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From Ralph
After 13 years of marriage I finally asked the question, please finger me! While laying back on pillows in bed with my cock and balls in rings displayed out for the world to see, my wife began to lube by shaft and sack I asked her if she could finger my hole and she said yes! I had a full length mirror on the side and the sight of my naked thighs raising my hips in the air for her to rape my virgin ass while spread eagle was unbearable!  As she penetrated me my cum shot through those confining rings onto my nipples! My arms went numb with ecstasy!

From Paul K
I have been enjoying anal sex for many years, since my wonderful wife first used a vibrator on my then virgin ass. After awhile I purchased a strap-on for her to wear, I can honestly say my wife has a large cock. I really enjoy the pounding she gives my ass, but I have had only one real orgasm from anal sex. And I have been trying to figure out how she made me come without me jerking myself off. Well I think I have finally figured it out.

I have been using a ten inch vibe on myself and normally only get the pre cum dripping from my cock, what I have learned is in order to get the actual cum out is I must go deep in my ass with the vibe until it feels like it can't go any further in then bear down as if I were having a bowel movement. That's when I can feel myself starting to come, not just pre cum but the nice thick man creme starts oozing from my cock, the thick tasty stuff.

From Jonathan (south Africa)
I had no interest in anal sex or being with a man. I then had a massage and the masseur's fingers went between my ass cheeks and past my anus. To my surprise I started getting an erection and every time his fingers passed thru my cheeks I felt myself arch my back involuntary. This happened a couple of times and then he must of realised that I was enjoying it. He then deliberately paused his finger on my anus and each time I pushed back at it. Finally, I could take no more and eventually asked him to put his finger in me. He was obviously very experienced as he got to my prostrate and massaged it. I had the most intense orgasm ever.

I left there with very mixed emotions and questioned my sexuality. After a few weeks I went back for another massage and continued to go back for more. It took about three months before I could muster up the courage and eventually asked him if he would consider giving me the real thing. He obliged and very cautiously and loving broke my virginity. The feeling of his cock in my arse and the banana shape massaging my prostrate drove me wild. I continue to have my monthly massage and of course look forward to being penetrated by my masseur. Sorry that I missed out for so long.

From Stephen
I got into this a few years ago with this woman I knew from the city. I'd been in a sexless marriage for decades... and moving into a much freer relationship meant the door was wide open. We did lots of things, and she thought exploring some backside fun with me was a great idea. We got into it too. I never had an orgasm from it. I think I'm one of those guys where the penetration kind of blocks some of the spiking possibilities (I read about that in Tristan Taormino's book on anal sex), but I liked the feelings a lot. I also got pretty good at doing myself that way.

One last comment, is I've read other postings about anal play where the guys feel they just have to say, "And I'm not gay.." I think that's silly. It's my body, and what feels good to me, regardless of how it happens, is what feels good to me. A loving woman, who's into creating pleasure in my body, is not making me into someone else. Lots of guys on guys like to fellate each other. why not? But because my lover also likes to, she doesn't make me feel gay. She makes me feel great!

From Kevin
Anal Sex for straight men is great. It is not submissive and doesn't make you gay. As with all sex, with the right person, and at the right time, whether you're male or female, whether you're the giver or the receiver, anal sex can be very satisfying. If you have never received anal sex and you would like to try... make some preparation. The anal ring needs to used to stretching to accommodate a penis or dildo - otherwise you are likely to find it very uncomfortable. Buy yourself a small butt plug and get used to wearing it... then buy another, larger, one and get used to that.

Make sure you have a good water based lubricant - never vaseline. Yes, it is wise to be prepared - you don't want to end up with a mess, so have an anal douche before penetration. The first few times - GO SLOW - whether you're the giver or receiver. And if the receiver says "stop", then "STOP"

From Hans
I've been enjoying anal sex ever since my girlfriend put beads inside me. When she pulled them out as I came the feeling was like no other. We began to play with larger objects until she put her entire hand in me. I came like never before. The best part is that she got off on it. That's the key. When your partner enjoys doing it. Since we split it's been hard to find another woman who's into it. I did meet someone who loved strapping one on and we have a 18" double dildo that we both use. It's a lot of fun. I have found that I like really big things in me. She actually put the entire 18" in me. I love women doing me but couldn't ever touch a man. Girls, most men like it. They don't because they think they are gay. Girls like it, are they gay? Play with your man's ass.

From Doug
I can not believe how much I love anal sex, my wife pegs me about once a week. I would never want to be with a man—but my wife wearing a harness and dildo drives me insane. When she fucks me it is so intense. I moan—I tell her I love her over and over. When she first enters me—I go insane until she is done. It scares me how much I love it. My ass needs to be filled at least once a week. I think I am addicted to it. At first my ass was a little sore a day or two after—but a good sore. Now it is not sore at all. Guys if you want it from your wives or girlfriends—just ask. I  am so happy I asked. Best thing that ever happened to me. And my wife loves doing it to me. She can't believe how much I love it. I love her.

From Oxartes
Well, I certainly can't speak for any straight man other than myself. It's not the fear of being perceived (by others or myself) as feminized or submissive but it's the choices one makes about the life one wants to lead & who one wants to lead it with that often obviate the possibility of ever fulfilling a craving or desire to be penetrated. Other desires take precedence over this one and relegate this one so far down on the totem pole of possibility that it's pushed out of reality into a small, well-concealed, deeply hidden section of our consciousness, where it will never see the light of day and indulged only as an occasional fantasy.

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