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From Mike From Josie After one game my husband suddenly became the focus of one guy's attentions, he very quickly penetrating hubby. He says it was a first and when he noticed hubby enjoying it the other guy would bugger hubby after each game with eventually another guy simultaneously sucking off hubby's erect penis. With most of the men on natural post-match highs and big erections they were either buggering or being buggered/sucking erections, so hubby being buggered wasn't an isolated case. Indeed, he was himself regularly penetrating one or more of the guys in the bath or showers after a game. It didn't make of any the men rabidly gay, softly homo probably, and if the wives accompanied the men on a tour of, say, Australia or South Africa, it was a badge of honour for each of the wives, including me, to be fucked by one or two of the players and I saw nothing unusual in a guy go from penetrating me to buggering hubby and back again to me, just very exciting sexually. From Mike From Martin From Spearwing I happen to be a very dick-focused female; if I were a guy I'd be gay, no question about it. I prefer anal to vaginal far and away, the more so because I can take my man's 10 inches in the back, but not so much in the front. Hubby and I were messing around a few days ago, and he let me climb onto his back and pretend to thrust doggy style. Just the mere suggestion was so hot! No strap-on, finger play or nothing... he doesn't care to have anything touch him there, so just letting me assume the dominant position was a big gift from him. I had completely underestimated the turn-on value of the position. Something about having his ass pressed against my pubic bone and his hipbones gripped in my hands, and my face against his back. It was totally different than any position where he enters me. I won't press the issue, but I have visions of a strap-on in our future, should he make another offer. But I never realized how short I am! I'm 5'5" and he's 6'3", so in doggy position my chin barely reaches up to his ribs. I felt like the dog in that Red Bull commercial. From Doug From CP I don't know if men feel this way about vaginal penetration, but for me, his desire for me to do this is an act of trust and faith that's overwhelming, not to mention the intense sexual high we both get from it. From Moniker I do think he's interested in it, but hasn't found the way to bring it up. I'm kinda shy too, but I'm sure it'll come up sometime or another. We've just started to discuss/try some new stuff...wish us luck. From Bobbie t was a revelation for him, he enjoying it from day one, me finding it very exciting to watch. The big breakthrough came when he, very naturally, for the first time, gave one of our male guests anal. It was of course no different a sensation for him to going inside my anus but it represented a big step forward for him, his excited penis inside another male's anus. After that he became the active partner and provided anal for all our male threesomes, a favorite position of ours being a guest male in my anus, and my husband in his anus. We grew out of our experimental period and I do wonder if my hubby misses male ass. I offer him my anus of course and he readily accepts it and I find it very erotic and very fulfilling. But I wonder if he's thinking of making love not to me but instead one of those single guys. From Anonymous From Scott From Anonymous The other guy is homophobic. Recently on his birthday, I asked him if he trusted me enough to give him a special present. He said yes. I had him lie on his stomach and I began giving him a tongue bath. I ran my tongue down the crack of his ass and he immediately (just like the other guy) raised up his ass, pushing it harder against my tongue, telling me how incredible it felt. He was rock hard and squirming. I very gently inserted a well lubed finger and did the "come hither" motion with my forefinger, feeling the prostrate and began stroking it. His whole body was jerking, as if he was having a seizure and he too was screaming, "fuck me, fuck me!" He had an incredibly intense orgasm, shooting semen all over my sheets! He now wants me to repeat this act each time we get together. I don't think its about being submissive, feminine, being nervous about "turning gay", its simply about doing what feels good between two consenting adults. From Bob I think if you start needing to add special labels to what you do to make something ok or not ok you have problems. Unless you like to feel you are doing something wrong which adds pleasure to the "badness" of what you are doing...that's a whole other game. From Stephen Someone else commented though that sometimes other choices we make block possibilities, and that's what happened for me. I'm with someone else now, have been for several years now, and we're both very happy. However, she's not someone who'd ever go in for backdoor fun with me. But all the other reasons for being with her are very strong and positive, so that's something that I have let go of. Can't have it all. Wouldn't want it really. One last comment, is I've read other postings about anal play where the guys feel they just have to say, "And I'm not gay.." I think that's silly. It's my body, and what feels good to me, regardless of how it happens, is what feels good to me. A loving woman, who's into creating pleasure in my body, is not making me into someone else. Lots of guys on guys like to fellate each other. why not? But because my lover also likes to, she doesn't make me feel gay. She makes me feel great! From Nobilis From Oxartes From Cervo From remittance girl From Bob From Sedona Leigh I'm raising a teenage son - I don't see him having much comfort in the concept of penetration. Even with sex positive education - the mechanics of sex still stick primarily with the rudiments of baby making. His logic complies with the concept that he's got the Tab and she's got the Slot. And I don't think it's much different for girls. I remember in my late teen years having a boyfriend decide he was going to give a good stab at anal sex (turning a pleasurable thing into one of indignation) and getting his shoulder dislocated for his trouble. So I'm thinking I had a huge stigma on it myself. I don't think I was on board with the idea much until my own personal masturbation skills began to broaden in my early 20's. It's quite easy to erase a taboo when you can do it to yourself and come like a rocket. My lovers have told me much the same thing. As to the dominant or submissive nature of the event, it's not really the act but the situation itself that determines that, I think. I have slept with a bisexual man that wanted pretty heavy penetration from a submissive angle. He definitely wanted to be bottom every once in a while and his actions made that clear, not the fact he was being penetrated. Most of my other experiences were often mutual or reciprocated and regarded as serious cigarette sex and extreme bliss was achieved. Maybe I've just not caught up on thinking vertically. From Diane My partner said he didn't think that was true; that men of his generation were taught that this was "a homosexual act" and that "real men" didn't do such things. He said that the first time a girlfriend penetrated him with her finger and he liked it, he couldn't very well run proselytizing back to the locker room, and tell all the guys about the joys of having your anus touched because it just wasn't done. So, I suppose I was wrong about the age thing. But I still find it hard to believe that 20-something guys are secure enough in their masculinity or their sexuality that they are completely open to this sort of exploration and the discussion of it. From Amanda From Bruce I have only done the strap on thing with girls a couple of times, but that has been a great experience. The thought of the reversal of normal roles is a real turn on for both parties it seems, and both girls said it was a long held fantasy of theirs to fuck a guy like that. Do other girls in here fantasise about doing this? From Mich From Tess It just feels good to have it stimulated. Penetration goes beyond stimulation; there are few sensory receptors inside the rectum, just as there are few inside the vagina. It is the actual act of being penetrated, filled, "taken" - that gives the pleasure. The exchange of give/receive is powerful and makes one very vulnerable. I think it takes a huge amount of trust and intimacy for a man to allow (or make a request for) himself to be penetrated. But in my experience, if he becomes comfortable with it, he will not be disappointed. From Peter From R.D. Through the years I continued to enjoy the experience with selected girlfriends who I felt would be open to the idea. Then, nine years ago I met the woman I eventually married. She was into toys, so one night, while she was fingering me, I asked her to fuck me up the ass with a strap on. From the moment I bent over and felt her slide it in, I was in heaven. She has been doing me about once a month or so for the last 8 years. I have been returning the favor as well. What can I say? It's just an awesome feeling. I would love to be able to come without my cock being stroked, but it hasn't happened yet. No worries, the orgasms are very intense. From Kevin If you have never received anal sex and you would like to try... make some preparation. The anal ring needs to used to stretching to accommodate a penis or dildo - otherwise you are likely to find it very uncomfortable. Buy yourself a small butt plug and get used to wearing it... then buy another, larger, one and get used to that. Make sure you have a good water based lubricant - never vaseline. Yes, it is wise to be prepared - you don't want to end up with a mess, so have an anal douche before penetration. The first few times - GO SLOW - whether you're the giver or receiver. And if the receiver says "stop", then "STOP"
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