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From Joan
No, I'm not fond of the experience. I don't find having a fat long thing filling my mouth, bobbing my head up and down like a jack-in-box, gagging my throat, sucking till my cheeks hurt and lips go numb, and then flooding my mouth with slimy goo. Not fun. However, I do enjoy having my pussy licked, so what it comes down to is very simple: fair is fair. If I want mine, alas, then he gets his. However I have to admit licking that results in a wet chin is a hell of a lot easier then sucking that results in a mouth full of slimy goo. I guess life isn't fair after all, and it's still a man's world. 

From Anonyman
When I was in my twenties, I dated an upstate New York farm girl, a voluptuous bisexual blonde who was temporarily living with her parents. One night, I was visiting and the weather turned so bad I couldn't drive anywhere, so her parents said I should stay the night. My lady friend and I got really friendly on her parents' couch after they went to bed, and she ended up taking out my cock and giving me one hell of a blow job. Her parents could have come downstairs at any moment, but she was not to be denied. After I came in her mouth, she kissed me and I tasted myself. Then we went upstairs to her bedroom, where she had a huge mirror on the wall. I watched her suck my cock again and she watched herself as I came all over her lips. It was a night I'll never forget.

From JS
I had a recent encounter with another man and I was rather surprised how turned on I became with him. We met at a wedding party and I guess both of us had too much to drink. We were sitting in swing on the patio talking and he suddenly reached over and grabbed my cock. My reaction was not one of shock because I rather enjoyed his touch. Pretty soon we were stroking each other through our trousers. He suggested that we move out into the yard where no one would bother us. We did. He knelt in front of me, unzipped my fly, and proceeded to suck and lick my cock, taking it all in his mouth. The fear of someone finding us this way, the feelings of guilt mixed with the most imaginable pleasure of having a man suck my cock heightened the joy.

After it was all over, he stood up, unzipped his pants, pulled out his cock and suggested that I return the favor. To my surprise, I did. I have mixed emotions about the process. I did the best I could, taking it all in until I gagged; but I kept stroking and sucking until he came in my mouth. It seemed like an hour. I cannot say that I found it to be sexually stimulating, in fact thinking about it later was really negative. He enjoyed it, but I didn't. I am really turned off by the thought of giving head to another man. I don't see how anyone can be fond of the experience.

From Guesst
I love sucking and teasing and kissing my man's cock. I love licking it round the tip and up and down. And rubbing it on my tits and around my mouth, on my face. Oh! I get so wet. Sometimes I just pump it with my mouth while flicking my tongue around at the same time and he comes in my mouth and I swallow. I would be very disappointed if this aspect of our sex life was gone!

From Todd
I will say that I have never had a BJ and only once did my girlfriend try but barley got past the head of my cock before she almost choked. She doesn't even like the thought of the experience of me possibly coming in her mouth. She had a guy do this to her and she doesn't like the idea at all now and I respect her wishes. I however have wanted to try it on a guy I knew in middle school 23 years ago but have no idea were he lives now. If I did find him I would ask him if I could. I practiced on a dildo well over 3 dozen times that was like a real cock and got a real thrill out it. Then I got rid of it and now I wish I hadn't because I would really like to suck on it as it is very erotic too me when I masturbated. It was a real turn on when I would stick it onto the bathroom mirror and also open the medicine cabinet for a profile view. Talk about erotic, watching yourself going back and forth on a dildo, wow. Or sometimes I would put it on the bedroom closet door mirror waist high and get on my knees and suck on it there also erotic too me. I am thinking of getting another one but don't have the money right now. Damn but I get turned on just thinking about.

From Kif
I had never really been much into oral sex until I met my ex-husband. He really craved it and at first I was to shy and insecure. But after a while I realized how much it turned him on and I started really getting into it. Our favorite position was me laying down with a pillow under my head and him kneeling at my head. I would suck on his hard cock while he messaged my clit. I could come 2 or more times before he did and when he would finally come I was in a position to swallow it all. He loved being able to look down at me while he was in my mouth and see me arch every time I came. He had a great view and I had a great time.

From Anonymous
Sally [see Sally's entry below], I don't think you're weird, I think you're smart to be concerned about STDs. This is a very real concern, and everyone should really think twice about who they're going down on. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship with someone who has been tested negative for STDs, be sure the guy is wearing a condom before you go down on him. There's a lot of info on the 'Net about oral sex and STDs. Educate yourself, then you can make wise decisions. The risk of contracting HIV/AID via oral sex is relatively low (but not rare). However, Genital Herpes, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, NGU, and Hepatits A are all easily contracted via oral sex. 
http://www.managingdesire.org/sfdphoralsex.html 

From Sally
I don't know if I'm just weird or paranoid but I really don't like giving or receiving oral sex mostly because I'm afraid of diseases. All my friends and guys I know give and receive oral sex and don't even think about whether they would get a disease or not, but I do. So when a guy asks to go down on me I refuse, not because I'm self conscious, but because I'm afraid I'll get herpes or something and I don't like giving head because I'm afraid I'll get some oral STD...ahh I'm just weird what do you guys think?

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