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The Doctor Is In!
Imagination Gone Wild
Does anyone find the idea of gynecological exams arousing? I ask because recently, I was at a social event and met a man I got along with smashingly. We talked for a while and then my girlfriend of seven months joined in our conversation. Turned out the fellow was her gynecologist.
I thought, "Wow! You've seen my lover's sexual cunt. You've seen, maybe even smelled, her most intimate, private cunt! You know, as I know, that her pussy lips are large, floppy, and lopsided and that she's got a big clit... Heck, you probably know her pussy better than I do with that speculum!"
Frankly, I found myself turned on. I considered asking my girlfriend if I could accompany her to the gynecologist the next time. My imagination ran wild, visualizing her feet in stirrups, her pussy spread wide open, violated and examined.
In the end, I didn't broach the subject with my girlfriend. The request might have seemed like a deep invasion of her privacy. Perhaps a doctor's visit can be a bit too real to be erotic. And imagine how I uncomfortable I would feel if she asked to see me looking undignified during my medical!
But being so intimately exposed for medical reasons - whatever the reason - seems arousing to me. Tell me I'm not weird. —Hugh
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From Joe
My wife has gone to the same male ob/gyn for 30 years and thinks he is the best. He listens, is gentle and ever the gentleman. I think she is dreading when he retires. If there were more doctors like him I don't think women would dread the exam. Granted she does not like the speculum, the finger in the rear and such, but Dr. K allows women to have their dignity, primarily because he actually listens and cares.
From Annon.
I am a guy in middle age and I went to my doctor for a scheduled visit and checkup. I did not know that my doc was out of the office for a few months due to some health problems. His replacement was a woman doctor about 40 years old. She gave me a complete examination including prostate and testicles.
She also retracted my penis all the way. During the retraction, I got an erection! She continued right on and never acted like it bothered her at all. She also asked me if I could have intercourse with no problems. Maybe it didn't bother her but I had to wait a bit before the erection went down. I have never been handled by a female medical person before and it was quite an experience!
From Hal
When she was in her early forties my wife had a hysterectomy, going privately for both consultations and eventual operation. Having been asked to shave herself completely (for the first time) she attended the first examination with her gynecologist, a good looking guy also in his forties.
She said the first few minutes of poking and proding were pretty awful but as she was always very sensitive she became very aroused and claims that he found her clitoris and masturbated her to climax. 'Well, I couldn't leave you in mid air' he said while she complimented him on his technique. What followed is, I think, my wife's fantasy but as she was, still is, a very horny lady I could easily believe that she unzipped him and gave him a full bj as a 'thank you'.
From Ann
My question: why are so many of the women who responded tolerating uncomfortable, impersonal, or downright painful gynecological exams? If your doctor hurts you, tell that doctor to STOP DOING WHAT HURTS. Geez, people. If your doctor doesn't communicate, treats you like a piece of meat, or doesn't care about your emotional and physical comfort during an exam, find another doctor, for God's sake.
My ob-gyn reminds me of my mother: not a very titillating relationship, sure - but guess what? I get an exam every year without dread or procrastination. She guided me through a hellacious pregnancy, treated my postpartum depression, and got my sex drive back on track afterwards. That's a good doctor.
So if pain and humiliation in a clinical setting get you off, my suggestion would be to save it for fantasy land, folks. Buy a mask, a speculum, and some restraints and go to town... but go to your ob-gyn to stay healthy and alive.
And by the way, Jim, [see Jim's entry below] it's nice that having you there makes your wife more comfortable, but you do realize that your other motivation means that you're involving an unwitting third party in your sex life, right? Hardly fair.
From Faith
I have never personally been turned on by my gyno, and I doubt they will let you sit in on her exam, but I'm all for the fantasy. Sounds like you kids might want to get the home game. Stirrups are difficult to come by, but play doctors can improvise with the bed restraints. There is no such thing as malpractice in the fantasy. You should make sure you know your lady at least as well as her gynecologist ;)
From Cat
I've been turned on for most everything, except this. It is cold and uncomfortable. You sit there in the paper robe,waiting for a doctor to come in and probe your pussy with instruments, using more k-jelly than you possibly needed. He (she) doesn't even offer you something to wipe yourself off with.
He pokes around feeling your belly then feels you up like a teenager. The last part I've asked for them not to do and sometimes I slip by. But other times he sticks his finger up my ass. I am NOT stimulated I only want to get out! I go cause it's part of being a woman and caring for my body.
I haven't seen a male gyn since my 30's when the gyn started feeling me up and it certainly wasn't part of the exam. It is so important to do this yearly riual, it could save your life, it did mine. I take it very serious. This is not a turn-on. I wonder if guys think having their prostrate examined is sexy, I doubt it.
From Catherine
I looked at this month's topic and thought to myself, oh wow. Talk about synchronicity!
I had an idea earlier this year to write a short story based on this very premise. In order to make it work, I felt that the patient and the doctor had to have some sort of previous connection -- in this case, she was a former student of his from several years ago, and while there had been a bit of chemistry back then nothing ever happened.
I never wrote it because the reality of a pelvic is pretty boring. The person performing the procedure is usually well inured to the sight of girl-parts. And you aren't there for sex, after all. I couldn't separate the reality of it enough to really get into the fantasy of it. I thought, 'no one is going to think this is sexy.'
Mmmmmm. Maybe I was wrong.
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