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From Greg
I have enjoyed reading and participating on some sexual sites on the computer. One however, gave me some extra fun when we started private messaging back and forth. We are both married, and found messaging each other a way to boast and also get aroused by sending information and stories back and forth. A first we wrote about sexual things we both liked and shared stories about having sex with our spouse. I wrote how much I enjoy giving oral sex and the taste and texture of a woman's vulva. She complained about her husband and how he had stopped giving her oral and how much she missed receiving a good tongue licking her pussy. I wanted to somehow give her some nice cunnilingus and she said if I was close to her she would meet up for it.

We finally started to trade some photos of each other and I found that sending her nude photos of myself to be very arousing. Her photos were so hot also and I wanted to taste and feel her nice body, but couldn't, but had a few masturbating sessions with her pictures on my screen. We eventually even did some trading of videos of us masturbating so we could enjoy some mutual masturbation sessions. It was so much fun to watch her orgasm from her touch and I could make myself come at the same time. She did the same thing and would watch me masturbate and dream of my cum shooting on her tits and bring herself to orgasm watching my video.

We finally broke things off, but it was a nice sharing my thoughts, experiences, and pictures with someone else. My wife isn't that open and it was erotic to experience some free sexual thinking. 

From Tom
My wife and I met through a Christian chat room. My sister was having a brain tumor removed and I went into the room to ask for prayers for my sister. B. responded and we started talking and and e-mailing and eventually progressed to talking on the phone. She eventually came to meet me and now we are happily married.

From Cyber Hurt
I was determined never to get involved with a man again after the death of my husband, eight years ago;  well I became lonely and my neighbor suggested I go on line. At first, I thought no one would contact me because I am 62 years old and black.The fact is, I received a lot of interest from both American white men here and abroad (only one black man contacted me in three months), we were not compatible so I decided to correspond with others.

I narrowed it down to two. One became a very good friend, we dated, but nothing became of it, he has just lost his wife and was not ready for a relationship.The other one is married and I don't date married men, so we kept it on a friendly basis. He kept hinting around and telling me how nice I am, and how he really liked me as a person. Months went by and of course we starting flirting with each other. The flirtation became so intense until we began telling each other how we felt about each other.

Soon the web wasn't enough, so we exchanged telephone numbers and we called each other constantly, night and day! We decided to meet each other for lunch, and that's when I got a reality check! One night as I waited for his call, I begin to think about what we were about to do. He had a real life wife, and I was going to interfere with their marriage. I couldn't go through with it, and we decided not to meet.

I am pretty sad now, but I know we did the right thing. The cyber was so great, there is no way we could have kept it platonic had we met! He still wants a picture of me, but that is asking for trouble; I have one of him and that has to be enough, I would never deliberately hurt anyone; I am the one who got hurt here! ONLY CYBER WITH SINGLE PEOPLE!

From Vi
When I was 35 I discovered the internet and a couple days later discovered cybering. I was taken off guard swept into a private room with a wonderful man I still know now two years later. I decided to share this experience with my husband and thought he'd be angry but to my surprise he was turned on and has been ever since. We had always had frequent sex but since that time its been amazing and I've discovered so many things that we now use in the bedroom to make our sex lives interesting and exciting. Yes things can get a bit complicated when you have an ongoing relationship with someone online but for the most part it has done nothing but add to my husband's and my relationship.

From Desiree
I've had wonderful cyber experiences online. I was trapped in a bad, emotionally distant, unfulfilling marriage. I met several men online with whom I cybered and shared what I thought was a real friendship. I eventually met one of these men in real life, and we had a wonderful, passionate affair that lasted a year. I felt as though our relationship had grown from the inside out because we got to know each other so well online. The actual meeting was incredibly exciting and erotic and... just plain wonderful. I know I never would have had this kind of love affair had we not met online.

From Beware
I'm glad so many people have found the cyber experience to be a great...I just want to warn people that not everyone plays nice or is normal. My story starts when I was just playing around, talking and flirting on line. I started a steady e-mail with someone on an adult site, we both got off and continued to send messages over a three week period. She wanted a picture and to meet...something kept putting me off...Finally, I sent her my phone number...I didn't hear anything from her, she said she would call me and give me her number so we could hook up. 

One morning at 5:00 a.m. I got the call I had been promised...she couldn't call me because her husband had been home and return to work that morning. I said I wasn't comfortable with the whole situation and we could e-mail, friends that sort of thing...she went into a rage and said she would decide when it was over. She hung up and started calling my house all hours, when I wouldn't answer, I started getting calls from adult phone lines, asking for me and offering their services. When I received the call from an escort service I changed my phone number.

There are great people out there, I prefer to meet them in person, cyber is a fantasy place where people can disguise who they are and their real intentions.

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