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From Trish
John is absolutely right! [see entry below] Become the pussy! There's no greater pleasure than to receive the appreciation of a man's mouth all over my pussy. It shows an indescribable craftiness I must admit, a lot of men don't have. By the way, the way I score my SO has been in the time he takes to prepare me for my "treat", and if he's doing it just for me or for us. Creativity always gets bonus points.

From John
As for tips, I have just one: get into it! Lose yourself in the act. Every woman that I've ever discussed this with has informed me that they can tell when their partner is enjoying him/herself. I believe that is the key. Devour. Taste. experience. BECOME the pussy. Use the force Luke.

From Lookin'
I love having my pussy appreciated! I have found however that the way in which I love enjoying sex in general has changed as I have changed through the years. Sadly my husband refused to listen to my subtle verbal direction and my definite physical direction several years ago—something that eventually led me to not enjoy sex anymore at all and much to his chagrin, we have not had sex in quite some time. 

My problem is that he would envelope my clit with his mouth and proceed to make some kind of a vacuum during which he would vigorously use his tongue to beat my poor clit into submission. When I was younger I enjoyed this vigorous stimulation, but through the years I discovered that slower and softer was better!  He chose not to listen and frustratingly reverted to his hard suck method no matter how many times I eventually pleaded with him to "listen" to my body during our physical interactions. Now I'm left with an unsatisfied pussy and fantasies about a man who with enough experience to satisfy and be satisfied!

From Marilyn
My last boyfriend was practically a virgin when we met. He had been celibate for 7 years and was not experienced at giving oral sex. He liked it and said he'd do it anytime, but he was very goal-oriented and disappointed when I didn't come from it. As I get older (I'm in my early 30s) that seems to get more difficult. I'm not worried about taste or smell, but his wanting to make me come so badly makes me unable to do it. I bought him a book called She Comes First, and he tried many of the techniques but I never had an orgasm. Maybe I need more foreplay. I hate when men dive right for the clit with no warm-up. We aren't like you; women take longer to heat up.

[Marilyn, there are significant women experiencing the same pressure. Read Faking It: Feeling Pressured to Come?

From Liz
I'm 50 and hubby is 52 and we enjoy active sex. I enjoy fellating my husband (and swallowing) but expect in return him providing me with not just bags of TLC when sucking me but also a good technique that reflects his desire to go down on me and want to love me with his lips, teeth, tongue and to bring me off lovingly in his mouth. I hate being rushed and expect my husband to make love to me at my pussy with his mouth just as I do when I suck his cock. I am not an expert but get the distinct impression that oral sex is a one-way street for most men - the few men I've experienced in recent years (in addition to my husband) are not very interested in cunnilingus but arrogantly expected me to fellate them. The fact that I did (and enjoyed it) indicates that too many women are not prepared to demand a pleasurable and satisfying oral in return from the man they are sucking.

From Anonymous
I'm 20 years old and I just gave my virginity away not too long ago. To the guy I gave it to he never gave me head. I enjoy watching porn it turns me on. So I wondered why not. but then again our sexual experience was mostly him being mean to me and yes asking but there was no play involved or actual emotions put into the sex. He just wanted to please himself and didn't care about me. Looking back on that relationship, everyday I totally regret giving him my virginity. But that is done and over with. I can't dwell on the past.

My current boyfriend is 29 years old. We had been friends for a while and so I was comfortable sharing with him everything. So then we start messing around and he asks me if he could eat my pussy. I'm like what? you mean you want to lick and eat the juice out of me. Well sure. As mentioned I like to watch porn so I knew what it looked like, just never experienced it. It was the best feeling ever. His soft tongue licking and then fingers rubbing at the same time. Now we have been dating for a month and a half and I get my pussy eaten every time we are alone. I also have started to fantasize about trying different things. I have also given him head and he likes it.

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