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From Anonymous
One of my favourite positions is when my husband and I are in our spa, facing each other. He picks me up and the water helps him support my weight, he holds me close and I can wrap my arms around his neck and shoulders, and my legs around his hips. This also works at the beach, providing you're out deep enough for the water to support your weight.

From Ray
My wife's favorite position is on her back, legs on my shoulders, feet around my neck, satisfying for her since it gets my cock deep inside her.  For the same reason my favorite position is me on my back and she riding me.  Both also work for us since while she is on her back my fantasy is her sucking off a guest male while for her, she riding me, allows her fantasy of me sucking off our guest male while he sucks her nipples and they do deep tongues.

From Pat
Back in the dark ages, when I was still having sex, I didn't much like to do it standing up, at least not for more than a couple of minutes as part of a variety of positions enjoyed during the session. It's difficult for a woman, especially a heavy woman, to spread her legs and keep her balance while being pummeled from one direction or the other. Usually a wall or a bed or the back of a couch would need to be used for support. Although I must say, I have this large chair with a nicely padded back that's at the exact right height to lean my hips against for a rear approach.

Sex in the shower scares me as there's always the danger of slipping, and to be honest, the heat coupled with the increased activity gets me feeling very faint very fast. So again, a couple of minutes and then I'm heading for the bed. The other problem with standing-up sex is that it's really hard to stay on your feet when you're having an orgasm!

From Dangerous Bill
We've started out in all sorts of positions, but usually move to a bed or the floor to complete the act. Stand-up foreplay generates lots of interesting possibilities, but we've outgrown the notion of trying to out-Sutra the Kama Sutra. Too hard on the older knees and backs.

From Oxartes
We've started out in all sorts of positions, but usually move to a bed or the floor to complete the act. [from Dangerous Bill's entry above] Ditto except for the floor part (we find our tile floors too cold & hard for completing the act).  In our younger and more, uh, limber days, we were more adventurously/gymnastically inclined.

From Jane
Standing up? Isn't that dancing?  Baptists don't like that here in the south...

From Phlye
'Swings,' I believe they're called, seem to provide a competent alternative for those intent upon defying gravity (and common sense). At least while incorporating that device, the 'non-swinging' partner isn't required to provide all support.  All the 'swinger' need do is 'hang around', you might say, leaving their partner to concentrate on important issues at hand... mouth... and any other extremities that come into play.

Yes, for my money, if one insists on doing the 'Vertical Mambo', I'd recommend using a swing, to at least make it reasonably comfortable (for one - or more!).

From Mike
I like to stand when I'm having sex. It gives me a firmer purchase, a stronger thrust and a better view. A good orgasm tends to bend me like a bow being pulled taut. That's easier to achieve if I'm standing. It's not normally feasible for my partner to be standing as well. Nor does it offer the best position.

Sex usually takes longer than the both of us can stay balanced and upright.  So, if she's standing, she's bent over something.  A sofa, the bonnet of a car (hood to you folks who speak American) a sink, or a desk have all played their part.

When she prefers something with a little more comfort, chairs and beds come into play. I love it when she kneels on a hard-backed chair, her breasts hanging over the back, her arse sticking up, where I can circle her and tease her, especially if she's blindfolded, before I enter her.

But my favourite is still the bed. We have a high metal-framed bed that allows me to stand and her to start off on all fours facing away from me. It allows her to fall forward as we progress and gives us both something to collapse on afterwards.

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