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Sexy Mainstream Movies
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Blasphemous Fantasies
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Could You, Would You?
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Forced Fantasies
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Men's Fantasies
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Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some


Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Private Moments Masturbation
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Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?

Taking Care of Business
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Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

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How to blow his mind

Swallow or Spit
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The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?

Orgasmic Pleasures

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Describe Your Orgasm
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Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Oral Sex or Intercourse?
What is your preference

Remember Your Best Orgasm?
Tell us about it

Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?

Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?

The Daily Grind

Horny at Work
What's a person to do...

Swing Clubs
What goes on at these places?

Anal Sex for Straight Men

A penetrating question

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From John Filip
When I was a boy I was given enemas to keep my bowels open. I never let on that I found it enjoyable. Later on I built a tree house and found some items that would work for anal toys. I kept these in the tree house and one day a girl climbed up and caught me having fun. she began helping me with the anal penetration and it was very enjoyable until her uncle came up there and started using his hard penis inside me. From that time on I have been bisexual and open to about any kind of sex. Swinging is now a big part of my life. I wear a butt plug as much as possible and sleep with one at night.

From Ken B.
I was married and had never had anything up my anus but, a dr.'s finger during a physical. My wife had the box the Joy of Sex and I read that some men liked to have a finger on the prostate during a blow/hand job.   Well the wife was giving me oral one day and we had talked about it and as I was about to come she put her finger in my anus and hit my prostate and I had an orgasm like NEVER before. Not only in intensity but, the amount of cum. Every now and then we do it and I usually get the same result.  

I have NO interest in anything bigger than a finger though. She likes a finger but, that's about it. We did anal a few times but, she was not a big fan. Plus one time my penis had a mess on it and that was a big turnoff to both of us.

From J
I recently discovered that I like my wife to do me analy but have no interest in sex with a man. However the thought of being done while I do her sounds fun. Still don't want to have sex with a man though. Are there any toys out there that might do that for me?

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From Nobilis
A friend of mine recently said something like "Any guy who likes his asshole touched is a little bit gay." I ripped him a new one, don't worry, but my point is that it's a fairly common prejudice. Lots of men harbor a secret fear that they might be "a little bit gay". That fear causes them anxiety and even pain that's hard to encompass in words.

From OldNavyDude
Since my wife and I have been together (for less than ten years), we have gone from straight sex, to her doing the bi thing to the strap on for me to wanting me to be with another guy, still working on that one to her latest fantasy, finding a wet nurse to feed me. The subject of strapons came afet some movies and some wine. We had had anal sex and she got really excited about it. We went to Dallas and found some stuff on Cedar Springs and tried it out. She got a little pissed at me when I was getting into it too much and she was working too hard fucking me. Hey babe, pounding pussy or ass is hard work!

Anyway, we keep it ready and when she is in the mood or I can talk her into it, especially after a session of her dry nursing me, sucking those great tits, she is up for anything. When she isn't in the mood, a good suction dildo, a hot shower and a lot of lube does the trick. In fact, I had a nice fuck and stroke session this morning. Hoping tonight she might want to break out the toys and pound my ass proper.

From Jack Ensuck (D.C.)
Love reading these post, gets me nice and stiff to know I am not alone in all the anal sex play.  I love when my wife eats my ass out, then fucks me.  I have my own toys, one which is damn near exact replica of my cock, so it's really nice to know I can handle it, as my wife handles me inside her ass.  Unlike some of you, I do want a real stiff, warm cock inside me, and my wife and I talk about it alot - She is turned on by the idea.  Toys are great, but I have to imagine the real thing is that much better.  

Don't feel I am gay, don't find men attractive, but damn sure love the idea of being fucked by a real cock, at least once.  My wife is bi, so get my share of sharing girls, we just need to get a dude now, and let go of all the gay straight bs, and have us some amazing pleasure.  I guess I would say I am Bi ? or at least cock fascinated.  Thankfully my wife and I have such an awesome relationship, we don't hide this stuff from each other..

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