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From Mom Of 3
I started a cyber relationship with someone almost 9 months ago. I'm a Mom and have been married for 9 years with 3 children, he is also married with two children. So in complete boredom I started up a page on myspace just to be able to chat/connect with other humans. I came across his and emailed him. He didn't respond for a couple of weeks but finally he did and our relationship took off from there. The first initial months were spent talking about everything from where we are both from to our children to our family life. By the 6th month we started talking about possibly meeting which would be a bit difficult since we live 2000 miles apart. Finally, we planned it...we had only seen each other through webcam and photos sent back and forth and our moment of truth was coming. After all the hours and time that we had spent online or me calling him. I felt that I could have been in love with him and wanted to prove my suspicions by actually meeting him.

So off I went 2000 miles from my home to meet him. The moment I saw him confirmed everything I was feeling. I spent 3 days with him. Completely unforgettable. From the very beginning we always felt that we knew each other. Being around each other, it became apparent that it was true. That trip was definitely worth it. I didn't want to go home after being with him but since my children are here, I had to. We are still in the relationship and I think that it is even deeper than it was before. Our agreement is that our situations will not change. And although I want to be with him every moment of the day, I know that I can't, so I must stay where I am and miss him....however, we talk all day on the phone or email, IM each other as much as possible...but its not the same as being in his arms. I do love him but can't ask for things he can't give me. So we carry on our 2000 mile relationship and plan for the next time that we can be together again.

From Jake
What's wrong MTG is that your gaming world is fake, just images. [see MTG's entry below] Your wife is banging real people who are online - not graphics in a virtual world. Cybersex is sexying with real flesh and blood people, nothing fiction about it. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, good or bad, I'm just saying one is fiction, the other is fucking.

From MTG
I am not really into erotic chat, I have tried it but I am more of a hands on kind of guy. Most of what I do on computer is game, first person shooters and Flight sims. However my wife of many years is quite the chatter. At first it really disturbed me, what she was doing. But one day as I was blowing up a tank it hit me. What was so wrong with this, here I am killing folks in a virtual world. So what so wrong with her banging other guys in a virtual world? At that point I stopped worrying about it, in fact if anything it has improved our sex life. She chats gets really worked up and will occasionally ravage me in a sexual fashion.

From Jane Lane
It's strangely addictive - cybersex. I don't do it now, but I used to, and it's rather safe. the people that I chatted to just wanted to get off quickly, and I had no problem with helping them do so. Cyber relationships on the other hand are like living on cloud 9 when it's good, but when its bad, its bad, don't go there.

From ACat
I found the internet several years ago, looking for something that I could not find in the real world. I met people on chat lines and personals sites, we chatted and had fun joking around. Then I met the man who has become my husband on a bus... long story, but off the topic.

Cybersex is still a part of my life, my husband knows and it has been something we have talked about, and will no doubt talk about more. I have found that cybering has helped me be more open with him about the things I like, and it has also let me fantasise about the things I would never do in real life. Cybersex has let me be the "Do Em All" girl that I am not in real life, and let me see that those movies of the mind are just a part of the animal side of me. I do not need to act all of my fantasies out in real life, when I can set them free in the cyber world, no real danger, no real pain and no real messes to clean up afterwards (except maybe the wet panties).

There are things (in my humble opinion) that can be explored as an exercise for the mind, while never needing to exist in the real world and having input from another mind just makes those explorations more fun. I don't need anyone but my husband in real life for sex, but friends and like minds to talk with are always a good thing. I may even meet some of those friends in real life... but only as friends. Friends are always a good thing I think.

From Izzy
I always suspected that my husband was cheating on me. So one week while he was away I went online to find someone to have cybersex with. He was awesome and we were both turned on and enjoying each other very much. We had phone sex and I had the best orgasm with him. We even had our web cams turned on and actually watching each other pleasure ourselves. It was a lot of fun.  But all became emotional as he's with a girlfriend and feeling guilty about this whole cybersex thing. I don't feel anything at all since I know my hubby's doing something while he's away. I think cybersex is a great release for me. I like it and I'm loving it.

From Anonymous
Several months ago, and quite by accident, I came across an alternative lifestyle site. I was very curious, and found myself registering and setting up a profile. I was amazed at the number of responses I received, but from the beginning was wary and very particular about who I chatted with. Until the day I came in contact with S. Months went by with fairly 'innocent' sharing...stories, experiences, etc. Then one day I was asked for a picture of myself...a no-no since I'd made it clear that I wanted no personal contact and would not even exchange photos. But when this person asked, I couldn't refuse. It was then that we both realized that our feelings for each other had gone over the cyber line...and we agreed to speak on the phone. 

It was absolutely incredible, and we were both so nervous! It went so well that we agreed to meet in person. Long story short, the meeting went very very well, and when we spoke on the phone later in the evening we were planning our next rendezvous. Then my friend got cold feet...felt guilty about something that he shouldn't have - and as of today he is apparently still contemplating. Contemplating what, I don't know...except we went from the top of the mountain to absolute desolation. 

My pride won't allow me to send any more emails or to phone. And my heart is broken. So be careful, my friends...the mental space you find yourself in is just as real as if you're having a relationship with someone in the flesh every day. If this works out, and we somehow manage to salvage what we had until we met...I'll be back to let you know. But for now, I'm not cybering anyone for a long, long while.

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