or not. The second is almost a solo scene because...well, just watch Halle Berry's face. It is so worth it.

From M Christine
I was delightfully shocked when I first watched Baby Doll, throughout the scene when Carroll Baker is swooning from the advances of Eli Wallach (did not think of this guy as sexy before see this). This is dated, so I hope it's mainstream enough for the discussion. I was stunned at how much was implied for a 1956 film!

From Selena
Let's not forget Secretary (in spite of James Spader... who doesn't do much for me) Because Maggie. Crawling. In heels. Yum. Now THAT movie... that's how you do BDSM.  (Sorry 50 Shades...). It was based on a Mary Gaitskill short story I read for a class, actually, in college (something about women and literature and violence I think... we read American Psycho in that class too *shudder*) called Bad Behavior . It was very well-written, but I don't remember the story itself being that hot - weird, slightly titillating I guess, but not actually hot. But Secretary the movie... yeah.  That was hot.

From Rose
I love the ankle grab sex/rape scene on the staircase from A History of Violence. It's a total turn-on and gets everything all tingly.  So raw, so driven, so fucking hot.

From Sacha
While there's more than enough visual gratuity in L'Amant aka The Lover , it's actually the scene in the car where their fingers are touching and he begins to stroke her hand. It's that moment when desire becomes tactile. There are many places on the body where we can connect, but we record so much memory through the placement of our hands.

From Sheila
Dracula with Frank Langella is one of the sexist, erotic movies I have ever seen. The scene where Dracula is invited into Lucy's bedroom for the first time is so sensual I get wet thinking about it. No one is better as Dracula than Langella.

From Victoria
One of my all time favorites is Risky Business when Rebecca first came into the house and asked Tom if he was ready for her? Ready? READY?! Are you kidding? The heat that came off the screen in the next few minutes was enough to melt the film projector wires. When he ran his hands up her body from behind...mmm... well, let's just say I play that part over and over again.

From Huck
The scene in Fish Tank where the daughter is peeking through the bedroom door watching her mother get banged by her boyfriend. The sex is shot in a way that you can't really see anything, but the interesting part is when Fassbender (who plays the boyfriend) notices her watching him but doesn't stop. The scene is shot from the girl's POV and it's all very sexy and voyeuristic and taboo partly because that's her mother in there and also because she's a teenager. Very well done.

From Sabrina
I'd add a vote for the scene in Henry & June near the end in which June Miller and Anais Nin finally, after tons of tension smoldering between them, find themselves making out in bed.  What makes it work for me is the vividness, the attention to detail, and the way that pretty much the whole sexy movie was a buildup to this scene, leading to the release of so much palpable tension it felt like an orgasm even with the interruption that happens.

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