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Inside the Erotic Mind

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Sexy Mainstream Movies
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Blasphemous Fantasies
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Could You, Would You?
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Forced Fantasies
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Men's Fantasies
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Women's Fantasies
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Your Fantasy 3some


Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Private Moments Masturbation
The secret to happy monogamy?

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Swallow or Spit
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The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?

Orgasmic Pleasures

Cum Shots
Cupid's liquid darts

Describe Your Orgasm
How Does it Feel? Don't be Shy...

Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Oral Sex or Intercourse?
What is your preference

Remember Your Best Orgasm?
Tell us about it

Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
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Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?

Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

Younger/Older Relationships
It's complicated...or is it?

The Daily Grind

Horny at Work
What's a person to do...

Swing Clubs
What goes on at these places?

What's The Name Of Your Dingle?

We promise not to laugh...

Ladies and Gents, we're burning with curiosity; what is the name of your dingle? How about your partner's sexy bits, surely they have names also. Tell us, we promise not to laugh...

My ding a ling, my ding a ling, / I want you to play with my ding a ling... —'The Ding-a-Ling Song' by Chuck Berry

Talking about dingles and such things...

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Bright Desires

From Clair (UK)
I call my boyfriends "Popper" because when I first saw it, it was soft and when he is soft it's just and I do mean just 1.5 inch and circumcised which is really unusual here in the UK. I nearly cracked up laughing but I kept it together somehow! but within seconds it grow to well over 6.5 inch and a fat 6.5 incher as well my eyes nearly popped out of my head "like where the hell did that come from" My pussy is called "poppers little play pen".

From Ol' Rocker
You'll only get this if you're old enough to remember the novelty pop song from the late 1950's - early 1960's:  "Flying Purple People Eater".  I lovingly refer to my cock as the One-Eyed, Unshorn, Throbbing Purple Pussy Pleaser. I could parody the whole song.  "Who loves short shorts?/ Throbbing purple pussy pleaser..." etc.

From Polly Pres
My lover and I have favorite names for our sexy bits. I call his cock my 'One-eyed trouser snake' and he refers to my pussy as his 'Favorite rabbit hole' When his trouser snake is in the rabbit hole he says it has gone to ground.

From San Francisco Femme
With my last lover my pussy was Moneypenny, my tits Shaken and Stirred, and his dingle?  James, of course.

From Jimi
My wife's boobs are called Boom and Bust, only because she has always had a liking for push-up bras that emphasis her ample tits, get all the guys eyes popping!  Her pussy is called Grand Central, has a tat there of an old steam train, copied from Bob Dylan's Slow Train Coming album, an in-joke for us.  Her ass is called Black Hole.  She calls my cock either Suck Stick or Probe, my balls are Laurel and Hardy, no name yet for my ass hole!

From David (SC)
When we were dating my wife and I named my dingaling and her thingaling.  Irving Bocephus Britt for me and Guinevere for her.  IBB was supposedly some great local lover with a big schlong, and I wanted a queenly name for her love nest.  We still refer to Irving and Guinevere quite often.  It is a kind of code word for asking for sex.  "Irving wants to know if Guinevere is available for some recreation tonight?"

From Anonymous
My penis and I share a nickname. Back in college, I was changing in the locker room with a couple of friends. One of them pointed to my uncircumcised penis and jokingly asked what was up with the "Worm hanging off your dick." He was referring to the protrusion of foreskin beyond my glans which is definitely on the long side and yes, does look kind of wormy. "Looks like fish bait," he said. Thus the nickname Bait was born -- and pretty soon most everybody was calling me that, even those who had no idea why.

At first, this was pretty humiliating. But I got used to it. One major moment of embarrassment happened when my Dad asked why everybody was calling me Bait. Rather than go into a, um, lengthy explanation, I got up the balls to just drop my pants and show him. "Fish bait," I pointed to my foreskin. "Get it?" Given he was circumcised, it's not surprising that his response to this little show and tell was, "Holy shit," which cracked me up. Next day he offered to pay for a circumcision! I, of course, refused. 

From Oz
I went with my best friend when he got his dolphin piercing - that's a double prince albert cock piercing - and christened his penis Flipper forever. As we waited the 6 weeks for the piercing to heal up I would ask "how is Flipper today?" and he'd either grin or curse.

In retaliation for the nickname he gave my pussy the name of Cheshire - after the Cheshire Cat - because I love Alice in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass.

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