Older Women, Younger Men

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From Andy
For me, as a healthy male, this is the only way to go! I love mature women in so many ways; they are totally wonderful! I seek women well over 50 because they are the best lovers.

From Anonymous
Why would an older woman want to seduce a younger man? I'm surprised that question is even being asked. Younger men are in their sexual prime and appreciate older women simply because older women are not "silly." We know what we want and that's not whether they have a car to take us to the Mall. We have our own car, our own homes, our careers, etc. We aren't hung up on, "will you love me tomorrow?"

Some men my age (I'm a fit, 58 with a young attitude) have erectile dysfunction, a bad attitude about women their age, pot bellyies, high blood pressure, poor hygiene, and the list could go on. They are the ones who want a young, stick thin girl! I'm just stating facts folks, based on my experiences.

I have seduced two younger men and the sex was incredible and they were sooo appreciative. One when I was 33 and he was 21 and the latest, he's 23. Hhe's got a beautiful body and an open mind.

From Dan
A few years ago my wife, then 54 and two years younger than me, and I separated after our marriage of 23 years had apparently failed.  She moved out to an apartment and our only contact was via acrimonious emails which eventually tailed off as we both got used to living apart.  We did get back together again and I learnt that soon after the separation my wife met a 28 year old guy at a party and began a sex-based relationship.  She was at first cautious at this young man's interest in her and it was after she had learnt a lot about him from conversing with him during their dates that she agreed to a weekend away with him.

It was, as they say, an epiphanies moment with my wife describing the sex as 'absolutely mind-blowing'.  From being a frigid wife in our marriage she went to a lustful slut (her words) as this young man with his good looks, good looking body, great personality, horniness, and ability to go 'all night long' unlocked my wife's suppressed sexuality.  She admits she went over the top and sex became a drug with him coming round to her apartment on most evenings for either a 'quickie' or an 'all-nighter'.  It didn't take long before she was receptive to his suggestions that a friend of his joined them for a threesome and for the first time in her life she was doubly penetrated, enjoying every moment of it, the threesome repeated on a number of subsequent occasions.

Whatever the reason, boredom perhaps, she and I began to talk again, and a reconciliation was discussed.  She suggested that we should go away for a weekend to 'discuss things'.  I was aware that I was being put on trial, including possibly my prowess in bed.  I did not let myself down.  I had spent my year or so apart meeting my sexual needs with hookers so in bed my wife was very surprised at my sexual awareness and ability to go 'all night long'.  So, in summary, I don't believe that sex alone saved our marriage but my wife's re-introduction to sex by an athletic young man was key in her re-evaluating our marriage.

From Julius
I seem to have used this plot idea in several stories. It never occurred to me to ask "Why?"

Perhaps it's because the young man is more pliant, fitter, has more stamina, or is less demanding and less critical. Most of all: he's there.

It's great for a woman's ego, satisfies an immediate need, no ties, no guilt; it fulfills a mothering urge. I wonder why it never happened to this older man, even when he was a younger man.

From remittance girl
Sad to say, I never, ever fantasize or have been attracted to younger men. I don't even like the way they look on that very visceral level of "oh, look, FLESH!"

And actually, my story, "The Changeling" came about because I have noticed that I've started really eyeing up very middle-aged, rather portly men. Weird, but there's something very present and concrete about them. Could be that they're just taking up more space? Who knows?

From Nancy
Why would an older woman seduce a younger man? Because we all want to feel vital and attractive and sometimes seduction can equate to affirmation.

From Dangerous Bill
Why would an older woman seduce a younger man? Let me reword that for you: Why wouldn't an older woman want a young, virile, muscular man with hair who doesn't need Viagra and who is more likely to adapt himself to her needs? A lot of older men come with pot bellies (blush), wrinkles, stodgy attitudes, a TV habit, no hair, and limp noodles. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to keep their weight down, exercise, read Cosmo and other sex manuals, and mix socially. Some hormone replacement therapies turn middle aged women into sex machines (ask my wife the Warrior Queen).

Plus, there are more widows than widowers as time goes on. In Green Valley, a senior development near Tucson, the over-fifty women are renowned for participating in obsessive exercising, dieting, belly dance lessons, and all those other good things, as part of the fierce competition for the relatively small number of available men.

I know that all the way from pubescent youth to my current geezer-hood, I've appreciated women of all ages. In fact, women from their forties on up are vastly more interesting and experienced than bubbly teenagers or career-bound twenties.

From Tess
I asked my husband and my son their thoughts on being seduced at eighteen by a woman in her fifties. They both said, "No way in hell."

My husband said at the age of eighteen, he might have considered being with a woman as old as thirty-five, if she had certain characteristics. And my son? Well he said, "No way, I ain't interested in no old person - over 30 - no matter who they are."

My oldest son is twenty. He has friends from age fifteen to twenty-eight. Since he turned seventeen, the thought has often crossed my mind that if I were in the market for a fling, some of his friends could be potential partners. BUT... my maternal instincts just can not allow me to "go there" beyond the basic realization of the possibility (because these boys are no longer technically minors).

Eighteen? Eight-fucking-teen? Even nineteen or twenty? Come on. These guys are still kids. Yeah, they're horny. Yeah, they go to war (stupid). 99.9% of them would love to bed an older lady. Being seduced by an older lady is a timeless fantasy for most young men. It's not molestation. It's legal, and it's probably some good sex. Still, for me, no woman over the age of 30 should be seducing a man below the age of 20. Of course there really can't be a hard line cut off for such things. There MIGHT be an eighteen to twenty year-old man out there that is mature enough for such a seduction. And there are plenty of thirty-year-old men who still aren't mature enough to handle a seduction from an older woman (and never will be).

With all that said. I turn forty this year, and I can easily see myself seducing a young man in his mid-twenties. Just a ball park age comfort level for me. He would be no younger than 25. As for the age limit on seducing an older man? Hell, as long as a man is willing, he's never too old. He doesn't even have to be potent, so long as he can use his hands and tongue.

From Garce
One of the memories I have from high school was of a woman named Mabel whose lawn I used to mow. She was maybe in her mid-50s to late-60s, which is ancient to a seventeen-year-old boy. But she had boobs like Anna Nicole Smith and she wore these tight sweaters all the time. I had fantasies of being seduced by her, but of course it never happened. But it sticks in your imagination.

From Rose
A woman in her fifties is often on the same hormonal roller coaster she was on in her early teens, except now it's multiplied to the power of, oh, say 10. Add to that the fact that she has no fear of getting pregnant or worrying about what her virginal girlfriends will think of her, or whether the boys will call her a tramp. What's going on is she's horny beyond belief and thinking doesn't really have a lot to do with it. When you are really, really horny, just how much thinking do you do?

Is this an ego issue? Of course. In this youth-and-beauty-obsessed culture, women in their fifties are generally considered to be dried up has-beens. The post-menopausal are seen as undesirable for any number of reasons. Being considered undesirable doesn't stop a woman from having desires, however. And if someone, young hunk or not, considers her desirable, the boost to the ego is beyond description. Suddenly, she's eighteen again and she feels beautiful. (Throw in love on top of that and you probably have the most powerful force on earth.)

What sort of woman would want to do this, you ask? Well, how about a living one? By which I mean there is no "sort." The only restrictions would be the ones she places on herself because of her own personal socio-cultural and/or religious code. As for what would she be looking, well she could be looking for any number of things. A really terrific fuck perhaps, or physical intimacy (and I'm not just talking about sex; I'm talking about touching, just plain touching). She might be looking to feel alive again. Once you get to a certain age, you face the fact that there are more years behind you than ahead, and you just want to do all the living you can before it's over.

From Amanda
I've never been brave enough to seduce a young man, but I've been seduced by men younger than me. When I was thirty-six, one of my best lovers was a twenty-one-year-old named Mike. He gave excellent massages and stayed hard forever. Later after I married my husband, Mike shared our bed a few times before he got hitched and became monogamous. That's how I experienced my one and only double penetration, and there's nothing sexier than seeing two men fucking too. Phew, thanks for the memories.

From Garce
This makes me think about seduction and what is erotic. When I was younger, there was a woman much older than me who had a huge impact on my life as a kind of teacher. She got me interested in the life of the mind, though nothing physical ever happened between us. Over the years I've often wished there had. She had a formidable rack, and a sensuous mind. I just didn't know what to do. My point is this:

I never ventured to make a move towards her in that way for fear I would be rejected or worse lose her friendship completely. But I think this is part of the soul of seduction and the soul of what is erotic, this vertiginous fear. Not only with a stranger, but even with a husband or wife. Because you never know what will happen, even when you're married. You reach out, and you might connect or get pushed off. I think that is the thrill and maybe the motivation for a lot of hanky panky that goes on. You let go of the trapeze and see if the other person is going to catch you or let you drop.

Ladies, the young man at the door admiring your nipples might be thinking of reaching out and embracing you just to see what would happen next, but might have been afraid you'll scream. The thrill is in that 2 foot gap between you and him and to see what happens next when you reach across it. To me that is what's sexy. It's not sexy when you win. It's sexy when you don't know if you're going to lose.

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