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From Veronica
I prefer oral.  My orgasms are inconsistent when it comes to intercourse and usually have to involve additional separate clitoral stimulation.  Oral works for me every time.  I also enjoy feeling like the man I'm with thinks I'm worth doing this for--that he's willing to give me this gift that doesn't directly benefit him the way imtercourse would.

From L0V3R
Honestly, I'm not a fan of being sucked off by my girl. Over that, I certainly prefer intercourse, with her on top. She knows exactly how she likes it and coincidentally those moves work wonders for both of us.

But over intercourse, I REALLY love giving head. Don't ask me to explain why. It's the whole package of sensations I guess. From sight to smell to taste, I love her cunt. I remember ejaculating without even touching myself from eating her out the first time.
Maybe it's also the feeling of accomplishment, because that's what I am better at than her, as opposed to rocking the bed.

From The Husband
After nearly 40 years of marriage, nothing beats intercourse as the full-bodied expression of your love for each other. It's fortunate to occasionally come together during intercourse, so much the better! Holding each other tightly, feeling the urgency of each other's nearing orgasm—tongues licking, fingers teasing—and then thrusting together deeply as you explode inside her, well for me that reminds me of how much I love her and she loves me.

But for sheer, raw, hot, self-serving orgasms, oral sex is the best! Early on, before we were married, we taught each other what we liked best. My wife was a great teacher! There is just nothing like the sweet taste and aroma of her wet pussy! I love licking her gorgeous labia, looking up at her and being so aware of her pleasure as I part her folds with the tip of my tongue. When she's really, really aroused, her clit is noticeably hard and I know I need to suck it and lick it, then back off, then do it again… really teasing her until I take her all the way. Her heels kicking into my shoulder blades as she screams out and thrashes on the bed makes me so very horny!

This is part of what makes oral sex so great…. You are completely giving to the other person, totally for their pleasure. It's a wonderful and beautiful gift that is intended solely for their enjoyment.

From A Male Viewpoint
I had an affair with a married woman who once casually mentioned that her husband would be happy with (receiving)  oral sex exclusively.  Well, I like it all, but prefer having my cock sucked as foreplay.  When I want to come and ejaculate, nothing even comes close to the feel of a tight cunt.  As for giving, that's a different story.  I like giving cunnilingus a lot!  I like it all, the look, the smell, the taste of a woman's pussy.  I like to help her have mind blowing orgasms and feel her clit pulse against my tongue and her cunt squeeze my finger(s).  And after giving I always have a more intense orgasm.  This isn't all in my mind either.  After licking pussy, I'm practically squirting pre-cum, and when I finally release my semen, my load is bigger and juicier than a quickie, for example.  But that's just me.  Everyone is slightly different.

From Stacy
Oral is good, intercourse is nice, but vibrators rock my world. (my fav is the Mystic Wand). Which means put all three to good use, and sex goes into orgasmic heaven.

From Pat
Well, if I had to choose one or the other for the rest of my life, I'd choose oral in a heartbeat. I get orgasms from oral, where I don't from intercourse. At least, not the same kind or intensity.

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