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From Joe P
I have been trimmed up all spring, tomorrow is shaving day. I normally shave my cock and balls for the summer months  and looking forward to the fun of shaving it off. If you keep shaved there is no itch just that great smooth feeling. If you guys an girls are thinking of shaving the pubes I say go for it just maintain it and there won't be any itch.

From Tilley
My answer to this question is bare all the time. I am 24 years old, and have been shaving it all off since I was about 18. It feels so much more comfortable without it, sex is definitely better. By the way, my boyfriend loves the shaven look.

From Carly
My preference is completely bare. I have black hair and when I had all the pubic hair it was so thick and very black so it was visible thru my underwear. I did shave for about a year but then started getting waxed regularly. All of the area is waxed and I feel much better about when my guy goes down because it is smooth and clean for him and I can feel it better. Almost all of my girlfriends get waxed and all of them like the clean look and feel. Laser hair removal is looking better all the time!

From Pat
My wife has always had some pubic hair from the time I have known her. The first time I put my hand down her panties she had a nice bush and when I finally saw her naked, I really likes her full bush. She trimmed it each year for swimsuit season and would shave a nice bikini line. Her friend convinced her to get waxed one year before we went on vacation together and she started getting regular waxes which was very nice feeling her smooth skin and then getting to her patch of hair she kept above her vulva. Then she came home from the spa one time and she had gotton a brazilian. She asked what I thought and I just kept starring and enjoying the view. When I finally went down on her, I was sold on brazillian. She keeps herself like that most of the year and I enjoy the smooth look and feel. Even when it grows back before her next appointment, I enjoy the fuzz as it come in.

One night she joined me in the shower and had a surprise for me. She shaved me bald. I was a little nervous with a razor down there even though I did keep myself trimmed. But when she finished it was so nice and she paid plenty of attention to me giving me oral. I was in oral heaven. The growing back in was unpleasant, and I took the razor to myself to get rid of the itching. But now I keep it up myself and enjoy the smooth feeling, especially having sex with her. I doubt we will ever go back to having much hair. I'm even considering laser for myself to get away from shaving.

From Landon
I'm a guy whose girl shaves for me.  She is blond and when shaved close she looks like she never had any hair and I like the look.  I have shaved her a few times and it's a real turn on.  Recently she realized how much I enjoy shaving her pubes and ask me if she could shave me for the fun of it and to see how I look without hair on my penis. I didn't want to say no as she has always been a good sport with shaving. 

She took scissors placed over a comb and cut me down that short all over my pubic area and stomach. I told her it looked neat and clean and suggested we leave it that way.  She got all like you want me shaved clean but you won't do the same for me.  I was scared it might itch and that's what I told her.  Wrong thing to say to a girl who doesn't have one hair below her head. She said, I'm gonna shave you against the growth pattern and if you don't let me, I'll be hairy forever more.  With that, she got the fusion and did what she said including my butt, belly, chest and underarms. She shaved part way down my legs so I would match all over. 

Then she got her digital camera out and took pictures of me nude and hairless to prove that I once had no hair whatsoever.  She wanted to show her best-friend.  I let her take all the photos she wanted with the understanding I could photograph her nude for as long as I wanted. I made her pose nude in all ways possible, frontal, rear, spread and more. We have a large gallery of nude photos from that night.  She did show her friend and then I waited until Stella was back over and showed her my girl nude and bare.  We're even.

From Andrew
I am 28 and single.  I would have to say that I find a full bush more erotic than a shaved one.  I enjoy running my fingers through it and kissing it.  I don't mind a few hairs in my mouth as I dine.  I also find hairy armpits very erotic and love to lick and caress them.  However, I find smooth legs very appealing but don't mind hairy ones either.  I think body hair is there for a reason and should not be messed with. 

From Brutus
I happen to like a clean shaven or well-trimmed (patch/strip/small triangle) woman's pussy. I have on a few occasions in the past asked my wife to be clean shaven. She tried it a couple times but did not feel comfortable, but she has kept things clean shaven adjacent to her pussy lips and only a patch above her vulva.

I on the other hand have been clean shaven from about 5 inches above my cock to the bottom of my scrotum for years; not because I necessarily think it is fashionable, but to improve my enjoyment of sex. Let me explain. My wife and I have both greatly enjoyed giving and receiving oral sex from the beginning or our relationship. However, anytime my wife got a stray hair (I am hairier than most but not one of the hairiest—from chest to ankles) she gagged or flailed around until she could remove the offender---sometimes multiple times during a single sexual encounter. Very disruptive to my state of arousal.

From Samantha
Ok most girls shave to please their man.  My man likes me as smooth as possible.  I shave regularly but once when he complained that my stubble stuck him I thought he should understand that on workdays I'm too busy to shave.  The weekend came and I shaved smooth for him.  He told me how much he appreciated my clean smoothness. 

I thought just for once I would like to see how he would look shaved smooth. I shaved him clean all the way around and up to his belly button. I like his new smooth boyish look and hope he begins to like it.  I told him I won't accept any stubble stick.  It really looks clean and smooth and I prefer it.

I believe it's good for both sexes and hope it catches on so he won't feel in the minority.  At one time smooth girls were an oddity. Now if they have pubic hair they are different and not groomed. Any type touching or sex is definitely better this way.

From Maisie
Like a lot of women, I used to have my bikini line waxed and trim the rest. Not long after we got married, my husband and I were having a long erotic weekend in bed and decided on a whim to shave each other bare.

Wow!! We never looked back and have been shaved or waxed ever since. Sex is amazing, the feeling of smooth bare skin on smooth bare skin.....and oral is so much better when you're not gagging on a stray hair. As I seldom wear knickers, I also love the feel of fresh air on my smooth bare pussy.

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