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From Dee
I just experienced my first session of cyber sex a few days ago. I was on a message board on a quiet day off, as I often am, when I became engaged in a conversation with another poster. We talked about pretty much nothing for 20-30 minutes when he IM'd [Instant Messenger] me. Again we IM'd casual stuff for about an hour when the conversation just drifted toward sex. We spent hours having cyber sex-it was really nice. 

He has IM'd me a couple of times in the two days since, but we keep missing each other. I am looking forward to trying it again (he said I was REALLY HOT, which was a very nice thing to hear). I have been divorced for a year and and have had no interest in dating right now. I am not interested in meeting him in person—I just want to have a great time with him on line.

From Carol
Cybersex is masturbation. I thought it wasn't. Then, after more than a year of blind-in-lust typing, and phone-based scenes (I bought a headset so I could have both hands free!), and getting my tongue pierced because he wanted me to, and having him tell me he wanted more, more, more of the porn stories I write because they were so good, I flew from Seattle to Toronto (he seemed oddly reluctant to meet and fended me off for a long time but I finally got him to say yes) and found ... a fantasist. 

He didn't seem to find me personally sexy (that's how it goes; it wasn't his "fault"). And he wasn't really interested in doing many of the things he'd talked about (I'd been giving myself enemas for a YEAR in obedience to his instructions and only in person did I hear him say that he wasn't "all that interested" in anal sex! I couldn't believe my ears and that was his fault. I was out there for a week and he spent more of his time typing on his computer when I was in the room than getting down to all the BDSM I'd flown out there for. It was >>horrible<< for both of us.

If you're experiencing something along the lines of "I've never been able to communicate so deeply with anyone ever before," with an online buddy, log off and go communicate as deeply as you can with somebody into whose eyes you can look. You won't believe me but you can't say you weren't told you could be imagining 90% of everything that seems to be happening between you. I was.

From Izzy
I always suspected that my husband was cheating on me. So one week while he was away I went online to find someone to have cybersex with. He was awesome and we were both turned on and enjoying each other very much. We had phone sex and I had the best orgasm with him. We even had our web cams turned on and actually watching each other pleasure ourselves. It was a lot of fun. 

But all became emotional as he's with a girlfriend and feeling guilty about this whole cybersex thing. I don't feel anything at all since I know my hubby's doing something while he's away. I think cybersex is a great release for me. I like it and I'm loving it.

From Robert
My first Cyber experience was with my now wife. Back when we were first deciding that we liked each other as more than friends. We had been friends for a year and a half when we found that we both had feelings for each other. So we began spending a lot of time together and when we couldn't be together, we were online together. So for my birthday we met for desert and then each went home. We hopped online and found each other. We began chatting and one thing led to another and we had a wonderful cyber experience. And really moved our relationship along.

We used the internet as a safety blanket to discuss things that either we wouldn't say face to face, or to discuss others on a much more honest and deeper level.

We've been together now for more than 5 years.

From Anonymous
Several months ago, and quite by accident, I came across an alternative lifestyle site. I was very curious, and found myself registering and setting up a profile. I was amazed at the number of responses I received, but from the beginning was wary and very particular about who I chatted with. Until the day I came in contact with S. 

Months went by with fairly 'innocent' sharing...stories, experiences, etc. Then one day I was asked for a picture of myself...a no-no since I'd made it clear that I wanted no personal contact and would not even exchange photos. But when this person asked, I couldn't refuse. It was then that we both realized that our feelings for each other had gone over the cyber line...and we agreed to speak on the phone. 

It was absolutely incredible, and we were both so nervous! It went so well that we agreed to meet in person. Long story short, the meeting went very very well, and when we spoke on the phone later in the evening we were planning our next rendezvous. Then my friend got cold feet...felt guilty about something that he shouldn't have - and as of today he is apparently still contemplating. Contemplating what, I don't know...except we went from the top of the mountain to absolute desolation. 

My pride won't allow me to send any more emails or to phone. And my heart is broken. So be careful, my friends...the mental space you find yourself in is just as real as if you're having a relationship with someone in the flesh every day. If this works out, and we somehow manage to salvage what we had until we met...I'll be back to let you know. But for now, I'm not cybering anyone for a long, long while.

From Vi
When I was 35 I discovered the internet and a couple days later discovered cybering. I was taken off guard swept into a private room with a wonderful man I still know now two years later. I decided to share this experience with my husband and thought he'd be angry but to my surprise he was turned on and has been ever since. We had always had frequent sex but since that time its been amazing and I've discovered so many things that we now use in the bedroom to make our sex lives interesting and exciting.

Yes things can get a bit complicated when you have an ongoing relationship with someone online but for the most part it has done nothing but add to my husband's and my relationship.

From Yupp Me
Even after having my girlfriend move in, I would masturbate over web cam for a married woman to see. I could see her eyes widen every time I got it out, it was good.

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