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OCTOBER MUSE
Jewelry Is bling a turn-on? ARCHIVES CyberSex Is Cybersex Cheating? A complex issue Real Cyber Experiences Share your story The Global Village Love in cyber-Ssace Is Phone-Sex Cheating? Your opinion please Fantasies Men's Fantasies Men dare to reveal Women's Fantasies Women dare to share Your Fantasy 3some MMF or FFM? The Doctor is IN Imagination gone wild Forced Fantasies Right or wrong? Masturbation Masturbation Memories First experiences Mutual Masturbation Doing it alone, together Your Masturbation Aid Books, videos, toys...? Oral Pleasures Choking, Gagging Blow Jobs What is your reaction? Oral Sex for Her Talk with your tongue Oral Sex for Him How to blow his mind Spicy Sex! Altoids, schnopps, chili? Swallow or Spit What's a person to do? The Taste of Cum Yummy or icky? Orgasmic Pleasures Come on Command Fact or fiction? Cum Shots Messy liquid darts Describe Your Orgasm How does it feel? Faking It Why the deception? Female Ejaculation Penis envy or truth? Your Best Orgasm? Color us curious Sex Toy Topics Ben Wa Balls Bliss or fizzle... Curious About Vibrators Tell us about yours Men's Sex Toys Got any? What About Strap-ons? Everyone's doing it! Keeping Abreast.. Breast & Nipples Do they drive you wild? Erotic Lactation Your thoughts? Male Nipple Play Men, are you into it? The Porn/Erotica Debates Erotica For Men Beer & tits? Erotica vs Porn Are they the same? Porn on His Computer why am I so jealous? Porn Movie Concerns Enjoyment or discomfort? Porn for Women Is there such a thing? Relationship Woes Married And Gazing Does looking = cheating? Men & Women Revealed What you ought to know Older Women, Younger Men Why rob the cradle? Porn and Relationships Hot or not? Why Do People Cheat Is one not enough? Younger/Older Relations What are the issues? The Daily Grind Blind Dates A quick look... Losing Your Virginity Fiction versus reality Meaningless Sex Indulge or avoid? Peeing in Public Bashful or bold? Sexy Mainstream Movies Your choices are? Swing Clubs What's going on? Sympathy Fuck Nasty or noble? Plain Vanilla Sex Hmm, what exactly is that? |
Porn and RelationshipsHot or Not?
From Sue & Phil From Jay From Megan After a night of watching porn, you might find yourself daydreaming about what could happen the next time. Just thinking of things to do to each other could be enough to make you quiver during the day. I went out with someone a long time ago and while the sex was great... I knew something special was going to happen when he lit a LOT of candles, then popped in a porn video. And it set the stage for not only that evening but quite a few more. It was exciting. It was fun. It was definitely satisfying. It's NOT good for any relationship that depends on it for fulfillment; it's not good if one of the partners is obsessed with it. (A sexual addict is NOT fun to live with.) It's definitely not good for any relationship where one partner doesn't enjoy it. Not only do the bodies have to agree, the minds have to do come to terms first. From Richard We're talking about shared porn, I presume? Un-shared porn which results in him or her jacking off in the bathroom can't, I imagine, do much for a relationship, although there are circumstances in which it might be helpful. In describing what works best for me I would hit the porn/erotica debate again, I think. One of the assets to my relationship is that I read my own writing to my wife. Reading to one another is one of the warmest acts of sharing anyway, I believe, innately cosy and intimate, and reading erotica to a consenting partner can be very stimulating to both, especially if the story is something which encourages re-enactment. From Michael First I must introduce myself....I have cerebral palsy and use a wheelchair.....and yes porn is a big part of my sexual life because I cannot get married due to the fact that health insurance companies will not cover me because cerebral palsy started at birth.....if I was injured or something like that after I was born...I wouldn't have any problems. I can't get married because they need to see me as a dependent. So for better or worse I use porn and hookers for my release...so no I can't relate to the married people out there but I do get lucky and get the same hookers so in a way I am in a relationship so to speak and we get to know each others lives; so yes I see them as my friends and not just warm bodies. And now you know me so on to the topic. As I said I love porn on many different levels....it is a good thing. But here is the kick in the head.......I totally agree with all the women who says that hiding porn from your partner is truly a bad unhealthy thing to do and some guys out there will hate me for saying this....Porn under no circumstance should be hidden Guys are sometimes afraid to tell their wives or girlfriends what they really want or need for fear of being seen as a freak or deviant and shunned from the women in their lives Generally women are very open minded about sex....all guys have to do is talk and communicate honestly...Girls don't care about porn as long as they feel they are included and not competing and that goes for competing against other real women as well. As for me personally I need help jacking off so yes my women do that for me and yes sometimes its to porn and sometimes they just talk about themselves and their lives and yes they sometimes get to choose the movie. Guys, believe me on this when they are involved in the process and they feel safe and cared for.....women freakier than us making our fantasies come true by a million. And after the porn and jacking off and sucking on my earlobes yes we have sex and sometimes with the movie still going. But you can't keep secrets from women besides you just might get all your fantasies to come true.
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Down There Fare
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