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From Anonymous
I love the stretched-hard softness of the skin on my man's cock. Running my tongue along the edge of the tip turns me on, especially that tender little V on the underside. Mmm. I also love watching his balls tighten in anticipation.

My live-in boyfriend of two years has never come during oral sex with me—I've only gone down on him as foreplay or to tease him the middle of sex. He's gotten very close before, but we always go for penetration. Maybe next time I'll try something different.

From Joan
Ah, yes, JS [see entry below], your honesty is refreshing and I thank you for it. No, I'm not fond of the experience. I don't find having a fat long thing filling my mouth, bobbing my head up and down like a jack-in-box, gagging my throat, sucking till my cheeks hurt and lips go numb, and then flooding my mouth with slimy goo. Not fun. 

However, I do enjoy having my pussy licked, so what it comes down to is very simple: fair is fair. If I want mine, alas, then he gets his. However I have to admit licking that results in a wet chin is a hell of a lot easier then sucking that results in a mouth full of slimy goo. I guess life isn't fair after all, and it's still a man's world. 

From Mani
My wife not only sucked my penis she was an expert in sucking my balls. Many contributors to this website only mention wives/partners licking their balls. It is actually a fantastic feeling when individual or both balls are sucked. It's simply mind blowing. The faint tinge of pain adds to the fun. I used to tell my wife to suck as hard as possible. She told me that she loved the softness of the balls. Most of the time she would alternate between my penis and my balls. I in turn returned her favours. We had a lot of fun.

From JS
I don't see many comments from men giving head to other men. There is one by Lloyd and his affair with Tommy, and Lloyd says that he enjoyed the encounter. I would like to see more from the bi and gay members on how they feel about giving head. Do they really enjoy it?

I ask because I had a recent encounter with another man and I was rather surprised how turned on I became with him. We met at a wedding party and I guess both of us had too much to drink. We were sitting in swing on the patio talking and he suddenly reached over and grabbed my cock. My reaction was not one of shock because I rather enjoyed his touch. Pretty soon we were stroking each other through our trousers. He suggested that we move out into the yard where no one would bother us. We did. He knelt in front of me, unzipped my fly, and proceeded to suck and lick my cock, taking it all in his mouth. The fear of someone finding us this way, the feelings of guilt mixed with the most imaginable pleasure of having a man suck my cock heightened the joy.

After it was all over, he stood up, unzipped his pants, pulled out his cock and suggested that I return the favor. To my surprise, I did.

I have mixed emotions about the process. I did the best I could, taking it all in until I gagged; but I kept stroking and sucking until he came in my mouth. It seemed like an hour. I cannot say that I found it to be sexually stimulating, in fact thinking about it later was really negative. He enjoyed it, but I didn't.

I am really turned off by the thought of giving head to another man. I don't see how anyone can be fond of the experience. Do women really like it?

From Anonymous
Oh, where to start? There are so many different techniques, I guess it's kind of an individual thing. Obviously sucking it all the way down, with balls and below manual stimulation is generally not something guys complain about. I just sort of alternate techniques and go with whatever seems to be up there on the vocal meter. 

Whatever I do, as long as there's a healthy combination of tongue and hand action (including inner thighs, ass, belly, etc), it's usually pretty well received. Sometimes moderate downward pressure on the bladder area as I'm sucking up and down works well, too. Mix it up, see what has his ass practically off the bed for more, and go for it!

From Anonymous
After many years of marriage, I have recently began a sexual relationship with a new man. After performing oral sex on him, I can't believe I wasn't doing this before. Perhaps when I was younger (late 30's now) I fell into the "good girls don't" trap, but I never enjoyed it back then. Now, to have my new lover express how well I performed is quite thrilling.

I can't even say that there is any technique involved, just exploration and being passionate about my lover's enjoyment. I am very eager to practice on many lovers as the man I am currently involved with is very open and himself enjoys many partners. There is a young man with whom I met on a message board who is coming to visit my city and I have agreed to have a drink with him. I anticipate being very turned on by the thought of sucking his cock all during drinks and may indulge my fantasies.

From Sassy
Okay I'm a professional phone sex operator and I have been called up by numerous women asking me how to give their man head. Well it just happens I love to give head in real life. So this question is easy for me. Here is what I tell them.

I always ask if they like the taste of cum or are they scared or dislike it. Me personally I don't have a problem with depending on the man. So if you answered that you don't prefer cum in your or on your face. Buy yourself some flavored condoms. Why you ask? Because what if a man got you right to the point of coming then stopped, it would totally piss you off right? Okay then....they feel the same way. If they have a condom on you will not have to stop.

If you answered you're okay with it then this is gonna be more useful than if you don't. Now how is your gag reflex? If it is sensitive you will not be able to deep throat. Now here is a secret that most women don't know about. If you will take the head of the dick in your mouth going down the side of your throat you can get more in! The gag reflex isn't triggered so quick if you take the dick in along the side of  jaw, note: you must open your wide as to not rub his cock along your teeth that is not pleasurable. If he is well endowed then you must make up the for the lack of mouth space with your hands. Ladies, that is was the hands are for...use them.

Now for the ones that do not have a fear of cum.

1st you are going to need some cough drops (halls) or alotids. Why? For the elevated pleasure. Now when you have them in arms LAY HIM DOWN, this helps your knees and control of him. Men have a tendency of trying to screw your mouth. It is a natural movement so we can't fault them but we can help control the issue. Now get his cock semi-hard it is easier to get started with a semi-hard than limp. TIP: do not talk while getting him semi-hard. Why? because I'm gonna teach you how to make it instantly hard as soon as you place it in your mouth. It works every time!

Now when it is semi-hard take it into your hands and get it right to your lips kiss it then breath OUT when you open your mouth this sends a warm, wet breeze across the head and then SLOWLY began to wrap your lips around it and move it to the back of your throat...he will more than likely be moaning at this point. Your mouth will feel like a warm, wet pussy. The further back you go the hotter your mouth is; in turn, gives him the same sensation of having his dick in your pussy. When you have all of him in your mouth SWALLOW! This causes the muscles in the back of throat to contract and close (tighten) around his dick.

Now back off of it slowly as well. So here you are with his wet hard dick in your hands hopefully you have noticed how much of his dick is left (if any) when you deep throated him. If any is left that is where your hands will play a great roll because you are going to stroke what is left with just your finger the index and thumb. Why just those? because placed just right with the  right amount of pressure will make his knees buckle if he was standing. I have experienced legs shaking.

Okay now you are going to place just your lips around the head and began to suck. Take one hand and start to massage his balls. Then slowly move your head into this body while sucking and massaging his balls. When you reach your depth pull back while sucking, now with your other hand place your index finger on top and the thumb on the main vein on the underside of his penis apply pressure almost like pinching and stroke up and down make sure to time it with your head motion.

Now you are gonna have to time your breathing as well. You can breath in while you have a mouth full of dick because your throat will be closed as will your nasal passage. So breath out on the down and in on the way up. Now go up, and down in 1 down 2 up 3 down 4 up on 5 deep throat and hold while sucking hard for at least 10 seconds. Repeat for 5 repetitions.

After, take the tip of your tongue and trace around the head of the penis and then wrap your whole hand around his penis and apply pressure with your tongue all the way to his balls. After reaching them take them into your mouth and began to roll them around in your mouth and suck on them while stroking up and down on his dick. Tighten and release your hand this will feel great to him.

After about 10 strokes LONG AND HARD (pull up long, and go back fast and hard). Trace the main back up the same way you came down. Now that you are at the head suck just on the head and  use your finger and thumb to stroke VERY FAST (as fast as your hand can go) up and down the shaft while sucking on the head. I promise you will hear sounds you have never heard before if this is done correctly.

Continue this until your arm tires but pay attention closely because they have been known to come when this is done. Ladies if you pay attention you will know when they are about to come and won't even have to speak. Their dicks gets harder!

If you want to prolong this blowjob there is a trick for that as well. If you are moving at medium or fast pace. Take extra long and  slow hard strokes and stop sucking just stroke when you feel the dick go down from being rock throbbing hard ...continue! Now if he hasn't lead on he is anywhere near coming, STOP, open the cough drop or alotids place in your mouth get them super wet then place it between your tongue and the main vein on the underside and if you can roll your tongue as you start to take him in your mouth when you get him all the way in your mouth hold it there (loosely) for till you feel the saliva build up in your mouth. Then swallow and suck while pulling up. This will cause a sensation that he will instantly fall in love with. It will get sticky from here but go up and down on him sucking until the cough drop or altoid is gone.

If he hasn't blown yet...you can then hold his dick loosely in your mouth and shake your head causing his dick to tap the sides of jaws and you can hum as your do this and it will send vibrations up and down his dick. WHICH WILL MAKE HIM SCREAM. Remember to massage his balls when you are sucking. MEN LOVE THIS!

If you can pay attention to his body and notice when he is about to come.. you can deep throat him and swallow. This will cut down the taste and surprise him; HOWEVER, if you happen to have one of those men that comes a river your best bet is to deep throat swallowing then come back up or you will get choked.

Now girls with flavored condoms you can do all the above except the cough drop trick. You might want to try ICE because he can feel that through the condoms and trust me it won't make it go down. I hope this has helped ya'll.

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